Can´t stand women

[JdelaSilviera]

Hi,

I´m 25 and i´m in a period where I just can´t stand or feel attracted to women. Sure some (not many) have sexy bodies that make me wanna fvck them, but most of them aren´t just worth my time. It´s not lack of options, they just bore me.

I have a subconscious thing going on here, since I was a kid I viewed women as clean, decent, picky, self-respectable people. Now that I know how many guys these girls have been kissing, or fvcking (note that some girls consider themselves saints because they only fvcked a few guys, 5 for instance, but have made out, with 200). I look at them and think "dirty".

And there is more:
1) very few women are hot. The ones that I know who are really hot are 19-21 and their mentality is on the level of neanderthals. Women 25+ are very rarely attractive, the ones who don´t become obese, are super ill looking skinny, with skinny legs but unworked butts.

2) Women don´t have a broad range of conversation topics.

3) Women are rude. Mostly although some guys are like this, women tend to be "super honest" and say things in public like: "oh you are fatter" "you are skinnier" (this to justify their fatness) "oh your shirt is horrible". They are experts on the art of being retard and inconvenient

4) Their rationalization for stupid and irresponsible behavior is epic. They just throw their tantrums and expect to be respected because they are females. Even worse (as a male), they let themselves to become fat as **** and still think that male´s obligation is to pursue and cherish them. They become obese and think men are obliged to be attracted to them as they are and then cite stupid **** like "if you cant handle at my worse you dont deserve at my best" or " there is nothing sexier than a women who is confortable with her perfect imperfection" a perfect imperfect huge butt is sexy..


Not mad at all.... but I don´t see them as a priority for sure...

 

[zinc4]

people in general are dirty...get used to it....and who really cares in the first place when you are just looking for fun??? What are you trying to look for a future wife...negative posts and threads like this are just lame sounding.....some of you really have incredibly low sex drives or something...i don't believe if we threw a HB 7.5-8 in front of you right now who was also a big time b&tch and partier you would reject sex from her.....if you did you would either be gay or either a real DJ and have so many plates that you were tired from banging other girls earlier that day....

and there are very inexperienced women out there....lot's are very traditional religious wise...but like i said earlier...who cares unless you want to get married to one of them...

and yeah, a lot of them are rude, entitled and very shallow....but that's hardly news to anyone....who cares bang them and leave them until you find a good one...

 

[Hustlaz Ambition]

Hating women isn't healthy....

 

[PlayHer Man]

If you hate women then you probably hate kids too.

There isn't much of a difference from a personality perspective. Modern women are generally low quality, but not "hate worthy". The problem has always been white knight faggots who let women run amuck because they want to f*ck them.

White knight faggots are like passive parents who raise spoiled narcissistic brats. Then when someone tries to put those brats in their place, the passive parents go on the attack.

Modern women are just immature sex toys. Act accordingly and don't marry one.

 

[SirFratserlot]

Ya i agree with op and im 20

 

[floydb25]

This is what people around here call taking the red pill. This is reality. It sucks, but you gotta accept it, and plan accordingly. Sounds like you're already there.

I didn't see any mention of the dating process with them, though, which is also ****. Definitely not like the traditional gentleman courtship you'd imagine, or prefer. In fact, it usually turns them OFF. They're wild, sleazy, slutty, etc.

The list of things you could dislike is nearly endless. They're definitely NOT pure, innocent, helpless little angels. They suck just as much as anyone else - if not worse. Many are loud, annoying, bratty, stuck up, entitled, two-faced, promiscious, deceiving, etc, etc.

Just gotta be able to see through the charade, and see them for who they really are (on a case by case basis, though most are ****), and not sympathize, become infatuated, wear your heart on a sleeve, etc.

 

[plate's_empty]

Women 25+ are very rarely attractive

^^^^Really? Where do you live? The wastelands?

OP, you need to do what is called a paradigm shift. Perception is reality. To you this is how women are.

Other than that, why are you complaining so much, stop being a b1tch. You sound like a woman.


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[PlayHer Man]

This is what people around here call taking the red pill. This is reality. It sucks, but you gotta accept it, and plan accordingly. Sounds like you're already there.

I didn't see any mention of the dating process with them, though, which is also ****. Definitely not like the traditional gentleman courtship you'd imagine, or prefer. In fact, it usually turns them OFF. They're wild, sleazy, slutty, etc.

The list of things you could dislike is nearly endless. They're definitely NOT pure, innocent, helpless little angels. They suck just as much as anyone else - if not worse. Many are loud, annoying, bratty, stuck up, entitled, two-faced, promiscious, deceiving, etc, etc.

Just gotta be able to see through the charade, and see them for who they really are (on a case by case basis, though most are ****), and not sympathize, become infatuated, wear your heart on a sleeve, etc.

Spot on.

 

[zinc4]

who cares they are here to bang and have fun with....i don't see the problem..the more promiscuous, the better IMO....the problem is you are looking from a viewpoint of attempting to take them seriously....

and gasp....but there are actual good ones for dating out there...I call BS on all of that...the majority are bad, but the same principle applies to people in general...

this whole thread reeks of butthurt

 

[May_Day]

Sounds like you've been turned down by lots of chicks. Too much negative thinking here. Don't be a hater.

 

[LiveFreeX]

Date Chinese women... stop complaining about quality if you are living in a dumpster.

 

[CaliMan007]

I can actually see where the OP is coming from as I had this type of "realization" as well after my BPD relationship. I grew up in a good household, with stable loving parents who have been together since childhood. My perception of relationships/women was based on my parents, which was exemplary.

I eventually had a rude awakening and now see the reality that is today's woman. They are not angels, in fact, they are often worse than men. But alas I have testosterone and needs, and so I must ACCEPT this reality or become gay. The biggest key (and challenge) remains in not getting emotionally vested with women. This is by far the biggest challenge for me and I am still learning to control it based on controlling my perspective.

If you cannot accept the reality that women are dirty slvts, then you will not succeed. That ideal fantasy you have instilled in your brain needs to be torn apart and flushed down the toilet. Either accept the way it is or you risk having a very bitter life. It's kind of like work.... I used to think working hard and busting your chops would get you to the top, but I quickly learned that it's all about developing the right relationships and milking those relationships. So now, I'm at the top while all the hard-working monkeys are slaving away thinking that's the path to success.

You do have to treat women like objects to some degree. We understand their tendencies, habits, flaws, methodologies, etc, just accept that that is how they are and you will not change them. What you do need to change is your perspective though.

 

[Mr_Stinky]

OP is correct!

 

[VladPatton]

who cares they are here to bang and have fun with....i don't see the problem..the more promiscuous, the better IMO....the problem is you are looking from a viewpoint of attempting to take them seriously....

and gasp....but there are actual good ones for dating out there...I call BS on all of that...the majority are bad, but the same principle applies to people in general...

this whole thread reeks of butthurt

I agree with zinc4. Broski, get over it and get with the program known as life. Those who try to change the flow of humanity are truly sick between the ears. It is what it is, take the best possible aspects of all you experiences and push willingly towards a happier life.

 

[Aristippus]

It can be discouraging when you realize that your ideals don't match up with reality. The reality is, we want women to be a certain way, for good reason. Most of us would like to simply be good to women and in return be treated with love and respect. What we find instead, in most cases, are women who are immature (I mean even the ones who are in their 30's and 40's that are supposed to be "mature") and who are disrespectful.

People have these fantasies. Entertainment can be a reflection of our fantasies. No movie ever ends with the hero getting the girl and then the girl turning into an ungrateful, disrespectful, nagging shrew. It creates a sense of disillusionment when we see the disappointing reality versus the way we'd like things to be. I, for one, hate the fact that women these days are so badly behaved that you have to have a zero-tolerance policy for certain behaviors. That even if you find one with a lot of good qualities, you will still have to deal with immaturity and some level of b.s., and of course, when I mean deal with it, I mean you have to put her in her place and be completely ruthless when dealing with her when she tries to pull her crap.

On some level, it's like dealing with a child who was never forced to grow up. Women really are like children. They will always try to see what they can get away with and you have to constantly smack her hand, figuratively speaking. When a woman tries to pull some crazy, unreasonable garbage on you or tries to twist things when you KNOW you're in the right, you have to be even more ruthless than she is. We've all seen situations, or been in a situation where we had a justifiable grievance with a woman's behavior and she tries to twist it and even tries to use guilt trips and shame in a screwed up attempt to try to manipulate us into feeling like we were somehow wrong. Of course, I use the word "attempt" because I nip that garbage in the bud quickly and by the time it's over, she KNOWS she is wrong, and I make her feel like crap for even attempting to misbehave and then trying to twist it around.

The sad part is that too many guys don't stand their ground when a woman is out of line and since you have a large number of men who simply grovel at the feet of women, it makes it more difficult for those of us who won't tolerate their b.s. Suddenly we're having to put these women in their place after being thoroughly trained, conditioned, and indoctrinated to think they can pretty much do whatever they want without consequence. A woman deals with men who act like whipped dogs, and then when a man comes along who won't take her b.s., she reverts to her old behaviors, only this time it doesn't work. At that point, he either chooses not to be around her, he has a short term sexual relationship and then runs, or he keeps her around but has to train her to drop the bad behaviors and to adopt better ones.

It's not quite the fairy tale ending. I've never read a book or seen a movie where that's how it ended. It's always happily ever after, yada yada yada, blah blah blah. Of course, LIFE can be happily ever after, but when you're dealing with women, it's not this storybook ending where things go nice and smoothely. If I ever figure out how to create that reality, I'll be glad to tell everyone here.

p.s. I've said it before and I'll say it again. It's not GETTING women that's the hard part. Getting women is easy. The hard part is dealing with the barricudas while trying to find a good woman. The barracudas would LOVE to sink their hooks into a good man.

 

[Aristippus]

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[VikingKing]

Date Chinese women... stop complaining about quality if you are living in a dumpster.

I dated a chinese girl for two years. They will treat you like a god, but then you get bored, and then they go real afc, more bored, they resent you for not feeling mutual.

mind ****, but I guess I had not taken the red pill when all this happened.

Also very cling, lots of guilt **** tests.

 

[djgirl]

i have a better soloution! = turn gay! that way you can be woman free and dont have to worry about us, and since most guys understand each other you's will get on great!!

but seriously, i hate women at times too esp the ones that give us decent ones a bad name.....but then i hate men aswell...

Time to turn asexual maybe? my only option. both genders are screwed

 

[DonGorgon]

Hi,

I´m 25 and i´m in a period where I just can´t stand or feel attracted to women. Sure some (not many) have sexy bodies that make me wanna fvck them, but most of them aren´t just worth my time. It´s not lack of options, they just bore me.

I have a subconscious thing going on here, since I was a kid I viewed women as clean, decent, picky, self-respectable people. Now that I know how many guys these girls have been kissing, or fvcking (note that some girls consider themselves saints because they only fvcked a few guys, 5 for instance, but have made out, with 200). I look at them and think "dirty".

And there is more:
1) very few women are hot. The ones that I know who are really hot are 19-21 and their mentality is on the level of neanderthals. Women 25+ are very rarely attractive, the ones who don´t become obese, are super ill looking skinny, with skinny legs but unworked butts.

2) Women don´t have a broad range of conversation topics.

3) Women are rude. Mostly although some guys are like this, women tend to be "super honest" and say things in public like: "oh you are fatter" "you are skinnier" (this to justify their fatness) "oh your shirt is horrible". They are experts on the art of being retard and inconvenient

4) Their rationalization for stupid and irresponsible behavior is epic. They just throw their tantrums and expect to be respected because they are females. Even worse (as a male), they let themselves to become fat as **** and still think that male´s obligation is to pursue and cherish them. They become obese and think men are obliged to be attracted to them as they are and then cite stupid **** like "if you cant handle at my worse you dont deserve at my best" or " there is nothing sexier than a women who is confortable with her perfect imperfection" a perfect imperfect huge butt is sexy..


Not mad at all.... but I don´t see them as a priority for sure...

most men feel the way you do but because we want and even need sex from them we have to deal with them and pout up with their BS

 

[Eternal_water]

Occasionally I et the same way, but you know what - its exhausting.