Most women when they go to the clubs they go to have fun with their friends and that’s it, they may go further, but generally their friends will **** block most guys anyway, also if she keeps getting approach by guys that don’t get it she will see you in a better light day by day, and finally most guys in the clubs are to afraid to approach so it won't really ever be an issue unless you do something really stupid.vagrant said:Is it okay for your girlfriend to go out clubbing with friends? I haven't been clubbing myself so I don't know what to expect in there.
I don't know about the accuracy of that percentage but the question still remains as to why you wouldn't go if you're concerned.vagrant said:i just had this thought in my head where you go to a club and meet a lot of people, grinding on the floor and even kissing. i just thought that when someones goes to club it's like 90% that a person might do something that's against the relationship.
If she comes back at 5am bowlegged, dont ask too many questions.vagrant said:Is it okay for your girlfriend to go out clubbing with friends? I haven't been clubbing myself so I don't know what to expect in there.
i think that metaphor is spot on! Sure, when she goes out to a club the temptations (the juicy steak) will be there, guys will be approaching her, offering her drinks and what not. But if she is a loyal girlfriend (a "vegan") it won't matter, right?Effington said:Would you put a quality steak in front of a vegan and leave for a few hours?
While he's at it, he should make sure she has a pack of condoms, and that her pvssy is freshly shaved.DavenJuan said:a comic that i saw a couple months ago ( Sherly Underwood) said it best...
a CONFIDENT MAN is the guy who when their gf tells them they are going out with her girls will MAKE SURE she is going to be the best dressed in the club, has money in her pocket (if she needs it), and gives her a kiss while telling her to have a great time.
not the latter
That last part reminds me, OP, How much do you trust her friends?drak_ool said:i think that metaphor is spot on! Sure, when she goes out to a club the temptations (the juicy steak) will be there, guys will be approaching her, offering her drinks and what not. But if she is a loyal girlfriend (a "vegan") it won't matter, right?
of course, the situation becomes more complex when alcohol is involved... You say you ve never been to a club, but has she? is she used to drinking? I still think that a girl who is not ready to cheat on her man won't do it no matter how drunk she is. On the other hand I've hooked up with enough girls in relationships , and the most common excuse they came up with in front of their boyfriends was "sorry, i had too much too drink".
in the end it comes down to how much you trust her (and how drunk she gets)
lol i knew that i was setting myself for this response.JackPrescott said:While he's at it, he should make sure she has a pack of condoms, and that her pvssy is freshly shaved.
If she needs to go clubbing, WITHOUT the boyfriend, she is on the ****hunt.DavenJuan said:lol i knew that i was setting myself for this response.
your missing the point however. what that is saying is questioning your women about WHO, WHERE, WHY, ETC. when she is going out is a definate set up for a miserable failure.
at this point, the relationship as somewhere ALREADY taken a bad turn if you find yourself in this position.
a CONFIDENT man doesnt worry about her going out clubbing with her girls. if he does, he is either with the wrong girl or needs to look in the mirror.
it looks insecure, and definitely not positive.
Clubbing is something people do to engage in shallow superficial flirtations with the opposite sex that can lead to flings and one night stands and f'budies.vagrant said:Is it okay for your girlfriend to go out clubbing with friends? I haven't been clubbing myself so I don't know what to expect in there.