Bye bye So Suave - Im out of here ..

[Daddy The Pimp]

Hey guys whats up.

Recently , i noticed myself that im spending too much time on here.
I spend about 5 hours a day in my computer. About 2 on sosuave.

I think this is too much time to see the world through the monitor when i could be out there doing real stuff. Also , i have noticed that im so attracted to this site that i couldnt keep myself away from it. I would come home thinking about coming here and writing the new realizations that i had on field or whatever. WTF ? Pure keyboard jockeyism.

Another thing that i realized was that i would come here 10 times to check if somebody have replied to my threads and to my posts.

Fuck that.

I asked Rollo to Ban me so don't be surprised if you see me banned. The reason is that i cant keep my self away from this other way.

I asked him to lift the ban on the 15th of july so ill just check some things , put some realizations that i made through these days and then GO again.


Before i go , i should THANK YA ALL. This site helped me alot and made me a better man. I learned many things on this site and im the man that i am today THANKS TO THIS SITE. I love most of the posters here (no homo). The posters that go in field , the posters that troll , the posters that ask stupid questions and the posters that make long theoritical threads . But this is what makes this SO FVCKING ADDICTIVE. I had incredible fun here.

But , its time to go. Ill come back after summer maybe. Ill not check this thread till the end of the summer ( even though ill have to fight myself because im so looking for the outcome :nervous: )



For now , im OUTTA HERE.
MAYBE YOU SHOULD DO THE SAME


PEACE AND RESPECT..

*logging out and closing this site with tears feeling like im going to miss this so much*

 

[Warrior74]

Good luck man.

I'm probably on here to much myself. I spend all day and most of the night staring at a computer screen for work, I tend to just keep this site open in a tab.


That being said I have two girls on my team, a job, a business and working on an album and spend time with my daughter....I probably could be devoting more time to some of those things. Might be time for a break myself while I get my business going...its starting to pick up.

 

[Kal0051]

yeah man I'm gonna do the same. While I do think this site has helped me a bit I seem to obsess over the little details now and I think that's hurting my game. I'll think I'll just try some of the basic things I learned here. Good bye everyone, maybe I'll be back in a few months. And good luck with everything.

 

[Igetit!]

I've actually thought about leaving the forum as well. To tell the truth,I have no desire to be a pimp,player,or a Don Juan. I'm not looking to "bang new chicks" every night. I'm not,so there's no point in putting up some front and acting like I do. All I want is the ability to walk up to a girl I find attractive,and make her interested in me. That's it. That's all I've ever wanted. Once I finally figured out what was causing me to repeatedly fall into the friendzone,and understand how attraction works for women,I was content. However,I like to help others wherever I can,and from time to time I'll still get a revelation about women and dating that I hadn't previously had.

Good luck with everything DTP.

 

[R19]

After wasting more than one minute getting wrapped up in the most worthless drama of "Honda Civic, Ford Focus, or Mitsubishi Lancer: What do chicks prefer?", I can only shake my head...

And then to see a very real, relevant question I posted under "I have a boyfriend" left high and dry: What to do when you run into another guy that is clearly also seeing / has some type of history with the girl you are seeing and all three of you are in tight quarters and the sh1t is about to hit the fan if you don't play it right, I can only shake my head even more...

WTF is more valuable, selecting a car or coming off smooth by managing a tough situation right vs. losing an opportunity or getting into a fight or worse (not to rip on the original thread starter)? I have to laugh. My car was parked in VIP Saturday night 3 spaces over from a silver Murcielago convert and I see exotics all of the time not to mention the sickest whips of all sorts and sport bike heaven up in here - as usual every 5 minutes - who gives a fuvk? Was my day / night a success given what I wanted? People should be pouring their energy into what to do in the moment - good and bad moments which can lead to the purest ecstasy, making them light up and get red hot, wet, turned on or result in a pretty crappy outcome.

For all the incredible brilliance on here there is a lot of wasted energy and irrelevant info to filter through.

 

[Sp1kez]

DTP is one of my favorite posters

 

[djinhell]

All the best DTP...you were a good poster..helped me out in a few of my threads!

Cant say Im far off retiring from sosuave...but not yet..still have much to learn

Rock On!! :rockon:

Dj In Hell

 

[Quiksilver]

Sounds like you guys are spending a little too much time indoors...

Get some hobbies and some things that you love to do in life, and you'll rarely come here.

I used to come here daily for an hour or two, albeit only to the H&F board, but these days sometimes I never even think about SS for weeks at a time.

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Whoever is spending copious amounts of time here, the problem isn't SS, and taking it away isn't going to answer anything. The solution is to add SOMETHING ELSE to your life that you like to do and takes up the time that you'd otherwise devote to SS.

Just simply not coming here will end with you using that same time slot on some other equally useless activity.

Not saying that SS is useless, but IMO every guy here has spent 2-4 months addicted to everything on the site and reads every article/tip/etc he can find. After awhile though it's time to leave the nest.

 

[Rollo Tomassi]

For the record, Mods can't ban anyone. Only Alan the admin can.

 

[Solomon]

I feel ya hence one hour a day online for me and that's it

 

[Sp1kez]

 

[speakeasy]

I don't understand why people feel the need to announce that they no longer want to post. If you want to leave, then just leave, why make a spectacle of the fact that you're leaving?

 

[Taviii]

I don't understand why people feel the need to announce that they no longer want to post. If you want to leave, then just leave, why make a spectacle of the fact that you're leaving?

Male version of an attention *****.

 

[gonnamakeit]

Yup always good to limit internet. Once I finish the bootcamp I am cutting out internet and this site. I wasn't on it and feel great not useing it and love the time but I had been planning on doing the bootcamp this summer all year and wanted to do it on here.

 

[Cry For Love]

I don't understand why people feel the need to announce that they no longer want to post. If you want to leave, then just leave, why make a spectacle of the fact that you're leaving?

its one hell of an ego boost to see others posting to your thread, especially a thread that is all about yourself

feels amazing

 

[Captain]

I don't understand why people feel the need to announce that they no longer want to post. If you want to leave, then just leave, why make a spectacle of the fact that you're leaving?

its one hell of an ego boost to see others posting to your thread, especially a thread that is all about yourself

Actually, DTP was making a good point about actually getting out there and improving yourself, rather than spending hours on the internet "learning".

I came across SS in 2003, when I knew I was doing something badly wrong with women. I read every article, then left. I came back this year, figured out there was a forum, and decided to help a few people.

SS does a good job, so long as you don't let it consume you.

 

[I.A.F.Y.B.]

Good, get the fvck outta here and enjoy life!!

 

[playerone]

I've actually thought about leaving the forum as well. To tell the truth,I have no desire to be a pimp,player,or a Don Juan. I'm not looking to "bang new chicks" every night. I'm not,so there's no point in putting up some front and acting like I do. All I want is the ability to walk up to a girl I find attractive,and make her interested in me. That's it. That's all I've ever wanted. Once I finally figured out what was causing me to repeatedly fall into the friendzone,and understand how attraction works for women,I was content. However,I like to help others wherever I can,and from time to time I'll still get a revelation about women and dating that I hadn't previously had.

Good luck with everything DTP.

That's how i feel too.

 

[search1ng]

gl man, although i don't know how you'd be addicted to this site... it's full of idiots! Haha, jokes~~

anyway, peace

 

[fertileTurtle]

Damn. He was a good one.