Can a slut make a good wife?

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cause trying to find wife material isn't stupid?
I am so not following you guys sometimes lol
 

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Nah. It's not about rejecting the sh1tty ones. I just pay more attention to the ones who r behaving well. More stable girls will behave better obviously not all the time we talking about on average here so over time you are filtering for Good Girls. It's just like you find hobbies that you enjoy that will still have attractive woman there. Overtime you are moving ur emphasis from fishing to checking your fish traps. Of course it still take some work but it is at a sustainable level.

I personally wouldn't be wifing up any girl cuz I'm too damn old. But if I was of a breeding age and that was on my agenda I sure as hell wouldn't be doing it until at least one year had passed and preferably two.
 

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well it's actually a simple question with a simple answer, what do you mean by a slvt?

is she a slvt because she has some sort of unhealthy compulsion for sex (the female equivalent of a thirsty beta male who thinks only with his d!ck and would drag his balls through a mile of broken glass to get laid or give his home to an escaped mental patient because she is hot)? you're not a therapist, you cannot possibly cure a sex addiction/terminally low self esteem/past trauma acting itself out/etc.

is she a slvt because she is the female equivalent to a male horndog who only cares about getting his d!ck wet, no matter how much lying or heartbreaking needs to be done? in that case, why would you want to date someone who's at best extremely selfish/self-centered/narcissistic and at worst is a full blown sociopath?

but if she's a slvt solely out of a like for sex, like the mentally healthy guys on here who have banged many women because its fun, and she can stop sleeping around and commit to a man if she wants, then she will make a fantastic wife even if she had sex with 100 guys. the problem is, what if this is just another type of unicorn? it might be in women, but since obviously men exist who sleep around and aren't insane logic would dictate it must exist in women too (even if less common)
 
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A slvt CAN make a good wife. She has to be TIRED and DONE with the game and just want a man of her own that she will lavish. It happens, but you can't turn her, she has to turn herself. It takes time.
 

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cause trying to find wife material isn't stupid?
I am so not following you guys sometimes lol
Actively searching for a wife is frustrating and pointless, so yeah that's stupid. It's more like you fvck around with women and eventually stumble across one that shows great potential to become a wife. But everyone else up to that point had something about them that indicated they couldn't be trusted.

I mean, you can go through a lot of women before you meet one that doesn't seem shady as fvck. That's just the nature of the dating market. Sh!tty women don't get picked and if they do it won't be long before they're back on the market. Good relationship/wife material don't stay single very long in the few cases they become available. So the resulting dating market is one where bad women make up most of it. That's why you're right, trying to find wife material is indeed stupid.
 
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I think I married one, and the marriage didn't last much longer than 2 months before nose-diving and ending up in divorce. It was a huge
$ 20,000 wedding, about 200 guests and an elaborate reception and a big photo-shoot. I'm one of the abstain until you are married types.
 

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Actively searching for a wife is frustrating and pointless, so yeah that's stupid. It's more like you fvck around with women and eventually stumble across one that shows great potential to become a wife. But everyone else up to that point had something about them that indicated they couldn't be trusted.

I mean, you can go through a lot of women before you meet one that doesn't seem shady as fvck. That's just the nature of the dating market. Sh!tty women don't get picked and if they do it won't be long before they're back on the market. Good relationship/wife material don't stay single very long in the few cases they become available. So the resulting dating market is one where bad women make up most of it. That's why you're right, trying to find wife material is indeed stupid.
All "shady" means is they had a motive and it was not YOU. It was about what they could get out of you. Kinda like a male friend who only hangs around cause you got money or connects. Your right the ones in it for US are rare and far and few and need to be observed differently.
 

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well it's actually a simple question with a simple answer, what do you mean by a slvt?

is she a slvt because she has some sort of unhealthy compulsion for sex (the female equivalent of a thirsty beta male who thinks only with his d!ck and would drag his balls through a mile of broken glass to get laid or give his home to an escaped mental patient because she is hot)? you're not a therapist, you cannot possibly cure a sex addiction/terminally low self esteem/past trauma acting itself out/etc.

is she a slvt because she is the female equivalent to a male horndog who only cares about getting his d!ck wet, no matter how much lying or heartbreaking needs to be done? in that case, why would you want to date someone who's at best extremely selfish/self-centered/narcissistic and at worst is a full blown sociopath?

but if she's a slvt solely out of a like for sex, like the mentally healthy guys on here who have banged many women because its fun, and she can stop sleeping around and commit to a man if she wants, then she will make a fantastic wife even if she had sex with 100 guys. the problem is, what if this is just another type of unicorn? it might be in women, but since obviously men exist who sleep around and aren't insane logic would dictate it must exist in women too (even if less common)
Guys who do it aren't exactly fully mentally stable cause many don't wrap up and sweep diseases and baby under the rug like it can't happen. With women the whole thing is about their pair bonding mechanism becoming damaged from all the pump and dumps and having to block their emotions.
 

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My God how is this not common knowledge??????

NO a ***** will not make a good wife..

A woman who has no value for herself and takes ****s like breathing air will NOT value a husband and marriage.

This isn't rocket science..
 

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Guys who do it aren't exactly fully mentally stable cause many don't wrap up and sweep diseases and baby under the rug like it can't happen. With women the whole thing is about their pair bonding mechanism becoming damaged from all the pump and dumps and having to block their emotions.
that's pretty much what my post was about, if a girl is called a slvt simply for enjoying sex and not wanting to make everyone jump through hoops to fvck her, that will be a vastly different experience than a narcissistic sociopath or an attention whoring unstable basketcase

just like there's a difference between being good with women and being barney stinson from how I met your mother (iirc, he broke into a house with a girl and told her it was his house and snuck out in the morning after sex, leaving her there for when the cops/actual owners showed up).

A woman who has no value for herself and takes ****s like breathing air will NOT value a husband and marriage.
so every time you fvck a woman, you disrespect her? your d!ck is made of pure solidified evil and permanently corrupts a part of her soul?

obviously not. there's much more to it than just get laid -> become demon

think about high school, you knew plenty of chicks who had barely gotten any d!cks yet, were they all angelic and pure? or were plenty of them just as bad as the women you know now but with a smaller rap sheet?
 

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Take it from someone who tried to make a ho a housewife. The answer is NO.

When I was in my earlier 20s I made this mistake. She was really hot and 18. I knew about her slVt past and I ignored it. We lived together and had a kid. Things were fine for the first few years. Then she went back to her old ways. She cheated on me with 2-3 guys.

They might change for a little while, but they will always divert back to there old ways. Once a ho, always a ho.
 

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that's pretty much what my post was about, if a girl is called a slvt simply for enjoying sex and not wanting to make everyone jump through hoops to fvck her, that will be a vastly different experience than a narcissistic sociopath or an attention whoring unstable basketcase

just like there's a difference between being good with women and being barney stinson from how I met your mother (iirc, he broke into a house with a girl and told her it was his house and snuck out in the morning after sex, leaving her there for when the cops/actual owners showed up).



so every time you fvck a woman, you disrespect her? your d!ck is made of pure solidified evil and permanently corrupts a part of her soul?

obviously not. there's much more to it than just get laid -> become demon

think about high school, you knew plenty of chicks who had barely gotten any d!cks yet, were they all angelic and pure? or were plenty of them just as bad as the women you know now but with a smaller rap sheet?
Twist it how u want.

A slut or ***** does not make a good gf let alone a wife or mother. Period

Next subject..
 

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Well I can say this .... al the women who were loose in HS and college that I knew have crashed and burned with relationships.
They have kids with multiple men
Many failed relationships.
Live in apartments on social assistance or have **** jobs.

Unless you’re into Hotwifing or Swinging Forget it and don’t bother. They are plates at best. Don’t let them into your private circle.
 

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What makes a woman good wife material?

A female who behaves and lives as you would expect a good wife (home maker/mother) to behave...

It's often been said "what makes a good manager?" it's not enough to know your job well as some would believe....
You have to look like a manager (leader/boss).....you behave as if the role is you...

Women who ***** themselves in their teens and twenties, have right to do so because feminism and sexual liberation "says so",
but there's a price to pay....there are consequences......you are what you consistently do. You act like a ***** and that's what you
are and that's how your viewed.........

"civilized sexual behavior is based on upholding marriage and motherhood. Only then are promiscuity prevented and females
valued for their character and ability. Now they're like cheap ***** holding numbers in a Bangkok brothel"
Cruel Hoax: Feminism and the New World Order, Henry Makow
 

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