"Can I Kiss You?"

[Sean O]

http://www.sosuave.com/romance/david/art104.htm

I stumbled across this tip just now. It seems like a cool idea, but do you think that asking a girl if you can kiss her would come across a little AFC-ish, or do you think you could pull it off if you "delivered" it properly?

 

[immrtlwun]

That one is all about the delivery. How you say that determines so much of how that works for you.

I prefer more subtle kiss tests, such as the brushing of the hair or one I used the other night, kissing her hand and then based on that reaction going in for the real kiss.

 

[Alfie Crew]

I go with the "Do you want to kiss me?"

 

[Wonderbread166]

This one's fun.

You: "Let me ask you a question... If I was going to kiss you right now, on a scale of 1-10, what would I give it?"

Her: "I dunno.."
You: "Well, let's find out.."

Her: "7/8/9/10"
You: Are you sure you can live up to that?...Prove it.

After, you can give her a somewhat low grade, such as a 6. The next kiss will be even better.

 

[Confident1]

I like to lean in a few times, pretend like I'm interested in what they're saying, and see how she reacts, tease her a little. Then I'll do one of two things, I'll lean in and kiss her lightly on the lips, or I'll just say in the most arrogant/impatient/ what the **** are you waiting for tone: "Are you gonna kiss me yet?"

 

[Soprano]

ive never asked g, for me a kiss is just somethin that happens

 

[shydude]

SAy something like "I know u wanna kiss me but its to early" then kiss her!!

 

[dannowillbookem]

its called 'the kiss test'

youre sitting/walking. you reach over and play with her hair a little. you say something like "your hair is so soft" or nice or pretty or whatever and if she responds positive, keep playing with it a lil, then pull in and kiss.

i've only had to use it twice or so (i usually just kiss them) but its worked when i'm not quite sure about a girl