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First, I chuckled when I saw this:

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So it's been a while but I figured the brilliant minds on SS would be willing to give my pointless ramble a listen. I recognize a few names, it's been a damn long time though.

Anyways, my buddy, who we'll call Skippy, won 3.2 million in the state lotto. I was at work and missed his call and on my way home got a text from him reading "If you think its a joke its not. 3.2 million buddy!" so I listened to the voicemail and apparently I missed the fifteen minute call back window where he would buy me a car.

I call him up laughing and, apparently, the whole thing is actually true. My highschool buddy just won 3.2 million after taxes and lump summing. We've been a bit out of touch since I dropped out and went to college, but still talking at least once a week and hanging out twice a month, give or take. He's on a waiting list for a Lambo, bought two of our buddies cars and offered to buy me one. That's where things get odd.

My original reaction wasn't too smooth... I immediately started talking like his financial planner, telling him to put at least 2 mil in bonds, etc. His reaction was a bit cold, and when I realized what I was doing I cut that off. He flaked out on me some, which was unusual, and wasn't calling as often. Then I called him to ask about something and we started talking and I basically told him I didn't want him to buy me a car/apartment/pornstar/whatever and that IMO money kills friendships. I thanked him for the offer and said we should hang out sometime... his reaction was alot more quiet than before, and he was confused as to why I didn't want a car. I told him if he has to throw some money my way he could toss it in my college fund and take that weight off my shoulders, and he gave me a eh whatever and the conversation died.

I've lost friends over stupider **** than money, but this just seems so... unceremonious. He's pretty much doing the same stuff, just on a larger scale (breaking into a beach house and partying the weekend became renting a beach house and leaving halfway through for no apparent reason), and his friendship with me seems to be the only thing really affected.

Just had to rant about my lost bromance. I'll call him later and see what he's up to.
 

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Bromance!!! That's new. I like that.


I'm trying to win lotto right now. I play twice a week. Will I buy car for someone? Hell nah!!! I get money, I get someone to cash it for me, and I keep it. Probably buying me several sets of tires for my bicycle - because they get cut.


I can see that he wanted anttention, like a high roller wh0re, but he got from you mommy. Sort of you pushing him, and he pulled away.


No good deed goes unpunished.
 

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He's on a waiting list for a lambo?

Good grief, it's only 3.5 million. I know some family friends with three and five times that much who still drive BMWs.

If I won the lotto, I'd set aside $500,000 as spending and bank the rest. Being young and having that kind of cash behind you is the biggest stress reliever on earth. He could live a smiling, happy, well traveled modest life with that cash if he does it right.

However, the way you describe him, he'll be struggling to pay the gas bill on that lambo when he gets it.(isn't the waiting list like 1 year at least?)

Still, that's a mighty fine stroke of luck.
 

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Most lotto winners end up bankrupt. They get 'poor person' rich and spend it all.

Try to talk some sense in him. Tell him most people blow all the money. That's being his friend whether he wants to hear that or not.
 

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You can take someone out the hood, but you can take the hood out of someone.

New money. He'll be broke as hell and in a worse situtation then he was in 2 years ago within 3 years if that.

guys, let this be a point to show you that money is not everything. it's really not that damn serious. This is what happens when you have nothing to live for. you live for that next "fix".. you spend more and more trying to get it. it's like crack. it really is. when you first get it you use it because you don't see the end of it in sight. you take bigger hits, and get more of europhic feeling when you "hit it".. you give it away because it's "never ending".. but when it starts to dwindle and you start "counting how many hits you have left"... you become stingy when the friends you gave 100k to ask you for 30 bucks to pay a parking ticket.
it's not that great of a position. Why? Because it's the finest line on earth. You still have to generate income, because it's not enough to technically live a "comfortable life" forever off of. yes I can buy some houses and live off rent that I generate, but you get where I"m saying.

Nothing wrong with nice ****. I have nice ****. but you can't apprciate an Aston martin (which I have :)) utnil you have had a Lexus. you can't apprciate a Lexus until you have had a Lincoln. none of which are BAD cars. I forgot what it's called, but my GF has a black lincon that looks like a little 4 door sports car... **** I drive it all the time when she's blocking me in. leather and everything.

When you take that route... lol, get in a Lexus LS430 and tell me what the **** could you possibly want that this mother****er doesn't have? seriously?

When you get money, you are going to piss some people off. it's the nature of the beast. I'm not going to go broke pleasing everyone, then when I'm broke no one wants to help me. I don't mind doing **** for people who I know like me regardless, but even I have limits with that ****. I can only go so far.

If I won the lotto, I'd set aside $500,000 as spending and bank the rest.
think about what you are saying.. trust me.. it's hard as hell to spend 500k (unless you are here with me at Keeneland.. lol, i bull**** aside, Had to leave or else I'd go broke). WTF can you honestly spend 500k on for **** you actually WANT and not just buying just to be buying? I can go 2 months wtihout wearing the same thing twice, I have 3 cars (i'm selling one when I get back in town), every ****ing gaget you can want in your house (execpt an iphone, I just won't do it) a swimming pool, I travel every month and what... not close to 500k. Well.. not too far away.. the AM was a knot, but after I sell that I won't be close to 500k. there is only so much you can do.

I don't have kids... but I am assuming one day thre will be a little backbreaker running around here. I want to make sure if he has it in him or her, I can open whatever door I need to for him and her. If he's smart enough to go to Yale, god damnit where's my checkbook. I have a 7 year old sister that hasn't made a B yet. I have a 17 year old (I think...16 or 17) brother that's going to college next year.. he's on Scholly but still. i'm in a position to better their lifes.. if they are doing all they can, I have no problem helping them out. I want to be bale to.

Being young and having that kind of cash behind you is the biggest stress reliever on earth
Trust me.. more money more problems.. it's just that the majrority of people can't possibly conceive the type of problems you have becuase all their problems are with not having enough money. once you take THAT out the equation..

and even that... there are some things that the majrority of people want and don't even look at because there is no chance in hell they can ever afford it.. but now that you have 3.5 million.. there is this little flickering light in your head. There is **** to this day I honestly want.. two things in particular.. a house ON the oceanfront..I want ot be able to walk outside and, go off my deck, and my feet be n ocean sand. I want to have dinner with my GF on my patio and be looking at the ocean setting and listening to the waves crash. I can do that and will have that within the next couple of years.. I"m being patient.. but i also want a yacht... and it's so much of a "want" and not a "need" it would have ot be all cash and the one I want.. is about 2 million dollars. Technically if I wanted it I could have it.. but these are the things you deal with. you sitll have money problems.. they are just "different" money problems. I dont' worry about paying the damn tab about a 70 dollar dinner (although funny ass story, I went out earlier this week and I had to use my Gf's debit card because american express just decided I had spent too much money the last week and put a freeze on my accout and I left my other CC and my actual debit card in the hotel room.. I all I ever use is my American express card.. pissed me hte **** off. she thought it was the funniest **** on earth)

Before I left town I paid 98 dollars to fill up a fvcking SPORTS CAR. that **** still pisses you off
 

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Funny as it sounds, 3.5 million is not that much money. It may be if you live a modest lifestyle and no how to live within your means, but I live in a part of the country where a nice(but by no means extravagant) house in a good area will cost you at least a million. So 3.5 mil ain't much for someone who is already running out to buy a bunch of bling for himself and his friends.

I used to work with a guy whose mother died and he got a 6 figure insurance payout. He was into that Fast and Furious style racing and car mods, cocaine, girls and all this sh*t. He was broke within a few years.
 

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not that it matters and not that I want it to happen but if my mom were to leave tomorrow I'd be in line for a pretty nice sum of money. My mom sells insurance, she made sure both her kids were going to be taken care of in the event. with that said.. in little rock, a house in the most ritzist part of the town, probably Chanel valley... not the biggest house there but a very nice pad will run you between 900k-1.1 mil. that's as expensive as little rock gets. I have a crib in arkansas that's off highway 10 in west little rock that's LAID and isn't 1/3rd of that. 3100SQ ft, 3 beds, 2 baths, garage, etc. in a GREAT part of town.

shoot.. I damn near died of shock when i got to SoCal and looked at the real estate. I'm not paying 500k to live in a crackhouse!!! literarly!

but you will never hear a peep from me from someone who invests in their house.

Cars? Just go get you a lexus LS and cal it a day. a girl will never leave you because " you just drive a lexus" and it's nice as **** and comfortable.

cocaine is a hell of a drug

with that said... it's "something" you have to get out your system. it's how big you make that "something". you are going to do a little splurging.. just make it and keep it little. I took my at the time two best friends out shopping for the day, bought us all new clothes, then went out to eat that night.. that was pretty much it. the car I drove everydya then is the car I drive everycday now.. granted, it's worth more NOW than it was then after all the **** I have had done to it, but it was nice as hell then and it's nice as hell now.

I never did understand men that much into jewerly. lol, I still wear a fake stud in my ear. it's just not that damn serious.
 

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I dunno... sometimes I wonder if its easier to play the lotto, go through school, get job, etc... or just invest 1000$ into a gun and accessories, and then rob someone who has invested 10 years into a the lotto, school, a job...
 

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6-heads lewis said:
I dunno... sometimes I wonder if its easier to play the lotto, go through school, get job, etc... or just invest 1000$ into a gun and accessories, and then rob someone who has invested 10 years into a the lotto, school, a job...
Dude, the lotto is a fool's tax, at least for 99.99999% of the people that play it.
 

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Congrats to your friend.

Hopefully he'll wise up sooner than later and learn to turn his money into more money, or at least realize how not to waste all of it.

PS I'm sure that your "bromance" (fvcking awesome word) will come back to you after he realizes that you only had his best intentions in mind and didn't want to use him for his new found fortune.
 

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backbreaker, i would love to hear more about you. you should really make a new thread about what your job and career is... how you're successful, etc.

anyawys with $3.2m i'd prolly buy that 87 corolla hatchback and fix it up to what i want.

buy a house for myself, pay half of my family's debt.

help my brother pay for college.

i'll definitely start up in real-estate.

anyways i'm done daydreaming. my reply was useless. good topic though.
 

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no, you should just use the search function. I don't have to repeat what's already here
 
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DaNNOWWILL, it is natural for your friend's behavior to change after that amount of money - you made the right comment - a car is not as important as your education - hopefully he'll see this and offer the payment instead of the car!

Backbreaker - get your assets out of the $dollar - before you become as poor as the rest of us!!!!
 
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My best asset is myself
Not really - you depend on others for your food and shelter - you neither sow nor build - you just give paper for your sustenance!! Once that paper is nothingness then you'll see how "BEST" you are!!
 

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you just have just watched america: from freedom to facism

I see first hand the effect of the weak dollar. Guys from the UK are coming to Keeneland and acting like it's a damn fire sale on horses.

My main savings account is in Antiqua ;)
 

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I spelled it wrong, it's antigua.

I found out about it first when I started doing horse racing when I was 18 betting online, the company I used to send my bets to was in St Johns, antigua..okay.

So then when my company started growing and we needed a more flexable merchant that wasn't going to freeze our account if we had a a small (or big) spike in orders, even for a higher percentage rate, we turned to antigua who is full of them.

I even have a debit card to the bank. The currency is the East Cerriban dollar but when you go there everthing is converted to US dollars because most tourrists are from America and it's just easier.

Been doing business there for what now.. 3years, never had one problem. I wouldn't dream of leaving my money in a place lke CountryWide so they can go BK and take me down with them. No thanks, I'll pass.

I'm not the only one that does it either. That's where Opera Winfrey keeps the majrority of her money and has a house there among others.
 

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backbreaker said:
no, you should just use the search function. I don't have to repeat what's already here

Damn bigshot. Sorry people are bothering you with mundane questions about finances in a thread where you talk about how well off you are.

You dont have to repeat **** if you dont dont want to, but why bother responding if that is what you got to say?
 

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I'm sorry if I made you look in the mirror. I really am. But the guy asked a question and I was trying to answer it.

and that wasn't ment to be a slant in any way shape or forum. I've been here what.. 5years and have 4500 posts.. My whole damn life is on this forum. Anyone who has used the search button knows that
 
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