Calling all the 'Men' for a Mentality test

[ducaro]

You have a good gf worthy of all the respect. you love her a lot and have invested great emotional value in her. all of a sudden, she likes another guys and cheats (all the way) on you! (lets face it anybody can be in this situation)

what would would do?

1. dump your chick
2. fight with the other guy for her

cheerio!

 

[synergy1]

investing time and energy into a girl is as valid as investing money in anything. A girl who has cheated on you in one way or another is a sunk cost, and spending any more emotional time thinking or doing anything in that department would be the worst thing you can do.

I would not even talk to her again, and just end it. Sooner you end it, the sooner you can move on and get another girl.

 

[Samanosuke]

Dump her and tell her she's not welcome around you anymore.

 

[PeterNorthisawesome]

Get myself either a playmate or FHM model with personality, better job and get richer, workout harder so I look better and then cut of ALL CONTACTS with my X. So the next time she sees me with my model GF and I see her with lozer, she'll realize how foolish she was and cut herself. Moving on and improving your life is the BEST comeback to anyone.

 

[flows101]

1. Find out where i fu**ed up with her
2. brake up with her
3. play the game for a bit
4. find new GF

 

[stinkyape]

You said a girlfriend worthy of all respect........ Who cheats?

Cheating instantly removes all worthyness for respect, so flawed question. I wouldn't tolerate that **** - I'd tell her to fvck off and not regret it for a second. And then I'd probably go beat her new man up, just for sh1ts and giggles

 

[Wyldfire]

Even if someone has behaved in a manner that is deserving of respect...the second they cheat they have violated your trust and betrayed you...and are no longer deserving of your respect because they clearly aren't showing you that same respect.

You NEVER respect your partner MORE than you respect yourself...that is rule #1 in any relationship.

You end the relationship, period.

Once you end the relationship you do a thorough inventory on your own relationship shortcomings and identify the mistakes you have made, hold yourself accountable for those mistakes and learn from them so you don't repeat them. Once you've done that you can look towards moving on.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

You said a girlfriend worthy of all respect........ Who cheats?

Yes, 1+1=3...