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Sure occasionally I might not agree with the brutality of some of his convictions but I don't go crying to a mod over it.
Right. And you can simply choose to leave the page or ignore a topic and move on if you want to. I agree with some things Burroughs mentions and think he brings up a lot of valid points. There are times when i think his world-view is a bit exaggerated and there are times when I think he hits the nail on the head.So when I don't agree with something I can simply either not worry about it or I can ignore it. There are times where he might bring up a valid point and it might get a little bit repetitive seeing that same point repeated, because it's old news to me, but that's simply because at some point, once you realize something, reading the same thing repeated might seem a bit redundant.
Overall I like Burroughs about as much as you can like someone you've never met in person. I think he's smart. Maybe a bit jaded at times, but that could be due to some life experiences. He brings up some good points. I agree 100% that most women have entitlement issues and other problems. And I agree that a big part of the problem is the wimpy men that enable and encourage bad behavior from women and actually reward it.
*** When a man comes along that has some self-respect and won't tolerate misbehavior on the part of women, he has a few choices. He can severely limit his involvement with them, limiting it to short-term or no-strings-attached relationships, and severing all ties at the hint of any desire to enter into a long-term relationship.
He can enter relationships and find a woman with enough good qualities and train any small traces of bad conditioning out of her. The effort will have to be worth it, meaning he will have to have a good overall base to work with. He will have to find a woman that he loves enough, and that loves him enough, for it to be worth it for him to instruct and train and discipline any unpleasant and destructive attitudes and behaviors OUT of her. If there are any remnants or traces of the bad conditioning she's received by the feminists and the desperate men out there, he will basically be undoing the crap they did.
In very, extremely rare cases, you'll find a woman who hasn't been affected by the destructive nature of feminism and the bad results of being fawned over and being allowed to get away with uncivilized behavior by men who act like starved dogs any time a woman is around. Modern feminism promotes a very selfish, destructive attitude in women along with hatred for men in the cowardly disguise of "women's rights".
The answer isn't to lose all hope. The answer is to first recognize the problem and then BE the change that you want to see. Men are the creators of this society. So why not simply create something new and beautiful? The women will love us for it, even if they resist at first. The ones that have no redeeming qualities will be left behind. The ones with half a chance can be taught to be well-behaved LADIES. And of course we will treat them like ladies as long as they behave like ladies.
NO self-respecting man should ever accept the idea that for all of their hard work, kindness, and sacrifices, that they should be repaid for their kindness with ungrateful, entitled, inconsiderate, selfish, rude, me-first, nothing is ever good enough behavior.
We can have sex with multiple women over an extended period of time in a no-strings type scenario. There's nothing wrong with enjoying women. At some point though, some of us will want to get into a more long-term arrangement. Maybe have a series of long-term relationships or maybe get married and start a family. Either with or without kids.
Once we've traced the nature of the problem, we can opt out of certain scenarios if we choose. We can avoid certain women. When we find a woman or women that are worth the effort, we have good materials to work with but we will have to BUILD. We will have to undo certain things.
Understand something. Your female relatives, your sisters, your aunts, your mothers, your nieces, are playing a different role with YOU than they are when they date or marry a man. It's not so much that these women are broken. They are very good to YOU. But many of them may give their husbands or boyfriends different treatment because of the ROLES they play or the ideas they have about how different types of relationships SHOULD be.
The female entitlement issues are mainly limited to the context of male/female romantic relationships. This is how your aunt or mother or sister could be so sweet to you all the time and give you the world if you asked it of her and never make unreasonable demands of you and then when dealing with her husband, be self-entitled, selfish, ungrateful, and expect her husband to be a slave to her.
It's the expectation of the role she thinks she is supposed to play and that you are supposed to play, given the context. Context is given a name. This is why when you first date a woman, her behavior could be a lot different than if you were married. Other factors come into play too but one of the big factors is the role you're expected to play, given the nature of your relationship.
When you enter the realm of romantic relationships, YOU have to change the expectations and also re-condition, if necessary, in order to create the change you desire, with her cooperation. OK. I said a mouthful. I did feel that we've talked about the problem enough and it was about time someone began talking about something that halfway resembles a workable solution. If you think this is too long, SKIP IT.
