Hi guys. I had been exclusive with a 28 year old girl for the past five months. When I met her she had been single for a year after being cheated on by her fiancé of 7 years. I noticed she was texting him on our second date. For the first couple months she would mention him a lot.
The relationship had been good for the most part, but unfortunately she gave me reason to doubt her loyalty towards me and made me suspicious of her actions. She was always texting and checking her phone.
The first incident ocurred during our first month of being exclusive. It was 3 am while out partying together and she was texting her guy trainer. I told her that I found it very disrespectful that she was texting him so late while she was with me. She said he was her friend and it led into our first fight.
Then a couple of months ago after she had gotten back from a trip with her friends she was drunk as we were driving home from partying and I grabbed her boob and she called me by another guy's name. I asked her who that person was and she said he was just a friend she had been texting that night. I asked her to show me the text, but she erased the messages.
Fast forward to last Monday, when I call her in the morning she seems really cold. We talk for a bit and hang up. I didn't hear from her all day until when I called her back around 8:30.
To my surprise she was drunk and she told me she had gone out with her girl friend all day and now they were having drinks. I asked her about her friend and she seemed very evasive. She hung up on me. I highly doubt she was with her friend. I called her back about 20 minutes later and her phone was going straight to voicemail. She eventually called me back more than 2 hours later, I didn't pick up. I found the whole situation very shady. Tuesday morning she called me twice, but I didn't answer.
I ignored her until Wednesday night when she called me from a different number. I told her I couldn't trust her for all these reasons. Her explanation of Monday was very shaky. I called her the next morning because I wanted to tell her that we should talk in person like adults, she said that I was just going to accuse her so she didn't want to meet.
She then sent me a last text saying it sucked it had to end like this and I replied telling her that I enjoyed our time together. Later in the afternoon she called me and we spoke for a bit and she said to call her if I need anything. I said we could be friends and she agreed.
Today is day 2 of no contact. Although we never said I love you; I'm feeling the loss of the relationship because of the company she provided. I feel so
frustrated and confused. I would like to read your comments, thanks.
The relationship had been good for the most part, but unfortunately she gave me reason to doubt her loyalty towards me and made me suspicious of her actions. She was always texting and checking her phone.
The first incident ocurred during our first month of being exclusive. It was 3 am while out partying together and she was texting her guy trainer. I told her that I found it very disrespectful that she was texting him so late while she was with me. She said he was her friend and it led into our first fight.
Then a couple of months ago after she had gotten back from a trip with her friends she was drunk as we were driving home from partying and I grabbed her boob and she called me by another guy's name. I asked her who that person was and she said he was just a friend she had been texting that night. I asked her to show me the text, but she erased the messages.
Fast forward to last Monday, when I call her in the morning she seems really cold. We talk for a bit and hang up. I didn't hear from her all day until when I called her back around 8:30.
To my surprise she was drunk and she told me she had gone out with her girl friend all day and now they were having drinks. I asked her about her friend and she seemed very evasive. She hung up on me. I highly doubt she was with her friend. I called her back about 20 minutes later and her phone was going straight to voicemail. She eventually called me back more than 2 hours later, I didn't pick up. I found the whole situation very shady. Tuesday morning she called me twice, but I didn't answer.
I ignored her until Wednesday night when she called me from a different number. I told her I couldn't trust her for all these reasons. Her explanation of Monday was very shaky. I called her the next morning because I wanted to tell her that we should talk in person like adults, she said that I was just going to accuse her so she didn't want to meet.
She then sent me a last text saying it sucked it had to end like this and I replied telling her that I enjoyed our time together. Later in the afternoon she called me and we spoke for a bit and she said to call her if I need anything. I said we could be friends and she agreed.
Today is day 2 of no contact. Although we never said I love you; I'm feeling the loss of the relationship because of the company she provided. I feel so
frustrated and confused. I would like to read your comments, thanks.
