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I have been asked by several members recently "How to build a rotation". I have written several threads about this subject in the past, but I will throw another one out there.
First and foremost: You will need to be able to schedule a decent amount of dates. This takes time and you need to make sure that you are screening properly so you dont waste your time. Understand that you are looking for 2 types of women for your rotation- a woman that is ok casually dating or one that you can dangle the carrot in front of and string her along over a period of time. Plus there are women that will know that you are "dating" and think they can change you into getting you into a relationship once you see how great she is. That is ok too. Just maintain a solid frame.
Think of a rotation like this: If you owned an NBA team, you are obviously signing quality players. You should be content with the 5 starters that you are putting on the floor, which is your rotation once you build up to that. Obviously, just like a good NBA franchise, you are always looking for ways to make your team better by cutting/trading your weaker link on the team and adding someone that is higher quality.
Building a rotation doesnt stop once you have 2-3 chicks that you are seeing once a week or once every 2 weeks. If 3 is a good number for you then over time you will see which one is your weakest link and you should always be entertaining other women and screening them out so that you can add a better woman to replace the weakest one.
Again, all women in your rotation should be quality women that you would be exclusive with if you were looking for that. You shouldnt add someone that is low quality or trash.
Once you set yourself up with a solid 2-3 woman rotation you should still be hitting up other chicks and always searching for a better option than what you have.
The benefit of a rotation is you have several women that you are consistently seeing/fvcking, you will be less likely to act needy/desperate/clingy because you will develop an abundance mindset, which in turn, will have these women chasing you even harder. You can enjoy the positives of each woman and if she acts disrespectful or does something stupid, you just use Silence and Distance from her. If you lose one that is acting out in poor behavior, so be it, as you will have 2-3 that you are still seeing and you will also have other women on the back line to work into those initial dates. Think of it as you interviewing them over drinks to see if they have what it takes to even be a part of your rotation.
In the past when I was spinning 4-5 chicks at a time (which is too many for me btw) I have went on initial dates with others who were head and shoulders above what I had currently in my rotation. Although I didnt fast track them by any means, they quickly went to the top of the list to spend time with when I had time available.
I have also banged several chicks after the first initial "date" over a couple of drinks that didnt quite do it for me enough to put them into my rotation, but got sex out of the deal anyways. Win/win.
Men build rotations for many different reasons. Some do it because the thought of settling down scares them and they want to experience different women and also get to know them to a certain extent. Some do it just for the thrill of fvcking several women at the same time. It doesnt really matter what your reason for wanting to build a rotation is, so long as you do it with high standards and not spin plates that arent high enough quality that you would date them exclusively.
My reason for a rotation is a combination of all of the above. I use a rotation to continually date several women and if one is just a great catch, we get along tremendously, sex is great, etc., I can stop my rotation at any time I choose and enter an exclusive relationship with her. But if that doesnt work out, I can always go back to build a rotation rather quickly because I still have orbiters.
Which is where I currently am- one has very easily risen above the rest and although I am not physically seeing other women right now, they arent too far away if something would happen and the current woman I am seeing would drastically change or do something stupid.
Some men want a Ferrari. Some want a new pickup truck. With a rotation you can get what you can afford but still test drive the ones you cant afford. Just dont find yourself test driving a piece of shyte because that is not what I use a rotation for. They all have to be at least a certain higher quality and value to even get an initial "date".
Its funny- 3 months ago I test drove a new pickup at a dealership. It was white and I wanted a metallic gray. Identical trucks other than that. So I spent an hour driving the white one that was local to see if I liked it, then drove 2 hours away and wrote a check for the same brand new truck in metallic gray. It benefited me to drive the local one first to make sure that I liked it and then go buy the other one. Why would I waste 4 hrs round trip if I didnt even like the way the truck drove in the first place?
Rotations are the same. Use them for your own benefit, putting yourself and your needs first. Its better in most cases to get the best out of 3-4 women than it is to get the best and worse from one woman. But again, there are always the exceptions out there that can make you want to break the rotation and date exclusively. Just remember to keep those orbiters close in case it falls through, then there are no dead times of not having a woman around.
There are many pros and cons to a rotation. The pros outweigh the cons. If you have extremely high morals when it comes to only dating one woman, a rotation is certainly not for you.
Happy Hunting
First and foremost: You will need to be able to schedule a decent amount of dates. This takes time and you need to make sure that you are screening properly so you dont waste your time. Understand that you are looking for 2 types of women for your rotation- a woman that is ok casually dating or one that you can dangle the carrot in front of and string her along over a period of time. Plus there are women that will know that you are "dating" and think they can change you into getting you into a relationship once you see how great she is. That is ok too. Just maintain a solid frame.
Think of a rotation like this: If you owned an NBA team, you are obviously signing quality players. You should be content with the 5 starters that you are putting on the floor, which is your rotation once you build up to that. Obviously, just like a good NBA franchise, you are always looking for ways to make your team better by cutting/trading your weaker link on the team and adding someone that is higher quality.
Building a rotation doesnt stop once you have 2-3 chicks that you are seeing once a week or once every 2 weeks. If 3 is a good number for you then over time you will see which one is your weakest link and you should always be entertaining other women and screening them out so that you can add a better woman to replace the weakest one.
Again, all women in your rotation should be quality women that you would be exclusive with if you were looking for that. You shouldnt add someone that is low quality or trash.
Once you set yourself up with a solid 2-3 woman rotation you should still be hitting up other chicks and always searching for a better option than what you have.
The benefit of a rotation is you have several women that you are consistently seeing/fvcking, you will be less likely to act needy/desperate/clingy because you will develop an abundance mindset, which in turn, will have these women chasing you even harder. You can enjoy the positives of each woman and if she acts disrespectful or does something stupid, you just use Silence and Distance from her. If you lose one that is acting out in poor behavior, so be it, as you will have 2-3 that you are still seeing and you will also have other women on the back line to work into those initial dates. Think of it as you interviewing them over drinks to see if they have what it takes to even be a part of your rotation.
In the past when I was spinning 4-5 chicks at a time (which is too many for me btw) I have went on initial dates with others who were head and shoulders above what I had currently in my rotation. Although I didnt fast track them by any means, they quickly went to the top of the list to spend time with when I had time available.
I have also banged several chicks after the first initial "date" over a couple of drinks that didnt quite do it for me enough to put them into my rotation, but got sex out of the deal anyways. Win/win.
Men build rotations for many different reasons. Some do it because the thought of settling down scares them and they want to experience different women and also get to know them to a certain extent. Some do it just for the thrill of fvcking several women at the same time. It doesnt really matter what your reason for wanting to build a rotation is, so long as you do it with high standards and not spin plates that arent high enough quality that you would date them exclusively.
My reason for a rotation is a combination of all of the above. I use a rotation to continually date several women and if one is just a great catch, we get along tremendously, sex is great, etc., I can stop my rotation at any time I choose and enter an exclusive relationship with her. But if that doesnt work out, I can always go back to build a rotation rather quickly because I still have orbiters.
Which is where I currently am- one has very easily risen above the rest and although I am not physically seeing other women right now, they arent too far away if something would happen and the current woman I am seeing would drastically change or do something stupid.
Some men want a Ferrari. Some want a new pickup truck. With a rotation you can get what you can afford but still test drive the ones you cant afford. Just dont find yourself test driving a piece of shyte because that is not what I use a rotation for. They all have to be at least a certain higher quality and value to even get an initial "date".
Its funny- 3 months ago I test drove a new pickup at a dealership. It was white and I wanted a metallic gray. Identical trucks other than that. So I spent an hour driving the white one that was local to see if I liked it, then drove 2 hours away and wrote a check for the same brand new truck in metallic gray. It benefited me to drive the local one first to make sure that I liked it and then go buy the other one. Why would I waste 4 hrs round trip if I didnt even like the way the truck drove in the first place?
Rotations are the same. Use them for your own benefit, putting yourself and your needs first. Its better in most cases to get the best out of 3-4 women than it is to get the best and worse from one woman. But again, there are always the exceptions out there that can make you want to break the rotation and date exclusively. Just remember to keep those orbiters close in case it falls through, then there are no dead times of not having a woman around.
There are many pros and cons to a rotation. The pros outweigh the cons. If you have extremely high morals when it comes to only dating one woman, a rotation is certainly not for you.
Happy Hunting
