JdelaSilviera
Master Don Juan
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As a 25 yo guy, there are lots of problems for dating women over 25.
Number one is that most of them, are completely out of shape. It´s just ridiculous how they let themselves go, they are not physically attractive in a way a 19 yo, or very early twenties is. The ones who are in shape, usually have too much muscle, although they can be sexy, it´s not the same thing.
Even if they like you in datings, you are probably guy number 100 on their lives. They dated a lot of guys, had a few relationships, and fvcked anothers. It´s almost impossible to bond with someone after this past. Their "confidence" in datings, and their relaxed state, is not necessarily a good sign, it´s just means another day at the office, for someone who dates regularly.
Au contraire, that many guys think, having lots of relationships in the past, is not life experience, well, it is but it´s the wrong kind of experience, it makes you bitter and resentful towards good people that will come across you. With a bad analogy, it´s like surviving war, sure it´s a huge life experience, but something that I wish to never go through. Likewise, these girls are completely fvcked up with so many disappointments, they will overanalyze and question every move you make, as a cynic does.
Most of them are marriage obsessed, a great majority are in relationships, many times with guys they subconsciously despise, but that will make good fathers. You just have to see that geeky guys are suddenly getting laid, where in highschool that wouldn´t happen. For me it doesn´t have anything to do with maturity, it´s just that despite what many people think, young girls are much more difficult to settle because they have time, you must be that good for having a hot 19 yo girlfriend. A "hot" 29 when she exists, just wants to get married asap, it´s just time pressure, or a big deal of time pressure. When you enter into a relationship with a girl over 25, after a few months the girl will want to live with you, and/or marriage pressure will come.
So the conclusion is. Start gaming young girls NOW, today, and use your youth. Each party, or night in the club you don´t do anything to talk to them, it´s a missed opportunity, many guys do this error week after week, till a decade has past. Although many girls like older guys, keep in mind, that although you may have opportunities in the future, it´s much more difficult to meet young girls. How will you in your late 30s or 40s, meet a 20 yo that goes out regularly with their friends, her own age. In college is much easier...
Start your self improvement today, hit the gym today, work hard in each exercise. Create a sense of urgency in reaching your goals, otherwise they will never happen. You getting a six pack, for instance, may seem a futile objective for many people, (many who are lazy to work), but being in shape, makes the difference that you can fvck hot girls more easily, and your pool of available girls increases, meaning you can find good ones (yes good girls also feel horny by a sexy body).
Go get them
Number one is that most of them, are completely out of shape. It´s just ridiculous how they let themselves go, they are not physically attractive in a way a 19 yo, or very early twenties is. The ones who are in shape, usually have too much muscle, although they can be sexy, it´s not the same thing.
Even if they like you in datings, you are probably guy number 100 on their lives. They dated a lot of guys, had a few relationships, and fvcked anothers. It´s almost impossible to bond with someone after this past. Their "confidence" in datings, and their relaxed state, is not necessarily a good sign, it´s just means another day at the office, for someone who dates regularly.
Au contraire, that many guys think, having lots of relationships in the past, is not life experience, well, it is but it´s the wrong kind of experience, it makes you bitter and resentful towards good people that will come across you. With a bad analogy, it´s like surviving war, sure it´s a huge life experience, but something that I wish to never go through. Likewise, these girls are completely fvcked up with so many disappointments, they will overanalyze and question every move you make, as a cynic does.
Most of them are marriage obsessed, a great majority are in relationships, many times with guys they subconsciously despise, but that will make good fathers. You just have to see that geeky guys are suddenly getting laid, where in highschool that wouldn´t happen. For me it doesn´t have anything to do with maturity, it´s just that despite what many people think, young girls are much more difficult to settle because they have time, you must be that good for having a hot 19 yo girlfriend. A "hot" 29 when she exists, just wants to get married asap, it´s just time pressure, or a big deal of time pressure. When you enter into a relationship with a girl over 25, after a few months the girl will want to live with you, and/or marriage pressure will come.
So the conclusion is. Start gaming young girls NOW, today, and use your youth. Each party, or night in the club you don´t do anything to talk to them, it´s a missed opportunity, many guys do this error week after week, till a decade has past. Although many girls like older guys, keep in mind, that although you may have opportunities in the future, it´s much more difficult to meet young girls. How will you in your late 30s or 40s, meet a 20 yo that goes out regularly with their friends, her own age. In college is much easier...
Start your self improvement today, hit the gym today, work hard in each exercise. Create a sense of urgency in reaching your goals, otherwise they will never happen. You getting a six pack, for instance, may seem a futile objective for many people, (many who are lazy to work), but being in shape, makes the difference that you can fvck hot girls more easily, and your pool of available girls increases, meaning you can find good ones (yes good girls also feel horny by a sexy body).
Go get them