buying girls drinks at the club

[f283000]

Ask yourself 1 question, does she deserve it?

I danced with a girl for like 20 minutes or should I say it was more like nonstop grinding for 20 minutes. This girl looked like a professional grinder all she did was back that thing up and grind on me like a pro. Her friend joined in the action and next thing you know i was grinding with 2 girls and this went on and on.

Her friend asked me to buy them a drink. That turned me off I thought they just wanted to get something out of me and I left the dance floor for the bathroom to get away from them. I ain't buying no hos no drink was what I thought.

Now looking back this girl worked on my ____ for so long she deserved a drink. What did not occur to me at the time was to say "ok sure let's have a drink but let's go somewhere else for it." Usually when they agree to leave the club with you it's on. I just would never buy a girl a drink at the club itself.

 

[Oxide]

I will say this - sometimes buy me a drink is her test to see if you are cheap, before she sleeps with you. Plus, she can hor logic that "you are nice and did something for her, so it's ok for her to sleep with you"

I lost a couple of girls this way.

 

[garruk]

Ask yourself 1 question, does she deserve it?

I danced with a girl for like 20 minutes or should I say it was more like nonstop grinding for 20 minutes. This girl looked like a professional grinder all she did was back that thing up and grind on me like a pro. Her friend joined in the action and next thing you know i was grinding with 2 girls and this went on and on.

Her friend asked me to buy them a drink. That turned me off I thought they just wanted to get something out of me and I left the dance floor for the bathroom to get away from them. I ain't buying no hos no drink was what I thought.

Now looking back this girl worked on my ____ for so long she deserved a drink. What did not occur to me at the time was to say "ok sure let's have a drink but let's go somewhere else for it." Usually when they agree to leave the club with you it's on. I just would never buy a girl a drink at the club itself.

this is a pretty good example of what im getting at. buying girls drinks does seem needy.

however, in this case it seems like if you had bought her a drink you would might have been in a better position? in any case, where would you try to bounce them to?

 

[CarlitosWay]

Nope I'll only buy a drink for a buddy/girlfriend or me and that's it. Now if some one buys me something I'll of course return the favor.

I was grinding with this 28 year old last night....well we got hot and sweaty mighty quick...I said I'm going to get a drink and asked if she wanted something. Yeah I brought her ass back a water and that was it .

 

[f283000]

however, in this case it seems like if you had bought her a drink you would might have been in a better position? in any case, where would you try to bounce them to?

Take them to a bar and then to your place. Or you could just offer to go to your place right away. You just need to get them away from the big crowd and loud music of a club to somewhere where you can isolate better.

I was grinding with this 28 year old last night....well we got hot and sweaty mighty quick...I said I'm going to get a drink and asked if she wanted something. Yeah I brought her ass back a water and that was it .

lol awesome a**hole move i'm writing this one down for future use thanks for sharing brother.

If not mistaken this c&f movie is something that juggler recommends doing. They ask you to buy them a drink and you get them water or a glass of milk.

 

[tinctrar]

I'm 29, I've been out bar hopping for 10 years, and just a month ago was the FIRST time I bought a girl a drink. And it was by accident.

You don't owe these broads anything. Remember that. If one has the audacity to ask you to buy them a drink, you don't have to be a jerk. Just say, "Sure, right after you buy me one." or tell her you buy drinks for girls who earn it.

...I can't believe chicks are actually ASKING you to buy them drinks. I've never seen that before. At least have the courtesy to hint at it...

Oh and what's the meaning behind it? It's a test to see how weak you are and what they can get out of you. These chicks obviously have the $5 or $6 to get their own drink. It's not gonna bankrupt them. They just want to be able to brag to their friends about how they made some random dude buy them a drink.

Well said Iceberg. I live out here in Vegas - and to be honest alot of girls just want to brag to thier friends about guys buying them drinks. I usually use the above method and its easier on your wallet.

I like the approach of having the woman buy the first one and then ill get the second. By that time I have already established whether I want to continue to convo or take it further.

I used to buy alot of drinks for girls when I turned 21. Wasnt a huge mistake every time - but I did get burned a couple of times.

One chick I know laughs whenever I tell her that girls buy me drinks. She says its not the right thing to do. lol. But trust me on this. Get the convo started and go from there.

 

[beatoven]

I love it when women ask for something that involves money. I've had excellent success deflecting it by turning it around and asking them to buy me a drink or make a donation in my name to whatever cause they're pimping.

It works quite well actually. I've had women buy me drinks (two in the same night, no less!), food, raffle tickets, coffee, and a bunch of other stuff.

However some don't have a sense of humor and don't like others playing their games. These are the ones that you generally next, as they will be trouble down the road.