Can a guy initiate a hug after the number close

[static]

After you get a girl's number, is it okay to try to hug her? or is it this socially wrong. Please comment.

For some reason, I have it in me that it is only okay (or should I say socially correct) to hug a girl in this type of situation if the girl initiates it.

I talked to this girl for like an hour today. I walked her around and she thank'd me a bunch of times. She was trying to get close to me when we were walking, and I made body contact with her a few times, but I kept forgetting about this and worrying about what to say. At the end, I wanted to give her a hug. I looked her like I wanted to, but I didn't because I thought it was socially incorrect.

I have a picture in my mind of a girl smiling and saying "give me a hug" as the OK.

Moderaters: Please delete my other post. my last thread "Can guys initiate a guy after a convo. "

 

[PuertoRican_Lover]

You can give her a hug if you want to look like a thankful supplicating wimp! Men don't initiate hugs, unless someone emotionally close to her died!

 

[JT47319]

At the very least hug. Do a caveman hug too. Lots of feeling, pick her up and spin her around like she's a doll. Girls love that shyt. Hell, throw her over your shoulder. Do a piggy back ride too.

Preferably kiss-close. Like do BadBoy's kiss. Go "Shhh!" put your finger to your lips, then her's to silence her, take two fingers and close her eyes, roll your hand away caressing her cheek while you pull in for a kiss.

 

[coldcoal]

With many womwn, you can initiate a hug at any time you wish.

Many times I've requested (not asked) for a hug when meeting a woman for the first time. I often make it part of the intro in a very friendly, matter of fact kind of way. Women don't seem to mind at all as far as I can tell.

Sometimes I'll ask a basic question while they are still close in to me. When I do this, I often initiate a momentary pause midway through the break of the hug (as they answer the question). My arm is still around the small of her back and her hand is usually on my shoulder. Sometimes, this pause position can be held for quite a while. Kino is usually a breeze from then on and the goodbye can be stepped up into something a little more intimate if it's all going good.

 

[RedZone122]

what the f.uck? What in gods name do you mean by 'can a guy initiate a hug?' Hug her if you want to..... that's all there is to it. F.uck that, you outta shove your tounge down her throat to be brutally honest - Listen buddy, stop thinking about whats 'socially accepted' and do whatever the hell you want, k?

 

[Life-Trainee]

I reckon it depends on how you've carried yourself during the conversation. If you're shy and exhibit very little body language then a hug would seem like the most random out of place thing.

 

[Pimp-sicle]

LOL....this is the funniest post I've read in a while on here. Ya'll know I need that right now with all the bullshyt I've been going through.



PIMP

 

[Duke]

Hahahaha, Dimentia, that same scene popped into my mind as well. I think if it's pulled off right, it can work!

 

[PuertoRican_Lover]

Originally posted by static
After you get a girl's number, is it okay to try to hug her? or is it this socially wrong. Please comment.

After you get her number say, "Thank you for giving me your number, I am so grateful and shocked that a girl gave me her number - I'll call you in 20 minutes!!"

 

[napoleon]

Dumb&dumber is the best movie ever.

 

[akindofblue]

Re: Re: Can a guy initiate a hug after the number close

Originally posted by PuertoRican_Lover
After you get her number say, "Thank you for giving me your number, I am so grateful and shocked that a girl gave me her number - I'll call you in 20 minutes!!"

Actually, that could work pretty well if you pulled it off with a deadpan, paused, smiled, rolled your eyes, and said, "Just kidding."

Pretty funny way to end a conversation/encounter if you ask me.

 

[comic_relief]

PuertoRican_Lover, You have made some of the funniest quotes on this site. Major thumbs up to you.

Her: hands you the number
Me: Look down at it in shock and then say "Thank you for giving me your number, I am so grateful and shocked that a girl gave me her number - I'll call you in 20 minutes!!" You must act totally serious too. Pause while making eye contact looking at her reaction with inquisitive(sp.?) eyes and then say "just kidding. I might call you sometime"
It could also lead to some ****y/funny wording also if she says something that could be funny. I might just use it on bootcamp.

Whelp time for a baseball practice and a game.

 

[Resident DJ]

Listen to me. You have to be a fvcking BARBARIAN! I'm not being sarcastic

Oh man...that's priceless. I've found that really no matter what you do (most of the time), as long as it's STRONG you've got a pretty good chance of escalating her attraction to you...What Would a Barbarian Do?

Perfect. Good call GigaloDj.

 

[O_johnson]

If you're at a party, club or someplace where you will see the girl again in the same night after you have got the number then I have found that when she is about to leave this is a good time to go for the hug. If I can tell that the girl has interest in me, which means she will usually go out of her way to say goodbye and to make sure I call, then what I'll usually so is give her a hug and then point to my cheek, an indication for her to kiss it obviously. You have got show confidence when doing this and you will have proved your "alphaness"