Let me give you a quick timeline of the major events in my 4 month relationship with this 19 y/o bipolar girl (I'm a 23 y/o graduate student). Before I entered this relationship, I was getting really good at approaching women, and the weekend I met this girl, I got the numbers of like four other banging girls and made out with another one the day after I met her. Unfortunately, the semester was coming to an end and the girl I made my summer girlfriend was the only one that would be left in the area after school got out. Without further ado here is the timeline:
-It's Spring 2010, my confidence and self-image is ****ing SOARING right now. I ****ed like 3 girls in two months. Getting number closes like crazy. I keep finding out about girls in my social circle that want to **** me.
-Meet her at a party where a bunch of my good friends are. I'm looking fly as **** wearing a blazer and nice shoes. As soon as I see this cutie talking to my friends I'm like "who's this girl? who's this girl?" right in front of her and she's like "I'm Kim!" etc. Right after the first couple minutes, I feel like I'm starting in seduction with her.
-Within 10 minutes, I get her on the dance floor and probably 5 minutes later I go for a kiss. She does it, but she says not to do it until she's sober.
-I leave her alone and approach some other girls. The next girl I approach gives up the number as soon as I tell her she's kinda cute within 2 minutes of talking to her.
-I go back to Kim and see she's got her top off and is getting her tits painted by another random dude. Red flag #1
-As soon as she's done getting her boobs painted, she leaves that guy to talk to me. I keep trying to makeout with her and she insists on doing it with me when she's sober. Otherwise, the kino is good and I'm grabbing her ass and incidentally rubbing her hand over my ****. I get the number.
-I send her a text the next day, she ignores it. I see her at another party and she totally blows me off talking to this dweeb. Number close this other cutie I've been wanting to bang the whole semester right in front of her.
-I bump into her at a conference in a couple days. She says hi to me and we talk about how we should never ****. I agree (yeah right, *****, haha). I end up driving her back to my friend's place and we smoke a bunch of weed. I touch her a bit and she keeps telling me how I'm this vain, beautiful man. She also tells me she's bipolar and has been to a mental hospital before (RED FLAG #2). She tries to kiss me on the way out and fails, muttering something about me being too tall.
-The next day, we go on a coffee date. She blabbers away while I say things like "yeah, uhhuh, okay, cool, oh really" and I'm stroking her legs with my feet. It's very much this one way conversation, I don't really give a **** about this girl. Eventually, she says, "I need to be somewhere alone with you" kind of desperately.
-Make out with her and dry hump her in the car. No condom on me, so we don't ****. I establish that I want something completely casual.
-Next day, I get thiis text from her saying she made a pro/con list of reasons to **** me (red flag #3) and decides that we should have sex.
-We **** every day, a few times a day sometimes for the next few weeks.
-She never has a vaginal orgasm (supposedly never has), but looks like she enjoys the sex. She gets off when she's on top. In retrospect, the sex is weird and she doesn't let me do any real foreplay.
-I start noticing this girl flinging little insults at me whenever we're in the company of friends, so much so that my friend's like "this girl's already throwing stones."
-Cries when I merely talk to other girls in front of her (red flag #4)
-I find out that her relationship with her family is totally ****ed. Apparently, her mom thinks Kim is literally a *****. There's constant fighting in her house, so much so that she moves to her grandpa's. (red flag #5)
-Obviously, I'm spending a ton of time with this girl now and the emotions are getting involved. I don't really know why, though, her personality is awful and she has no social skills. She also cries a ton. I really kinda dislike her. All I like is the emotional/physical rush she gives me. On top of this, we have nothing in common.
-I can't be playa playa when school isn't in session, so I turn her into my girlfriend.
-She used to like putting her legs up over her head when we ****, but now she's complaining about pain (my **** is pretty big, 6 inch girth and 7 inches long). Well duh, if you allowed me to do foreplay, you might not have this problem and you might be wet enough for me to **** you.
-I start trying to tweak the sex and we do a bunch of new positions. It seems kinda mechanical (mistake #1). I try stimulating the g-spot, and while she likes it, nothing happens.
-She refuses to let me eat her out (she never let me do it once) and withholds sex a lot. I get laid like 3 times a week now.
-The emotions get even more involved and it's now mid June. I start telling her I love her etc. (mistake #2)
-She starts being a total ***** in front of friends calling me a fag and making me look whipped.
-One night I get completely wasted and cry in front of her about my dad dying.
-She keeps telling me **** like she's never loved anybody this much.
-The amount of PDA's starts to decrease. She says I treat her like an object in front of other people.
-It's Spring 2010, my confidence and self-image is ****ing SOARING right now. I ****ed like 3 girls in two months. Getting number closes like crazy. I keep finding out about girls in my social circle that want to **** me.
-Meet her at a party where a bunch of my good friends are. I'm looking fly as **** wearing a blazer and nice shoes. As soon as I see this cutie talking to my friends I'm like "who's this girl? who's this girl?" right in front of her and she's like "I'm Kim!" etc. Right after the first couple minutes, I feel like I'm starting in seduction with her.
-Within 10 minutes, I get her on the dance floor and probably 5 minutes later I go for a kiss. She does it, but she says not to do it until she's sober.
-I leave her alone and approach some other girls. The next girl I approach gives up the number as soon as I tell her she's kinda cute within 2 minutes of talking to her.
-I go back to Kim and see she's got her top off and is getting her tits painted by another random dude. Red flag #1
-As soon as she's done getting her boobs painted, she leaves that guy to talk to me. I keep trying to makeout with her and she insists on doing it with me when she's sober. Otherwise, the kino is good and I'm grabbing her ass and incidentally rubbing her hand over my ****. I get the number.
-I send her a text the next day, she ignores it. I see her at another party and she totally blows me off talking to this dweeb. Number close this other cutie I've been wanting to bang the whole semester right in front of her.
-I bump into her at a conference in a couple days. She says hi to me and we talk about how we should never ****. I agree (yeah right, *****, haha). I end up driving her back to my friend's place and we smoke a bunch of weed. I touch her a bit and she keeps telling me how I'm this vain, beautiful man. She also tells me she's bipolar and has been to a mental hospital before (RED FLAG #2). She tries to kiss me on the way out and fails, muttering something about me being too tall.
-The next day, we go on a coffee date. She blabbers away while I say things like "yeah, uhhuh, okay, cool, oh really" and I'm stroking her legs with my feet. It's very much this one way conversation, I don't really give a **** about this girl. Eventually, she says, "I need to be somewhere alone with you" kind of desperately.
-Make out with her and dry hump her in the car. No condom on me, so we don't ****. I establish that I want something completely casual.
-Next day, I get thiis text from her saying she made a pro/con list of reasons to **** me (red flag #3) and decides that we should have sex.
-We **** every day, a few times a day sometimes for the next few weeks.
-She never has a vaginal orgasm (supposedly never has), but looks like she enjoys the sex. She gets off when she's on top. In retrospect, the sex is weird and she doesn't let me do any real foreplay.
-I start noticing this girl flinging little insults at me whenever we're in the company of friends, so much so that my friend's like "this girl's already throwing stones."
-Cries when I merely talk to other girls in front of her (red flag #4)
-I find out that her relationship with her family is totally ****ed. Apparently, her mom thinks Kim is literally a *****. There's constant fighting in her house, so much so that she moves to her grandpa's. (red flag #5)
-Obviously, I'm spending a ton of time with this girl now and the emotions are getting involved. I don't really know why, though, her personality is awful and she has no social skills. She also cries a ton. I really kinda dislike her. All I like is the emotional/physical rush she gives me. On top of this, we have nothing in common.
-I can't be playa playa when school isn't in session, so I turn her into my girlfriend.
-She used to like putting her legs up over her head when we ****, but now she's complaining about pain (my **** is pretty big, 6 inch girth and 7 inches long). Well duh, if you allowed me to do foreplay, you might not have this problem and you might be wet enough for me to **** you.
-I start trying to tweak the sex and we do a bunch of new positions. It seems kinda mechanical (mistake #1). I try stimulating the g-spot, and while she likes it, nothing happens.
-She refuses to let me eat her out (she never let me do it once) and withholds sex a lot. I get laid like 3 times a week now.
-The emotions get even more involved and it's now mid June. I start telling her I love her etc. (mistake #2)
-She starts being a total ***** in front of friends calling me a fag and making me look whipped.
-One night I get completely wasted and cry in front of her about my dad dying.
-She keeps telling me **** like she's never loved anybody this much.
-The amount of PDA's starts to decrease. She says I treat her like an object in front of other people.
