Call when she said or postpone

[mahon83050]

I asked for some chicks number and hinted we should get together during the week. She told me to call her on Tuesday. If I call exactly when she says, isn't that being too predicatable or am I thinking too much? I was wondering to maybe wait another day to keep her on her toes?

 

[TheTraveller]

I think if you just got her number, wait a bit.... don't be like every other guy and call when she says.

But if you are just worrying about it, then forget the system and call her. Do what YOU feel most comfortable with and stop worrying about the girl. If she's interested, she'll wait a day or so.

- t

 

[hardwork]

Discussion Forum

 

[TesuqueRed]

It's a test to see if you do what you're told.

Like a paper-trained puppy.

Of course, she can make you pay for not doing what you're told by getting pyssy or blowing you off. For most AFCs, this snaps them right back into line.

But consider this--don't call her as she ordered you to and do it when it suits you. She gets pyssy--how do you respond?

Ever notice how women will breeze thru an apology for not calling back, or not mention it or apologize profusely and then do it again---??? An AFC wouldn't DREAM of being so blatantly DISRESPECTFUL or going against COMMON CURTESY and doing the same (but they'll make excuses or just accept her doing that, don't they??)

So don't call as iinstructed. Don't cave when she makes you pay for it--be willing to next her if req'd. Imagine breezing thru any old excuse why you didn't call as instructed on Tuesday.

This is a test. It's a multi-part test---pass the first part (not calling) and you'll get hit with the second part ("you didn't call! how disrespectful! I'm busy! You missed out!...")

 

[TesuqueRed]

And, yes, you'll keep her on her toes..

 

[Kyran]

Why don't you call her next tuesday?

 

[anakin]

I second TesqueRed's response.

The only reason you should call a girl on a certain day, is IF YOU SAID you would call on a particular day. NEVER GET INTO SUCH A SITUATION!!

Never tell a girl when you will call.

If she trys to corner you, say you will call when you have the time...never give hints of when that may be ....

But if she really insists ... then say "I'll try to call you on X day..." That also allows you NOT to call on X day ...

But if a guy is silly enough to say ... "I promise to call you on X day..." then you SHOULD call her that day...otherwise you come across as a liar rather than a challenge... That's why you should never position yourself to get into saying such a thing...

 

[snatchdaddy]

The answer to the question is to not allow yourself to be put in that situation in the first place.

First of all, you face two problems:
1. If you do call on Tuesday will you look like you are easily told what to do.
2. If you don't call on Tuesday will she think your rude or blowing her off.

Here are some ways you may consider handling it. If she asks you to call her on a certain day, then say, "Well, I can't guarantee I will have time on that day. Maybe I can call later in the week", or... how about, "Look, I know how incredibly interesting I am (wink, wink) and how attracted you are to me. But I don't want to promise I will call when I may not be able to. I'll have to get ahold of you later so you can be entranced by the honor of speaking to me."

 

[TheCloser]

Call her thursday then if she asks why you didn't call, use Doc Loves comeback..

"I did call!"
"When?"
"Just now!"

It works good...Do not call on Tuesday though.

 

[SLIKKER_THAN_AVG]

TheCloser, i wouldnt use that..if you need new material..shoot me a PM and We'll chat

 

[The Real Deal]

Who cares what she said, be yourself, do what you want.

 

[Monkey]

Don't call her ...ever! You'll be giving away all the power