calling the black DJs

[KnightRyder]

Before I was ever a member here , I was a member of another forum , and in it I was having a discussion with a black guy about dating and how his black friends and him were bad boys. .. before I start let me put it in perspective he was a good looking guy to begin with. But basically his game and his black friends consisted of firstly being very aggressive and dominant and persistent. secondly, it was about speed and getting to sex within one or two meetings. Their actions bordered so aggressively had if the women didn't have an inkling of interest , it would have been rape. His own body count was over 100 and some of his friends were much larger. One of them had sex with a girl the same night as meeting her, in the parking lot of the club. The black guy told me a time when he had this girl over, and when he persisted to move her clothes off , she resisted. Later on, he picked her up to his room , shut the lights and got the job done.

Now my questions for you guys, is there a "method" for what this is called such as 'gunwitch' or 'anti-dump machine'.. ?

I believe he was geniune and do you think in general that black players have a more aggressive attitude towards women ?

Second of all, I would like to wing with some black experts in the field some day so I can learn from them, do any of you have any ideas how to befriend or met them without trying to look gay?

 

[Hot Ice]

First of all, this has little to do if you are black or not.

I agree though, that many black guys tend to have more aggressive game than white (or many other ethnic groups, many latin guys seem to be aggressive too).

It's just a generalization, though.
There are many black men who take it more slowly and many non-black men, who take it really aggressive.


A guy had sex with a girl at the first night?
So what! I've done that too, and I don't really go after sluts.
It's a matter of seduction. Getting her turned on, and going for it.

I've had really hard time on some of them, most of them going to home with their friends, but then they find themselves in the morning next to me.
And I don't go for drunk chicks either.


If that "body count" means that the guy had slept over 100 women it explains everything!
It's either bull, or they sleep with sluts.
Like this one friend (over 40 years old) of a good disc jockey friend of mine claimed to me that he has slept with few hundred chicks, I believed it then, but when I saw him time after time I just know it's not true. Even I think he has laid a lot of women.

You were asking a method... Gunwitch is a good one to do íf you want that what you just described.


Another thing...
You described them as being bad boys and that they are really agressive.
We all know that jerks and "bad boys" get easily laid since women are sexually attracted more to this type of men when they are young and all our jerk has to do is to turn them on and just take her (if she's like most girls in a club).

You can easily have chicks if you have a trait that is sexy and puts you above all other man. My thing used to be dancing. Easy way to get girls if you are better than all the other guys and know what you are doing. I remember a time I saw a great looking chick with a boyfriend. I stole her at the dance floor (her boyfriend went away, what a *****) and I did my stuff and we were kissing on the dance floor, went to a more private place and I felt her up and we ended up in bathroom. Almost had sex but it was closing time and the lights went off and the place was getting locked up.

But the point was that I know how to rock some chicks socks off at the dance floor and chicks dig that big time! I'm the biggest male attention wh0re on the dance floor.
These guys you describe, they have a trait, dominance, that makes them sexier than most of guys.

Nothing new here!

PS. about clubs, it's all about observing girls who are interested in you and go for them, if you have a vibe they won't go with you, you move on. Especially easy in the dance floor when you have showed your skills.


I believe you are black. So what's the problem with making friends with other black guys? You go there having fun, crack a few jokes and you are in.

Holy crap this turned out to be long...

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

It sounds like intimidation to me. Seems like all you'd need is some brawn and a F.U. like attitude. I would guess that anyone could learn it since it takes no finesse.

Here's a question, do you wonder if those types base their manhood only on how many women they can sleep with and nothing else? I mean with numbers that high what else would they have time to do?

 

[Hot Ice]

Here's a question, do you wonder if those types base their manhood only on how many women they can sleep with and nothing else? I mean with numbers that high what else would they have time to do?

Good question.
It's not about how many hoes you can ****.

 

[Player_Supreme]

1. Your freind sounds like me.

2. I have a question for YOU. What happened to you? Why are you not like regular brothers? Where do you live and what type of environment were you raised in? It's a little survey that I'm interested in. I want to know about the brutha's who frequent these dating sites and your answers would help me tremendously.

3. And I say if your black then you should listen to black players. What works for white boys will not work for you. You will come accross as a goober to sista's or white gurls who want black men. They are used to a certain level of game.

I recently told a guy at the chatroom at www.fastseduction the trick on how white guys can game sista's (he lives in my town), that nite he went out and tried it and it worked 100% for him

4. You gotta come at women much harder young playa. Just because you might be one of those white acting brutha's doesn't mean that you gotta keep your game like that.

5. Think back to DMX's recent movie where he was buying a new sports car, and this black (white acting) salesman and him encountered each other....don't be like that fool.

It's ok to be black and proud and intelligent. But women do need a certain level of aggression. It's expected of you to be a certain way...sorry that's the way it is. For you to approach with that "uncle tom" kinda way will get you played out real quick

You actually put that player mentioned above down with that rape comment. That told me volumes about you brutha. I think I saw your photo under the post your photo section. You look like a regular bro...but let me go on and answer your question (pull ya coat).

1. Go to a club and just observe.

2. Look to see who the major players are. You will need more than one visit. Look for the sharp dressed cats who stand out.

3. With us Players you gotta use honey to sweeten your approach so compliment the fellow and ask him when you see him next about pulling your coat on some game.

We all speak that old pimp language so they will know what you mean.

Break it down for him what you wont...tell him your trying to come up in this izm and you need your coat pulled to get the real game.

Fellows who play this game love to teach and show off what they know so you should be in there.

Now once he starts breaking you off...listen and do not deviate from ANYTHING he says. One thing I've noticed is that white cats will try changin shyt up or say "they can't be that way or do it that way" ...don't ever do that man. You gotta respect the game.

Lastly why are you even on this site? There are more urban sites out there to learn game from. What's preached on this site I don't think works for us brutha's. As I said above you will come off looking like a Uncle Tom goober.

 

[Tha Realnezz]

That movie was called "Exit-Wounds"..lol.

 

[Player_Supreme]

Originally posted by Tha Realnezz
That movie was called "Exit-Wounds"..lol.

Oh yeah, lol. The did do a good job of portraying one of "those" kinda brutha's. Remember when he tried to act lack and said, woo woo....now that was funny. They couldn't of made a more Oreo cookie role than that.

I wonder how many white guys are going to post on this thread...

 

[Tha Realnezz]

^^Yeah and at the end he looses his cool and yells:"Would you turn it down you ig'nant MUTHA****A!".

lol..that and "Belly" are his only decent movies.

 

[thezenmachine]

In my experience in college black girls are 'easier' than white girls, they are more open to more casual sex and will sleep with you more quickly, that could be part of it.

 

[BMW]

ask these "black players" as to how many STDs they may be carrying.

 

[skeeloo]

Originally posted by BMW
ask these "black players" as to how many STDs they may be carrying.

word.

 

[Player_Supreme]

Originally posted by Tha Realnezz
^^Yeah and at the end he looses his cool and yells:"Would you turn it down you ig'nant MUTHA****A!".

lol..that and "Belly" are his only decent movies.

Real look at this Ig'nant mutha's words below:

"ask these "black players" as to how many STDs they may be carrying."

Now this is what I was talkin about when I was wondering shyt.

Dummy thinks we have never heard of condoms or some shyt. I guess he musta caught something and is now whinning about it or some shyt.

I outta post up to him and say "where's da white wimmin at", but I wont since I'm tryin to be nice now.

 

[So Many Ways]

KnyghtRider, did you grow up in the suburbs or in a white neighborhood? I did myself and although I don't blame that for the troubles I've had over the years gaming women, I think that it may have been a factor.

This I do know. I didn't grow up around my uncles but to my understanding, they were some hard core womanizers. There are a couple of older brothas that I work with and I've tried to get whatever knowledge I can get out of them. Another thing I've noticed is that dudes who aren't black but either grew up in a black neighborhood or hung around or were taught the game by older blacks tend to do real well with women. My roommate who is Mexican was taught the game by black players that his pops kicked it with when he was a kid and this guy is insane, he's fu*ked over 100 women and routinely juggles multiple women at the same time effortlessly.

Just try to learn as much as you can from those cats and incorporate it into your game. If you're like me and have been socialized around whites, then doing what they do will have you looked at funny, like some of the ASF stuff for example. I know for a fact that if I went up to a group of black women with "Who Lies More" I'm going to get looked at funny and god knows what bizarre reactions you'll get form running some powerpuff girls routine or something equally as bizarre. That may work for the white dudes but that ain't for us.

For a start I would do this. Make friends with some older brothas or at the minimum, someone who has been socialized in black game. Eliminate any body language, mannerisms or traits that are associated with being goofy or nerdy. Observe what these guys do and emulate it. Be direct, be masculine, be dominant, get in touch with your testosterone. Learn to project your voice and use the bass in your voice, chicks go for that. If you spot a shorty catching your eye, don't hesitate, just go right up to her and get straight to the point. You will f*ck up alot at first but hey how else do you learn. Also, go through some of Player_Supreme's post in the mature man's forum, that's stuff is more for us and it will at least get you on the right path. Also, post your field reports so you get tips.

That's it for now.

 

[DJDamage]

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KnyghtRider, did you grow up in the suburbs or in a white neighborhood? I did myself and although I don't blame that for the troubles I've had over the years gaming women, I think that it may have been a factor.
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Its like the character Carleton Banks from "THE FRESH PRINCE OF BEL-AIR" who was born in a rich white neighborhood Vs Will Smith who was born in the city of Philadelphia. Carleton is the worse AFC, while Will Smith is all smooth with the ladys.

 

[skeeloo]

in general i dont think brothers can find what they want on this site. but this site has everything to imporve your self .

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

So out of curiosity, what else other than self improvements from this site would a brother need to become successful with women?

 

[TheInfamousCBear]

Ill post what I know though...

- If youre black and you are trying to get at girls who arnt black, you need to stand out or be aggressive...The black dudes that are default dont really get noticed that much, cause people expect you to be a certian way...Plus, if you live in an area where there isnt that many black girls, most of the other girls arnt really gonna fukk with you unless you are the cream of the crop, you gotta be as good or better then everyone else...


- If youre any race, and you are trying to get a black girls, you have to be more aggressive or manly or whatever...With non black women, I can joke around and sh1t, but when I go at black girls, you have to have a more serious approach...

 

[Eternal]

Originally posted by TheInfamousCBear
Ill post what I know though...

- If youre black and you are trying to get at girls who arnt black, you need to stand out or be aggressive...The black dudes that are default dont really get noticed that much, cause people expect you to be a certian way...Plus, if you live in an area where there isnt that many black girls, most of the other girls arnt really gonna fukk with you unless you are the cream of the crop, you gotta be as good or better then everyone else...


- If youre any race, and you are trying to get a black girls, you have to be more aggressive or manly or whatever...With non black women, I can joke around and sh1t, but when I go at black girls, you have to have a more serious approach...

HAHAHA!

I'm a white dude and I have a black girlfriend. To get with her, I didn't have to be more aggressive. I joked around. Why? Because, that was me.

A friend of mine and his wife said it best: A girl, unless racist, won't like you more or less for being black, white, asian, whatever. If you are yourself, that is all that matters.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Originally posted by TheInfamousCBear
Ill post what I know though...

- If youre black and you are trying to get at girls who arnt black, you need to stand out or be aggressive...The black dudes that are default dont really get noticed that much, cause people expect you to be a certian way...Plus, if you live in an area where there isnt that many black girls, most of the other girls arnt really gonna fukk with you unless you are the cream of the crop, you gotta be as good or better then everyone else...

I thought the stereotypical black guy already stands out and is aggressive, so you are saying that the ones by default aren't? I'm not trying to start an argument, I'm just trying to get educated.

Also to be the cream of the crop, what does he have to do? Is it looks, is it status? What separates have's from the have nots?

Finally, when it comes down to it, aren't the qualities the same no matter the race? Just curious...

 

[TheInfamousCBear]

Originally posted by Eternal
HAHAHA!

I'm a white dude and I have a black girlfriend. To get with her, I didn't have to be more aggressive. I joked around. Why? Because, that was me.

A friend of mine and his wife said it best: A girl, unless racist, won't like you more or less for being black, white, asian, whatever. If you are yourself, that is all that matters.

Your girl could of like white dudes anyway...Most black girls dont really check for white dudes like that unless they stand out or they like white guys anyway, nothing wrong with it though...

As far as what your friend said, that isnt always true...Like the black dudes with the good looking non black girls either have game or they are really good looking...I was talking to this one girl the other day and she told me that even though she doesnt really look at black guys, she gave me an 8 out of 10...Now she likes white dudes the best, and her boyfriend is average looking...Now if I was at the same looks rankings to her as her boyfriend, she wouldnt look at me twice...And the funny thing is, I think Im attractive, but I didnt think I was that good looking.... Same thing could of happened to you, just guessing though...