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crossboss

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If a girl calls you a buddy, what does that mean? Does that mean, she is only wanting to be friends? If so, what should I do?

I don't think I want a girl, if she only thinks of me as a friend. I just think I might want to ditch her.

Should you ever be friends, with a girl?

Also, why is it, a girl can get away with being a friend, with a guy, while a guy can't be friends with a girl.

Ex: If a girl, is friends with a guy, a guy will always want to date her.
However, if a guy is friends with a girl, she only wants to be friends, and doesn't care about sex.
 

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crossboss said:
If a girl calls you a buddy, what does that mean? Does that mean, she is only wanting to be friends? If so, what should I do?

I don't think I want a girl, if she only thinks of me as a friend. I just think I might want to ditch her.

Should you ever be friends, with a girl?

Also, why is it, a girl can get away with being a friend, with a guy, while a guy can't be friends with a girl.

Ex: If a girl, is friends with a guy, a guy will always want to date her.
However, if a guy is friends with a girl, she only wants to be friends, and doesn't care about sex.
You have that many posts and you're over analyzing like this?
I've been called buddy by a chic before and still got some action, usually though it doesn't last long, cause I turned that buddy into a "Fu*k buddy" and that's all it usually amounted to.

Now should you ever be friends with a girl? ABSOLUTELY!! Why the **** not? Understand, networking with as many people as possible=increased likelihood of finding more chics to click up with!! Of course you should network on your own also with new social groups. Yet it all adds up and let's be realistic, most the time this is a numbers game.
 

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Sorry

I am sorry, I really need to spend more time doing. I'll try and approach again, and report my results on here.
 

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Friend zone.

Its never a bad thing to have girls as friends.

As long as they arnt all friends
 

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crossboss said:
I am sorry, I really need to spend more time doing. I'll try and approach again, and report my results on here.
And dont apologize. You dont owe us anything
 

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Most likely friend zone. But who cares?

Simply put, a "buddy" called me last night at 2:30 AM. She had just gotten out of a nightclub with her girlfriends. Ive been spinnin this one for a while now (about 2 months). She doesnt want a relationship and neither do I.

She was at my place at 2:45 and left at 5:00. Needless to say we didnt play scrabble.

Take it for what it is. If the sex is great - then keep the friend. If not - find some "friends" and enjoy it.

The more you think about it the more AFC you become. Laugh it off and enjoy life.
 

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^^^^

Good advice. Listen to this man!
 
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