TOneThousand
Don Juan
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- Nov 10, 2023
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Sup dudes. Was out with a good friend and his new gf the other night. The girlfriend is cool and good looking and kept asking me if I want her to talk to any girls to open them etc. Nothing wrong with a girl trying to help get you laid right? The thing is when she opens them, she's not making conversation she's just saying hi my name is, what's your name, and then bringing me in and telling them "meet my friend". Then she basically bails the f out and I'm making sha-hitty conversation with a group that started out awkward. Yes for sure I could have made better conversation but the weird introduction makes it feel like a GRIND
How do you guys go about this?
My thoughts after the fact...
1) If I were prepared with better material that could work - obviously up to me to be able to roll with awkward introductions and have interesting sh*t ready to go
2) Without good material I'd probably be better off just opening on my own vs having her say "hi nice to meet you, meet my friend"... and then she drops the mic
3) Ideally I'd coach her up before she approaches. Tell her to get them talking about a specific subject, tell her to introduce her boyfriend and then me, how we all know each other. Have her get the three of our crew involved in conversation with the set for a minute before she bails
Hey I still give her props for trying. She's a team player and give her credit for throwing it out there
Keep at it bros!
How do you guys go about this?
My thoughts after the fact...
1) If I were prepared with better material that could work - obviously up to me to be able to roll with awkward introductions and have interesting sh*t ready to go
2) Without good material I'd probably be better off just opening on my own vs having her say "hi nice to meet you, meet my friend"... and then she drops the mic
3) Ideally I'd coach her up before she approaches. Tell her to get them talking about a specific subject, tell her to introduce her boyfriend and then me, how we all know each other. Have her get the three of our crew involved in conversation with the set for a minute before she bails
Hey I still give her props for trying. She's a team player and give her credit for throwing it out there
Keep at it bros!