calling the black DJs

[Microphone Fiend]

Okay being a black person I feel this is my opportunity, nay.....my duty to come clean and tell you how things really unfold for being a black person. (Jesse Jackson is gonna hunt me down for this )

Black people are known to be interested in only pvssy before they are even born. In fact if the mother knows it is going to be a boy, she wants.....no, wait lemme rephrase that,....EXPECTS a penis enlargement pump as a baby shower present. A common misconception is that black males are born with big ****s but in fact we just have a big head start in the booming industry of penis enlargement. Trust me, I've been to soo many baby showers and seen many a fights break out because some one forget the penile pump. You know how white mother's keep a shoe from when you were younger? While black mothers have the penis pump hanging somewhere in the house. I kid you not!

From the second we are born our mothers work hard as hell to make us pimps. They communicate to us through ebonics right out of the womb, (it is called 'baby talk" in the white community but dont be fooled, if you stop and think about all of the parallels between ebonics and baby gibbersih it will become apparent....) Recent studies show the first word out of a black baby's mouth is "quit playin n!gga" or "b!tch whurrs my money" but grunting "damn" whilst scratching of the genitilia is not uncommon either.

The biggest lie is the so called "ghetto". It doesn't even exist. What it is in fact a training ground for the best atheletes in the America. When people with money come it transforms to the grimey stuff you see in movies, but in fact it is actually full of post modernized buildings with glossy exteriors and amazing structures that rival the Empire State Building in both stature and respectability.

There you have it, the truth about y black people be soo dayum pimp, and quite possibly most polticallly incorrect post on SS at the same time....Oh wait I got one more thing to say
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I think you have one-itis for black people

I don't think it's gonna work out man, I like you, like a...ummm brother but not in the way black people use it...Lets just be friends, nah mean?

 

[NewMan]

I think agression with tha ladies does not boil down to whether you are black, white, pink or brown.

In my experience, I've noticed that in GENERAL - the more agressive guys tend to be those that have come from poorer areas.

There are exceptions - but I find that the middle class tend not to be as agressive with women and getting sex.

I believe socio economic factors have a far ranging effect on society.

When I was in the UK, I noticed that all my firends in high school were very agressive when going after sex with a girl.

When I moved to LA - my intial firends were through work - most of these were from middle class or better backgrounds - and these guys were very much less agressive and more "respectfull"....

That's just the way I've been seeing it anyways.

 

[Microphone Fiend]

Originally posted by TheInfamousCBear
Ill post what I know though...

- If youre black and you are trying to get at girls who arnt black, you need to stand out or be aggressive...The black dudes that are default dont really get noticed that much, cause people expect you to be a certian way...Plus, if you live in an area where there isnt that many black girls, most of the other girls arnt really gonna fukk with you unless you are the cream of the crop, you gotta be as good or better then everyone else...

Okay serious now....This is BS... I moved to Canada for college recently and I beg to differ. Where I am it seems like every black dude has a white gf and vice versa. People seem to have SOME positive pre-conceieved notions about black males therefore, whether it be big diks, having game, or being an alpha male. Something.

I've seen many girls who state they "only do black guys" and personally, i think it is stupid but whatever. I know that I can't limit myself to one race if I see something good in all of them.

 

[TheInfamousCBear]

Originally posted by Francisco d'Anconia
I thought the stereotypical black guy already stands out and is aggressive, so you are saying that the ones by default aren't? I'm not trying to start an argument, I'm just trying to get educated.

Also to be the cream of the crop, what does he have to do? Is it looks, is it status? What separates have's from the have nots?

Finally, when it comes down to it, aren't the qualities the same no matter the race? Just curious...

1. A default black guy to me and a default black guy to you are different...To you, you see the agressiveness and stuff, but if you are around alot of black people, you notice that there are people who dont act like that, they are default...I have friends that go to school, and they go to parties where there are alot of white girls...When he goes, he wears durag, bandanna, fitted caps, etc. cause thats what people notice and thats what the girls want...He says the black dudes who are dressed regular and arnt that agressive dont get that much play...

2. When I say cream of the crop, you gotta be one the best...Like you gotta have really good game, or be really attractive, have money, status, things like that...Cause to some girls, its a risk messing with black dudes and they have to have a really good reason to mess with you...If you are average, they wont even mess with you unless they are the type that are obsessed over black dudes, and Ive seen my share of those...

3. Not really...Heres an example...When I was in school, some girls liked me...There were some white girls, some asian, and spanish...Now, I never saw any of these girls even talk to any black dudes unless they were really good looking, and these girls liked me, but they didnt really like any other black dudes, but they would mess with average guys of their own race...The only exception are non black girls who like black dudes anyway, as long as you are decent and black they will mess with you...

 

[TheInfamousCBear]

Originally posted by Microphone Fiend
Okay serious now....This is BS... I moved to Canada for college recently and I beg to differ. Where I am it seems like every black dude has a white gf and vice versa. People seem to have SOME positive pre-conceieved notions about black males therefore, whether it be big diks, having game, or being an alpha male. Something.

I've seen many girls who state they "only do black guys" and personally, i think it is stupid but whatever. I know that I can't limit myself to one race if I see something good in all of them.

Friends of mine have went to Canada and they say the same thing, but I live in the US...It isnt the same here where I live...

 

[Dillinger]

I believe he was geniune and do you think in general that black players have a more aggressive attitude towards women ?

Black and Puerto Ricans are louder and more aggressive than white and asians.

Second of all, I would like to wing with some black experts in the field some day so I can learn from them, do any of you have any ideas how to befriend or met them without trying to look gay?

GAME is GAME, GAME doesn't have a color. This board has produced many "playa's" and most are not black.

I have a friend and he is black, but he acts white. He just got accepted to Duke to play baseball. A lot of white girls are attracted to him. He isn't quite but he isn't loud and ignorant either.

Don't be color struck that will only hurt your game.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

DING DING DING DING!!!!

Alright everyone go to your neutral corners! This has been a clean fight so far and I'd like to keep it that way!!!

At the sound of the bell I want you to come out of your corners discussing!!!!

READY.....

DING!!!

 

[learningtopimp]

Hmm...I hang out with a decent amount of black folks as friends although I did not grow up with as many black people. Not being black it's hard for me to truly know how these dynamics work but I do have some observations.

1. The black guys the white girls go for when young do have a lot of the thug appeal (Ecko or Fubu, big and buff, do-rags, tats, etc.) but on average these black dudes ARE beter looking than your average white or black guy.

2. Black guys are more aggressive if they either hang out with more black guys or come from a lower-income background. Some well-off black guys are as lost as some well-off white guys in this department, although I've noticed the preppy type black guys can bring some respectability that white girls feel is lacking with the "thugs" (and most of these "thugs" are not real gangsters anyways, those dudes are up in jail or gangbanging to getting killed, being a thug is not a glorious thing, ask anyone who grew up in Brooklyn, Compton, etc.)

3. Black dudes can get lots of girls to hook up wtih them, although girls being seen with them is more difficult. I know so many hoz that would get it on with a black guy but wouldn't date one.

4. Because of being unfairly stereotyped as all hip-hop or thugs, many more preppy black guys get overlooked by black and white women, though this will change if they get a career and some success. However, if you want the young, hot, white girls, the thug thang is probably what appeals.

5. But whatever you do, do it with confidence. If you are a black guy from Orange County or Long Island don't try to act like you are ghetto, people can see right through it. Do you own thing and be confident in who you truly are.

 

[DJDamage]

It seems to me in this discussion that there are two kinds of sterotype black people often fall into.

Those that act black and those that don't.

If you compare this guy http://www.imdb.com/gallery/ss/0117603/1-5.jpg?path=pgallery&path_key=Underwood, Blair

to This guy.
http://www.xzibitnet.com/miscpics2.shtml

Is that a fair assesment that majority of black Youth in America can relate better to the language and behaviour of Xzibit because him being a thug is appealing, while someone like Blair Underwood will get less respect because he does not act or talk "street"?

Both guys even if they weren't famous, I am sure would be able to pull pvssy left and right. A person cannot change his image and pretend to be someone he is not. If the type of girls are attracted to Thugs and you are not one, there are plenty of other girls who prefer a different type of a guy (Not a wuss but someone who is comfertable within his own skin)

 

[jakethasnake]

Originally posted by NewMan
I think agression with tha ladies does not boil down to whether you are black, white, pink or brown.

In my experience, I've noticed that in GENERAL - the more agressive guys tend to be those that have come from poorer areas.

There are exceptions - but I find that the middle class tend not to be as agressive with women and getting sex.

I believe socio economic factors have a far ranging effect on society.

When I was in the UK, I noticed that all my firends in high school were very agressive when going after sex with a girl.

When I moved to LA - my intial firends were through work - most of these were from middle class or better backgrounds - and these guys were very much less agressive and more "respectfull"....

That's just the way I've been seeing it anyways.

Newman is the only one that has the right idea - the rest of you are just full of garbage.


If you're poor, you just don't give a fvck. And incidentally, isn't that one of the basic tenets of the DJ Philosophy? Exactly.


Poor urban blacks and Latinos don't give a fvck. They know that their lives are dead-ends - they just live for the moment, because the only 'future' they have is what they create that night, when they are out with their buddies. They just go for it. It's admirable, but I can't really give them full credit for it, because their behavior is just a natural adaptation to their environment. They did not make a conscious decision to just 'go for it' - they HAD to be aggressive and take action. Suburban Joes don't because ultimately, they are not forced to take action by necessity.


Asian men are known to be timid and unaggressive. But guess what? There are lots of poor Asians from rough backgrounds. Vietnamese guys are FEARED throughout Southern California - even black and Mexican 'bangers are cautious around them, and don't step in their path without carefully weighing their options. Pretty 'odd' to a person with preconceived notions of how Asians are - but these 5 foot 6 gangbangers are FEROCIOUS. I would never fvck with a Viet gang member, no way. Incidentally Viet and Cambodian guys (the two poorest Asian ethnic groups in the US - many live below the poverty line) seem to pull white and black women with relative ease. I think this is no accident. Again they are poor and have nothing to lose - so they just go for it, and they succeed.

 

[Tha Realnezz]

Originally posted by Player_Supreme
Real look at this Ig'nant mutha's words below:

"ask these "black players" as to how many STDs they may be carrying."

Now this is what I was talkin about when I was wondering shyt.

Dummy thinks we have never heard of condoms or some shyt. I guess he musta caught something and is now whinning about it or some shyt.

I outta post up to him and say "where's da white wimmin at", but I wont since I'm tryin to be nice now.

Like I said in that other post they're the foreign, self-hating type of "black" men.

I don't even bother with these idiots anymore.

All I say is look at the ration of true DJ's when it comes to black/latino's versus white/asians.

The proof is in the pudding,numbers don't lie.

Even the well-off minorities compare them to the poor whites/and asians..there's no question..who will beat who at the end of the day.

But I don't wanna get racial.....

 

[jakethasnake]

^ Is there a lot of in-fighting between the various black contingents? Like for example, the Carribieans vs. American blacks? Or the Africans vs. the Carribieans? I wasn't aware of this, but if you guys do have it, it's interesting to be b/c it's reminiscent of the infighting amongst Asians.

 

[Tha Realnezz]

Yes there is.

When you go to a w.indian neighborhood your treated a little different but not exactly as an "outsider" you know?Same things with those countries and vice-versa.

There's alot of self-stereotyping but that's just dumb sh!t.No one's beefing with this dude cuz he's from Jamaica or the other is black but Cuban.

It happens alot but it's more over superficialness then politics,

I was referring to the cats on this site and internet in general though.

Always talking down on the african american but then admitting they've never been outside the Netherlands or whever they are.

I hear people say the dumbest racial sh!t and then only a few post later they admit to be black and I'm like wtf.As if they don't get that negroid treatment in Europe.

Unfortantley as you know hollywood seems to define what america is to the outside world.But then they turn around and call us ignorant.

I know what you are reffering too though and I'm not on some oh "he's a houe-nigga" or "I'm a feild-nigga ****".

I don't care about that.

The thing that pisses me off is all the self-hating dudes up in Canada or Europe lurking on this site only to diss their american counter-parts.

I could tell they hate who they are and they've been brainwashed cuz they first thing they do is "qualify" themselves.

First thing they say after they admit they're black is how much money they have or where they went to school as if you have something to prove to the white people on this board.Or if they need something to make up for them being black.


Date who you want,do what you want,but don't act like you can say to yourself "Race doesn't matter" as the same level as a white boy can cuz that's bull****.

 

[Player_Supreme]

Originally posted by learningtopimp
Hmm...I hang out with a decent amount of black folks as friends although I did not grow up with as many black people. Not being black it's hard for me to truly know how these dynamics work but I do have some observations.

1. The black guys the white girls go for when young do have a lot of the thug appeal (Ecko or Fubu, big and buff, do-rags, tats, etc.) but on average these black dudes ARE beter looking than your average white or black guy.

2. Black guys are more aggressive if they either hang out with more black guys or come from a lower-income background. Some well-off black guys are as lost as some well-off white guys in this department, although I've noticed the preppy type black guys can bring some respectability that white girls feel is lacking with the "thugs" (and most of these "thugs" are not real gangsters anyways, those dudes are up in jail or gangbanging to getting killed, being a thug is not a glorious thing, ask anyone who grew up in Brooklyn, Compton, etc.)

3. Black dudes can get lots of girls to hook up wtih them, although girls being seen with them is more difficult. I know so many hoz that would get it on with a black guy but wouldn't date one.

4. Because of being unfairly stereotyped as all hip-hop or thugs, many more preppy black guys get overlooked by black and white women, though this will change if they get a career and some success. However, if you want the young, hot, white girls, the thug thang is probably what appeals.

5. But whatever you do, do it with confidence. If you are a black guy from Orange County or Long Island don't try to act like you are ghetto, people can see right through it. Do you own thing and be confident in who you truly are.

On point, I agree with all of your points!!!

 

[Microphone Fiend]

blah i think pretty much this whole thread is garbage. You don't have guys who act black and guys who don't, you have guys who act ALPHA and guys who don't. If they are black, then so be it, don't make more out of the situation then there is. Right now the only reason that anyone is better than you is because you are here discussing it and others are out doing it

 

[Player_Supreme]

Originally posted by Microphone Fiend
blah i think pretty much this whole thread is garbage. You don't have guys who act black and guys who don't, you have guys who act ALPHA and guys who don't. If they are black, then so be it, don't make more out of the situation then there is. Right now the only reason that anyone is better than you is because you are here discussing it and others are out doing it

I dissagree. Being black I do know the difference between white actin nigga's and true brothas and I would of been called white actin/soundin years ago due to the way I sound..."oh but you speak so well".

And there is a difference between American brutha's and ones from other countries.

Are you black Fiend?

 

[TheInfamousCBear]

Originally posted by learningtopimp
Hmm...I hang out with a decent amount of black folks as friends although I did not grow up with as many black people. Not being black it's hard for me to truly know how these dynamics work but I do have some observations.

This guy knows what Im talking about....

Poor urban blacks and Latinos don't give a fvck. They know that their lives are dead-ends - they just live for the moment, because the only 'future' they have is what they create that night, when they are out with their buddies. They just go for it. It's admirable, but I can't really give them full credit for it, because their behavior is just a natural adaptation to their environment. They did not make a conscious decision to just 'go for it' - they HAD to be aggressive and take action. Suburban Joes don't because ultimately, they are not forced to take action by necessity.

More true sh1t....

 

[Styles]

First off

If you are only interested in a 'body count' or 'method'

then you aren't pursuing anything close to DJism...


Second

If you really want to learn something check out the African DJs down in Ghana

It's all so simple for them:

Here's my fvcking elephant woman

HEMABAWAY BOOMBA LA LA LA GHANA WEYOWEYO OOMFUFU

and the women jump all over that **** dawg



PEACE

 

[Microphone Fiend]

Originally posted by Player_Supreme
I dissagree. Being black I do know the difference between white actin nigga's and true brothas and I would of been called white actin/soundin years ago due to the way I sound..."oh but you speak so well".

And there is a difference between American brutha's and ones from other countries.

Are you black Fiend?

Yea, I'm black, born in America, raised in a country with over 85% blacks.

Hmm... I don't get it. You think the average black male is alpha and powerful and that some cop out. You make it sound as if it is hereditary. What about nature vs nurture? Many latino dudes got mad game, is it because they were born with it or it was just instilled in them from a young age? As a kid who went private school, I can bet that many ghetto black kids, latinos or even white kids got more game then me. Is it cuz I aint staying true to my culture or MAYBE I can't identify with that culture because I wasn't raised in it? It's simply a matter of nature vs nurture when you get down to it. I may have said before that I thought that ebonics were taught at birth as a joke before but I WAS JUST KIDDING, it aint a matter of staying true, it's a matter of exposure. Take Lenny Kravitz for example, he grew up in the white suburbs of LA, with the rich hollywood people and tea parties and sh!t probably. Is he a sellout? Should he have moulded his image to things he has never encountered in his life (and never will) and has only seen on television, because it isn't part of his reality? Then doesn't he merely become a copycat, wouldn't that make him similar to a black wigga, copying what he has no business copying?


You say there's a difference between American bruthas and ones from other countries? It is interesting that you should say this. I had a headmaster once (he was white ) And he went to Africa and found out some interesting facts. For example Africans despised African-Americans. They viewed them as sellouts in a way, who always talked (only talk) about going to the motherland. And their idea of getting back to their roots was throwing on a dashiki; listening to Afrika Bambaataa and watching "The Roots" on their plasma tv. They hate the "true blacks" who buy cars and clothes with wanton disregard. If a ghetto brotha went back to the motherland, they'd probably view him as a "sellout" too.

 

[JohnElDonJuan]

Im a white actin black DJ. I grew up deep in the hood but I went to a white middle school. I know how to act white at times and I know how to act black at times. I like actin white because it's comfortable and predictable, but I hate the way my own people treat me sometimes when I'm caught off guard, sometimes I slip up and say a word with way too many syllables. My actin white doesnt change th way alot of white people treat me either because no matter how white I act, I am black(I aint ashamed either) and theres always white people out there with negative preconcieved ideas about black people. I like actin black for the respect I get from it, but I hate the unpredictable outcomes that comes from actin that way. Its easy for me to act white all I have to do is have a passive semi-intellectual attitude. Its alittle harder for me to act black because its alittle like being a DJ. I have to display dominant body language at all times. I have to keep my mouth shut but have my ears wide open at all times. The only part about actin black I dont do is the blatantly ignorant behaviours we may sometime display, white people can act very ignorant at times too but they hide it most of the times but im not here to talk about white ignorant behaviours. Getting back to black ignorant behaviours, from what I see in the hood I live in its all about preying on the weak to make yourself look better or to say how you feel at all time wherever you are, Its all about having a sharper wit to chop down all potential competition, Its about making that example out of someone or clowning someone it might even be simpler than all this, it could be that if you act different you get treated as different. I dont act that way and I dont want to act that way because its all bull-**** to me but I dont look down on it either because to truly survive it takes great mental strength, cunning and being sharply in tuned to your gut, but more times than not it takes a closed mind to be this way and I dont have a closed mind thats why I dont act that way.

I'll put it like this, I have a "black" demeanor and a "white" mind but what lies in my heart is the same things that lies in the hearts of everyone regardless of race.