So I know this topic has obviously been touched but I just want to tailor it a little..
I'm in grad school and 28 yrs old.. I live in a town house near campus, and I go to the local bars. I'm sooooo sick of buying drinks for a girl to get her attention and then nothing coming of it. I have great charm, I lift a lot, so I have a good figure(not huge, just toned), I know I'm attractive facial wise (not trying to flaunt but I mean you just know when you are attractive I guess) and I have high confidence when talking to these girls.. So it's not hard for me to grab their attention. Sealing the deal is though however.
I've bought a few a drinks for one girl last weekend and I got a number and then she never answered the next night.
This past weekend I was buying drinks for a girl I met through a circle of friends and again nothing came of it..
What is your guys approach do buying a drink? I obviously don't spend a lot.. maybe 10-15$ here or there on them alone.. but still it adds up.
Is there a certain amount of conversation time you have before you offer a drink.. is it something you lead in with after a few minutes of charm? DO you buy her enough drinks to get her drunk and weasel her back to your place? Give me some pointers because obviously I'm failing here at this college town bar. I know majority of it has to do with the chicks having bf's here and just wanting free drinks.. I want to out smart the fox some how..
When I saw the chick I was talking to last weekend (who ignored my text the next day) this weekend, I thought about being like hey... I had a great time last weekend let me pick you up another drink, and get her a water and walk away.
I'm in grad school and 28 yrs old.. I live in a town house near campus, and I go to the local bars. I'm sooooo sick of buying drinks for a girl to get her attention and then nothing coming of it. I have great charm, I lift a lot, so I have a good figure(not huge, just toned), I know I'm attractive facial wise (not trying to flaunt but I mean you just know when you are attractive I guess) and I have high confidence when talking to these girls.. So it's not hard for me to grab their attention. Sealing the deal is though however.
I've bought a few a drinks for one girl last weekend and I got a number and then she never answered the next night.
This past weekend I was buying drinks for a girl I met through a circle of friends and again nothing came of it..
What is your guys approach do buying a drink? I obviously don't spend a lot.. maybe 10-15$ here or there on them alone.. but still it adds up.
Is there a certain amount of conversation time you have before you offer a drink.. is it something you lead in with after a few minutes of charm? DO you buy her enough drinks to get her drunk and weasel her back to your place? Give me some pointers because obviously I'm failing here at this college town bar. I know majority of it has to do with the chicks having bf's here and just wanting free drinks.. I want to out smart the fox some how..
When I saw the chick I was talking to last weekend (who ignored my text the next day) this weekend, I thought about being like hey... I had a great time last weekend let me pick you up another drink, and get her a water and walk away.