LostAndConfused
Master Don Juan
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- Jun 22, 2007
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OK, so I know that in order to fix any problems that you have, you have to first know what it is right? Well, thats my problem, lol. I don't know what the problem is... I'll rail off a few things that I know I've got, and I don't see why things are working for me...I kinda need help on this because I'm lost and confused (lol).
*Charisma? Well, I can sure as hell hold up a conversation among the best of them, but I can read people well and I know when they don't want to talk to me. I can talk to just about every guy there is around my age, but whenever its around girls they just dont work. (Maybe I've got a anti-chick magnet or a d1k magnet or something?).
I know in the past I've gone a little too far with negs, but recently I've been able to use some pretty good negs that get fairly good reactions...but as I've said before after I get said-good-reaction girls just put their attention to something/someone else.
*Looks? I know they aren't everything, but from what I've heard (and it's not much, mind you), I'm a very attractive guy.
*Charming Behavior (like smiling and stuff)? Well I've got a crazy stupid sense of humor so I'm always laughing and making folks laugh. Maybe I laugh too much? When I'm around friends (and thats often), I'm almost always laughing my ass off at something I said or something one of them said. Don't get the wrong idea, I don't have a forced laugh that comes off as weird/fake.
*Confidence? My confidence is pretty high (thanks to you guys here!) but of course, as with most people it has its lows. I'm still caught in that AFC-vicious cycle of having low confidence because of lack of experience with women (kinda like the stereotypical girl who eats lots of ice cream because she's sad, and shes sad because she's been getting fat by eating lots of ice cream). Of course I break out of it as much as I can, or at least attempt to do it.
Usually my confidence plummets when I see an AFC doing all the wrong things (that I've been taught, and that make sense to me) with girls and they still get more action than I do. For example the other day I saw this short scrawny little kid (like 5'4", looked about 14) hook up with an HB7, who looked about 16, and after they were done kissing he showered her with compliments. If it were possible to SEE an AFC aura, this man would be visible from around the world.
Don't really get why I don't have girls approaching me, or at least being able to hold up a conversation with me . ANY help is GREATLY apreciated!
*Charisma? Well, I can sure as hell hold up a conversation among the best of them, but I can read people well and I know when they don't want to talk to me. I can talk to just about every guy there is around my age, but whenever its around girls they just dont work. (Maybe I've got a anti-chick magnet or a d1k magnet or something?).
I know in the past I've gone a little too far with negs, but recently I've been able to use some pretty good negs that get fairly good reactions...but as I've said before after I get said-good-reaction girls just put their attention to something/someone else.
*Looks? I know they aren't everything, but from what I've heard (and it's not much, mind you), I'm a very attractive guy.
*Charming Behavior (like smiling and stuff)? Well I've got a crazy stupid sense of humor so I'm always laughing and making folks laugh. Maybe I laugh too much? When I'm around friends (and thats often), I'm almost always laughing my ass off at something I said or something one of them said. Don't get the wrong idea, I don't have a forced laugh that comes off as weird/fake.
*Confidence? My confidence is pretty high (thanks to you guys here!) but of course, as with most people it has its lows. I'm still caught in that AFC-vicious cycle of having low confidence because of lack of experience with women (kinda like the stereotypical girl who eats lots of ice cream because she's sad, and shes sad because she's been getting fat by eating lots of ice cream). Of course I break out of it as much as I can, or at least attempt to do it.
Usually my confidence plummets when I see an AFC doing all the wrong things (that I've been taught, and that make sense to me) with girls and they still get more action than I do. For example the other day I saw this short scrawny little kid (like 5'4", looked about 14) hook up with an HB7, who looked about 16, and after they were done kissing he showered her with compliments. If it were possible to SEE an AFC aura, this man would be visible from around the world.
Don't really get why I don't have girls approaching me, or at least being able to hold up a conversation with me . ANY help is GREATLY apreciated!