Calling a woman out

[BadBoy89]

I've probably made a thread like this before, but anyway here we go.

If a girl assumes something about you, you have to hit her back. Alot of this site keeps saying "walk away, be smooth, girls are silly, don't take it seriously." Well, I somewhat listened to that advice during my last date, and it messed me up. Usually I'm quick to reply, but this time I didn't for a while.

Went out a woman, she looked ok but not really my type. At the end of the date she said "nice meeting you, talk soon." I said "take care" Came home. About 2 hours later, she texts "Hi Badboy, thanks for coffee, just wanted to say didn't feel romantic connection. Good luck in your search."

Now because this site, the players who sleep with girls with their eyes closed in 10 min of meeting them, teaches to "walk away, be smooth" I didn't respond.
But it bugged she assumed that I felt something.

So today, I almost 2 weeks after the date, I exploded inside. I texted back "Hi xyz, I just got your message. I don't remember saying I felt a romantic spark. Good luck in your search," Oh man it felt good.

Now if I said "Hi xyz, I enjoyed our date, lets do it again" and she said that, OK ,no problem. But when I don't say anything and a woman assumes, IT'S ON.

Now I'm not a player who sleeps with hundreds of girls, but my main point is this: if a woman assumes something about you, you have to, HAVE TO, HAVE TO hit them back.

 

[Vanderdonck]

About 2 hours later, she texts "Hi Badboy, thanks for coffee, just wanted to say didn't feel romantic connection. Good luck in your search."


But it bugged she assumed that I felt something.

She said she didn't feel anything. Where did she she say anything about you feeling something? I don't see it.

 

[Westminster]

Don't let in bug you, OP. It's just a date which didn't go anywhere for whatever reason. You didn't have a lot invested in it. Personally, I wouldn't have responded, but maybe something short like "OK, no probs. Ditto" would be alright. But I probably wouldn't bother.

Rise a above it, just move on.

 

[Barrister]

I don’t think this site teaches “just walk away” so much as to always let things roll off of you. In this situation specifically, “agree and amplify” was the way to go immediately after the text was received. Responding two weeks later makes you look like you’ve sat around being angry about it - which is accurate because that is exactly what you did.

“hey, no hard feelings at all. Had a good time but agree there was no spark. No use forcing anything. Good luck with everything and I’ll see you around if you’re lucky.”

 

[SW15]

I would have forgotten this woman ever existed within 24-48 of receiving that unpleasant text message. Some things aren't even worth acknowledging.

She would have been deleted from my phone as soon as it was received.

Also, I typically don't do coffee dates. The only time when I might do a coffee date is if I am doing a bookstore approach and I manage to do an instantaneous date in the coffee shop located inside a bookstore. Some bookstore locations have coffee shops set up inside of them.

 

[Clockwerk50]

It reminds me of this thread. - Proof that women past 50 play AW games on apps! | SoSuave Discussion Forum

There is no point in arguing with women over text, especially 2 weeks later. Too much ego. Hopefully, you didn't lose sleep over this, even though "exploded" seems like you were angry at the text since it made you feel undesirable.

 

[Dr.Suave]

Next time, you text the girl first: "Hey you didnt pass the boner test. Good luck in your search". Ahhh just messin with you, bro.

Not really much I can add to what other members have already contributed. Sounds like maybe you allowed a girl you didnt even like to live on your head rent-free for a couple of weeks. Most of us have made similar mistakes at some point on our journey but you live and you learn.

 

[New_Journey]

If a girl assumes something about you, you have to hit her back

Nope, this is petty

"Hi Badboy, thanks for coffee, just wanted to say didn't feel romantic connection. Good luck in your search."

You took her to a coffee date? You could do fun dates where you can have her smiling and having fun, but instead you took her to cheap coffee date? I imagine you two sitting next to each other talking about $hit, you're boring.

Now because this site, the players who sleep with girls with their eyes closed in 10 min of meeting them, teaches to "walk away"

It applies to everyone.

So today, I almost 2 weeks after the date, I exploded inside. I texted back "Hi xyz, I just got your message. I don't remember saying I felt a romantic spark. Good luck in your search," Oh man it felt good.

This is nice guy behavior, you got mad cause you went with a cover contract of having sex, but instead you should have gone to a date to have fun, teasing her, making fun of her, competing against her with some game in a fun way, not as an interview.

Now if I said "Hi xyz, I enjoyed our date, lets do it again" and she said that, OK ,no problem. But when I don't say anything and a woman assumes, IT'S ON.

This makes no sense. You don't know what you're saying.

if a woman assumes something about you, you have to, HAVE TO, HAVE TO hit them back.

If a woman assumes you're a bad boy and a player, are gonna tell her "noooo I'm not like that other guys, I'm different"

Women love validation, women loved to dress hot for people to look at her. Use that to your advantage. You should have taken her to do a fun activity.

I'm picking you up at this time, I want you to wear X outfit and high heels. Then you should have taken her to fun place where people dress nice. And you should dress nice too, women love validation and if a hot woman is with a hot guy on a date where other women are looking at him, that's pre-selection, use women's hamster to your advantage. Don't be a boring man