Busting a *** with an attractive woman is not going to lead to joy

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Sure it feels good and you might be on cloud 9 for a little while (maybe a week) but have you ever noticed if never fulfills you or leads to joy? Once you sleep with a hot woman, does your desire for hot woman go away? No of course not, you are just going to keep being filled with desire, which leads to a road to nowhere. I am not saying, don't desire hot women, but it's not the key to happiness/joy in this life.

Joy comes from setting goals and reaching them, being true to yourself, helping others and making connections with others.
 

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Happiness is a feeling that arises from within, we hold the key to our own happiness at all times. It has a lot more to do with our perspective towards the external world than the external world itself. Only we set the conditions needed to feel it.

People who think "if only I had more women/money/whatever" set themselves up for unhappiness, there's always more to be had and never enough.

This is also a pitfall in any form of self-improvement. To never appreciate what they've got and constantly feel lesser because they could always be better. Sure, push for better, but don't forget to stop to appreciate how far you've come already.

This is btw also how some rich people stay unhappy, they're rich because they keep pushing for more and it's never enough. Happiness does not come from constantly moving the goalposts and never achieving any of it because it's moved every time you get close. So yeah, maybe it's effective at getting wealthy and such, but what's the fvcking point if one does not have the wisdom to enjoy it at some point?

As you say, reaching a goal is satisfying. The problem is that many starve themselves of happiness by never reaching a moving goal. As such it's not really so much about reaching the goal as it is about our attitude towards our journey in life. Happiness can be had today regardless of where we are in relation to our goal, we set the conditions to feel it.

Happiness is a choice.
 

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Joy comes from setting goals and reaching them,
like busting more nuts in hotter girls

or getting from "hi" to the nut busting faster and faster.

or getting from the nut busting to the, "uh, yeah, I got an early day tomorrow..." faster and faster

or busting nuts in girls that have happiness or joy related tattoos
 

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Sure it feels good and you might be on cloud 9 for a little while (maybe a week) but have you ever noticed if never fulfills you or leads to joy? Once you sleep with a hot woman, does your desire for hot woman go away? No of course not, you are just going to keep being filled with desire, which leads to a road to nowhere. I am not saying, don't desire hot women, but it's not the key to happiness/joy in this life.

Joy comes from setting goals and reaching them, being true to yourself, helping others and making connections with others.
busting a nut in a girls tight pvssy as you french kiss her is definetly one of lifes greatest high though. i love it
 

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Naturally by the time a man reaches 30 he should come to this conclusion.
 

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busting a nut in a girls tight pvssy as you french kiss her is definetly one of lifes greatest high though. i love it
When I was 41 (now 44) I hung out with a 21 year old from the gym 4x. I only got to 2nd base with her. I made all the moves and she barely reciprocated. It would of been amazing to see and feel that 21 year old *****, but I never got that chance.

I will probably never have an opportunity like that again.
 

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This will quickly drive all women away from you.

And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.

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Nah man,

Having sekc is the ultimate joy. I've traveled, lived abroad, took all kind of drugs, done skydiving and all kind of interesting activities. All super boring compared to having sekc, especially with a new girl 100% your type.

Sekc brings true happiness, because it's the main purpose in life: to reproduce
You can reach your goals, but if you don't have sekc you will always live in frustration. I'm not ashamed to admit it, my main goal in life is to have sekc with young hot girls as much as I can before I die. The result of having such a goal is that I have a very interesting life, I'm out of my comfort zone all the time, trying to achieve big things that eventually will lead to more hotter girls. Trying to have more sekc forces me to do interesting things, which lead to a attractive lifestyle, which lead to taking care of myself and massive self improvement (workout, health..) which lead to girls, which lead to being satisfied and happy. You get my point? One thing is sure, I will die with a lot of amazing memories, because I've been chasing hot girls all my life.

Sekc is like money, it might not bring you happiness, but trying living without sekc, you'll be miserable and frustrated. My dream life is to spend my time fvcking models and hb10s, that's it. When I hear things like hobbies.. my hobby is to meet girls. Result? I've been a DJ, a professional photographer, I traveled, etc. and now I've landed in Moscow Russia, hot girls paradise where I'm trying to live my dream. I don't have children, no wife, I'm free to do what I want.

Nothing is eternal, I prefer the high of a good fvck than the high of something else that exists only to fill time.
Chase the girls, the girls will find you.
It's a bit extreme, but thing about it, it makes sense.
I don't agree with your life mindset and goals, but to each his own.
 

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I have enjoyed having sex with attractive women and having orgasms from it.
 

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I don't agree with your life mindset and goals, but to each his own.
If it works for him in his life would you have him change it to fit your own mindset? What if the sex brings on an abundant state that adds to the rest of his life? That's how it does on many men.
 

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Don't worry, I'm used to hear that.
Yep you will hear it from dudes who don't mind being cucked, they also might even sleep in different beds if they are married and see nothing wrong with it. Or they go celebate for extensive periods of time, because sex might even bother them, or simply they don't see a need. To them you are a creep or gross or a selfish dude for wanting and needing the sex to happen.
 

Tell her a little about yourself, but not too much. Maintain some mystery. Give her something to think about and wonder about when she's at home.

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Like he said, to each his own life and I agree with that. Like Tim Ferris said: 'Happiness can be bought with a bottle of wine and has become ambiguous through overuse. Excitement is the more practical synonym for happiness, and it is precisely what you should strive to chase. It is the cure-all.”

Having sekc is exciting. You do the maths.
I look at it as lubricant and a lift to the rest of a mans life. It causes abundance and increase.. Unless he wants to be in an assh0le state that hates everyone, then yes, starve yourself, you will be angry as hell.
 

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I look at it as lubricant and a lift to the rest of a mans life. It causes abundance and increase.. Unless he wants to be in an assh0le state that hates everyone, then yes, starve yourself, you will be angry as hell.
I am not hating on anyone or being jealous or what not, but chasing women your whole life and making it your life goal to bust a nut sounds like you are a slave to your desires.
 

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I am not hating on anyone or being jealous or what not, but chasing women your whole life and making it your life goal to bust a nut sounds like you are a slave to your desires.
Nobody said chasing women our whole lives or being a slave to pvssy. We can be setup where women are attracted to us and prefer to have sexual relations with us. There is no lowering of ourselves or putting ourselves in bad position to obtain it. They like how we live our life and CHOOSE us to have sex with. A fulfilling and rich sex life causes abundance.
 
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The next step after achieving a goal isn’t to set another, higher goal. The next step is to celebrate. Too many people skip this step and spend their entire lives unhappy because they were always striving to be better and never spent any time just being happy. Go be happy. Being happy is better than being dissatisfied with your life.
 
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