can any1 help me

[bamboozled_panfish]

Hey guys,

Can any1 help me wiv this problem.

I asked out a girl in September who was like my best friend (we had known each other for years). She said yes, but then changed her mind 2 weeks later saying that we should "LJBF".

Soon after that, she totally ignored me, and blanked me and told all her friends lies about me that weren't true, until at Christmas, when we both got talking (but she didn't seem that interested, and didnt look at me when i was talking to her). I said that I didnt want to be friends wiv her because she treated me really bad.

So then this year, I've been trying to ignore her and forget about her (which is hard because we bump into each other twice odd a day, all she does is scowl at me like she did before). Well, today I had a lesson at college with 6 people in, and I had to sit next to her for a whole hour, but she couldn't even look at me, or say anything to me, and we both just sat like that for an hour or so? I don't know what to do, because half of me feels like saying something, but I'm sure she wouldn't be interested.

It's just awkward because I'm going to have to sit there for 3 odd months like that?

Any ideas?

 

[Legend]

I wouldnt sit by in her class......this sounds like a situation i was in. I ended up dropping the class because i was sick of seeing her face.

I say get over her and dont go out of your way to talk to her. If she talks to you...be friendly and keep it short.

Dont waste ur time trying to get her again, thats the mistake i kept on making. I was foolish i know, but im a much better person now because of it.

I know what im looking for in a woman, if i get any red flags, im done with her. This girl is giving you lots of red flags.....sitting in class not even looking at you once? I mean give me a break....shes needs to get over herself.

You dont need a chick like this. Avoid her at all costs.

Good Luck

 

[JackPrescott]

Originally posted by bamboozled_panfish
Hey guys,

Can any1 help me wiv this problem.

I asked out a girl in September who was like my best friend (we had known each other for years). She said yes, but then changed her mind 2 weeks later saying that we should "LJBF".

Soon after that, she totally ignored me, and blanked me and told all her friends lies about me that weren't true, until at Christmas, when we both got talking (but she didn't seem that interested, and didnt look at me when i was talking to her). I said that I didnt want to be friends wiv her because she treated me really bad.

So then this year, I've been trying to ignore her and forget about her (which is hard because we bump into each other twice odd a day, all she does is scowl at me like she did before). Well, today I had a lesson at college with 6 people in, and I had to sit next to her for a whole hour, but she couldn't even look at me, or say anything to me, and we both just sat like that for an hour or so? I don't know what to do, because half of me feels like saying something, but I'm sure she wouldn't be interested.

It's just awkward because I'm going to have to sit there for 3 odd months like that?

Any ideas?

1. When you are hit with "LJBF" it means you wont be removing her panties, EVER. Get used to it.
2. "Next" her. Move on, act as if she means nothing to you. Ignore her every single time you have class, and date other women.

 

[NewMan]

What problem?

The only problem here, is that you are not willing to move the fvck on.

You continue to beat yourself up over a beatch that doesn't want anything to do we you.

just forget her and stop putting so much relience on how she treats you.

 

[johnmich]

Everyone is one is sayin "get over her".

Dont get me wrong but when your lookin for advice, these replies piss you off. He sounds like hes over her but is asking about the awkwardness of being around each over, especially when she is being a bit-ch.

I know i got off with a girl and after we havent spoke and its always awkward. You jus gotta tough it out but this guy is stuck with her for an hour every week or summat like that.

Theres nowt you can do but try n break the ice, but if shes a *****, then your screwed.

 

[blueangel83]

Just don't look at her.

 

[Guitarist26]

Well, my friend, she obviously dislikes you GREATLY.

What should your response be?

"So the f*ck what."

Get to a club, hit on chicks, and forget about that bimbo.

Ignore her no matter what. That's what I would do. Don't tell her you don't want to "be her friend anymore." That's like taking a trip back to 3rd grade. Just don't associate with her AT ALL anymore.

Hope that helps...

 

[klapaucius]

I agree...

 

[backbreaker]

you know you are over a girl when you know it's akward, and you don't give a damn about it, or trying to make it not be akward.

I ran into, out of nowhere my old oneitis 2-3 days ago at Wal Mart, while I was grocery shopping. Not only her, but she was with the guy that she had broken up with that she swore not to get back with again.

I mean... it caught me off guard, becuase it was like BAM!! but awkawrd? no, because I didn't give a damn who she was dating anymore.

When you are worried about it being "awkard" what you are really saying is that you are still worried about her percecption of you.

I didn't stop to say hi, make small talk.. I looked at her, her face got reddish and I kept walking without breaking stride.

Go to class.. do you work, that you are paying out the ass to get done.

don't let her **** up your money.

Shes being immature, however you probably did something.. probably being an TAFC to drive her to that point.. live and learn.

 

[flexion_]

Move on. Time is the greatest healer. There is no quick fix.