in addition...she complains to you that the ex-bf worked all the time. I have no doubt...it's these samy type of women that will shame you into believing you're cheap, etc etc...so, maybe that dude is working all the time to try to appease her need for expensive dinners, trips, etc. Let her be his problem, man. Typical... the guy probably busting his *SS to please her, all the while she's complaining to you about how he works too much. Another note..if she'll do that to him, you're next. End rant, sorry. This just hits close to home with me.