Can I get Asian girls as a black man?

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Korean girls are really Into black guys




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So far I haven't gotten anywhere with any Asian girl I've approached recently. But most of them are at least friendly and open outside of American Asians and Chinese Asians.
 
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I'm currently talking to a Japanese girl. I've banged around 5 Asian women this year too. Once I tell them my career and what I drive, the whole racial barrier drops for them lol. I find them much easier to date than white women because white women only care about having a black man as a tool in their tool belt against society and pvssing off daddy, so they don't care as much about SMV/money. Being a bum will work on white women, but it won't work on Asian women lol. Do the exact opposite strategy for them.
 

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Update: I went on a date with a Japanese girl this year, so it is in fact possible.

My evolved opinion is that Koreans and Japanese are friendly enough to black people that it's possible. But every other kind of Asian I've encountered is basically impossible (with the exception of a hood Asian that loves rap music or something)

A black guy I know had success with a girl from Kazakhstan but I haven't seen them to be any different from the other Asians.
 

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I was stationed in Japan and black men were seen as in vogue. They were right
 

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Im Black. Dated a Japanese girl in the states. And my homeboy who lives in Korea has even gotten with girls in the entertainment industry.. Ill just leave it at that. *wink*

Its not hard dude. Especially when you go to Asia. Now Asian girls raised in America? Europe? Naaaaah. They're basically white girl 2.0 as my Korean friends (actually from Korea) told me in Seattle. Dont bother. They are more whitewashed than white girls. Per Jesse Pinkmans post.

Im not even attracted to Asian americans. Ill be in Canada soon so many they are different up there but highly highly doubt it. Long story short if shes not from Asia born and raised and has been in Americas/Europe less than a year she doesnt count.

Ive heard some Asian Europeans can be more chill but I havent encountered many when I was in Europe.

As far as white chicks wanting to get back at daddy being with brothers I dont buy that. Yeah for sure maybe the super liberal tattooed up nonbinary identifying chubsters with borderline personality disorder. But thats all women like that.. A lot of white guys just dont understand most millennial/gen z white guys just dont have the rizz. Theyre whiney and bitchy. If they are masculine they are hella insecure. I saw white boys all over Europe trying to seem 'cool' just talking to me. I heard rap in Moldova even.

When I was in Poland I saw dudes girls legit want me even more when they saw their men get insecure around me or the African dudes. There are plenty 'alpha' white/black guys. But thats not whats pushed for whiteboys especially in the 2020s. Youre either the sperm donor and walking wallet or a soyboy. Similar to us black men having a bad image.

White guys kinda have it rough in the sense they arent much better off than us stereotype wise.Youre supposed to be Mr.Biggs. A provider. Your own women see you as someone to either give them kids or provide them the lifestyle they want. But few genuinely desire/lust for you more than they want that $$$ and to sit on their butts when they get with you.
Black guys have it rough too, but we know a woman really rocks with us if shes willing to uproot her culture, family and more just to be in a interracial relationship with us.

Youre a white man. You better have it all! Or youre a failure. And dont get me started on non white women who want white men. Youre just a sperm donor so she can parade around your offspring like its a zoo exhibit its whole life.

"Get white man give me mix kid!!"-Some Asian gramama talking to her daughter.

Us Black guys get used no more or less than White dudes. Asian dudes however.. really have it rough. But their power lies in their strong social networks and stable households. Middle east dudes have their women most in check, I admire that. Latino bros I really like since we relate a lot to them. Theyre cool people and know the struggle & hustle.

We are all in the same boat.
Keep your head up bros.
 
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I'm from Montreal, born and raised. I haven't seen that many black-asian couples, I see 1-2 sometimes, but 40%... I don't in which part of Montreal you live but you exaggerate. Most asian girls are in the west part of the city: mcgill peel guy atwater lionel and on the orange line somewhere, they usually stick together.
It was boulevard stlaurent between Sherbrooke and prince Arthur.

The rap club scène

I live on orange Line, you right but thinks are changing... All the Brossard Asian Guy i know are with White girls (5 couples)
 

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I have a passion for all things Asian: anime & manga, Japanese and Chinese food, Korean webtoons, anime music, kpop girl groups, Asian porn, etc. However getting Asian girls has so far eluded me, they don't particularly like black guys from what I've heard and seen.

Any thoughts on how I as a black man can get Asian girls?

Side Note: I like Latinas the most, it's not necessarily relevant to this thread but I thought I'd mention it.
If you are asking, your frame is off (not overall but regarding this question).

Also consider that if you think Asian girls elude you (or don't like black dudes), that will happen. It becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy.

If you train your mind to think the opposite, "I'm a black dude who attracts Asians," your person will follow suit. You still have to put the work in. Just forget what people may think - who cares - and definitely try to forget about others' obsessions with "race" (as far as that's possible in the US).
 

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I lived in Korea for 2 years and I can safely say those YT vids about Korean nationals wanting black men are total BS. From what I've witnessed first hand is that most of the ones that do are wanting to become US citizens and dump you after the 2 year naturalization period or just a phase of curiosity that doesn't last long.

Your best bet is to focus on the asian women that hang with the HipHop crowd, they are there for a reason.
 

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Your best bet is to focus on the asian women that hang with the HipHop crowd, they are there for a reason.
That's a bad thing to hear that black men have to settle for trashy koreans. No different from hearing the same here in the west "just settle with the trashy fat white women."
 

Do not be too easy. If you are too easy to get, she will not want you. If you are too easy to keep, she will lose interest in you. If you are too easy to control, she will not respect you.

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That's a bad thing to hear that black men have to settle for trashy koreans. No different from hearing the same here in the west "just settle with the trashy fat white women."
Realities man, if he's a smooth brotha with game skills the world is his oyster, but if he's struggling the best thing is to increase his odds.

...and it's not just Koreans. but any asian female that's down with the HipHop scene is going to be more receptive to black men.
 

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...and it's not just Koreans. but any asian female that's down with the HipHop scene is going to be more receptive to black men.
Being down with the hiphop scene still does not mean they will go after black people. I know tons of white girls who listen to hip hop who still hang off the arms of white men. They're more likely to have those black people as orbiters.
 

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Being down with the hiphop scene still does not mean they will go after black people. I know tons of white girls who listen to hip hop who still hang off the arms of white men. They're more likely to have those black people as orbiters.
Listening to hiphop and being down with the scene (hanging in the clubs, socializing with black men) are two vastly different things.

The simple fact is they will be more receptive, at least by association and environment. To deny this and label black men as orbiters shows you don't have much experience with either subject.

I do.
 

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Listening to hiphop and being down with the scene (hanging in the clubs, socializing with black men) are two vastly different things.

The simple fact is they will be more receptive, at least by association and environment. To deny this and label black men as orbiters shows you don't have much experience with either subject.

I do.
I don't deny they will be more receptive. But being more sexually receptive is an entirely different thing. Women believe they want one thing but their actions will contradict it. Always.
 

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I don't deny they will be more receptive. But being more sexually receptive is an entirely different thing. Women believe they want one thing but their actions will contradict it. Always.
Dude really? You're going to try to split hairs on this? You know what I mean by receptive.

Every rep you make on this thread shows more and more that you have very little experience with asian women and the HipHop scene. Let it go.
 
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