broke up with cheating g/f
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MikeOck
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The average woman has a cleverly crafted online illusion of a glorious life that would make even the most successful of her girlfriends jealous. The key word is illusion, and anything that interferes with the false image she has created needs to be mitigated to the best of her ability as soon as possible.ronniel said:
What she is doing is all about her. Your best interest lies in ignoring her online activities completely. Hide her Fakebook page and ask any of your mutual friends to not discuss her with you in any capacity whatsoever. Focus on moving on with your life, luckily you discovered her true nature before you got too involved.
Aristippus
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Now she claims that SHE broke up with me.
*** So she cheated on you, then she badmouths you, and then she lies to everyone. Sounds to me like a real winner.
Many times in the past appeared to be sad through her posts
***Why should you care about her feelings? It's obvious that she doesn't care about yours. This is why you should completely erase her from your life, including deleting her and any traces of her from Facebook and any chat or instant messenger programs on your computer.
Quit using "experimenting" as a facade and as an excuse to keep tabs on a low-quality woman who cheated on you and doesn't really care about you or your feelings. Breaking contact is something you do because you don't need to waste your time on worthless women and also, it's a great way to allow you to move on and to protect yourself from the harmful effects of keeping in contact or knowing about someone you are no longer in a relationship with.
Ex's are ex's and in general, it is healthy to avoid contact or knowing about the life, doings, and whereabouts of an ex. Don't do it halfway. If you break up, go all-out and never look back.
Create self-fulfilling prophecies. Always assume the positive. Assume she likes you. Assume she wants to talk to you. Assume she wants to go out with you. When you think positive, positive things happen.
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Lord Hypnos
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somehow i get the feeling that blocking her fb might be the breaking point, where she really ends up going off the rails, resulting in more slanderous comments to your mutual friends. i hope i'm wrong. but these days, for fb validation hors, being blocked on fb is equivalent to being cast out to a leper colony as was custom 1000 years agoronniel said:
scrouds
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w h o r e.
Saying anything else is playing the fool. Radio silence is a good second place.
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
I know that she will lie herself out of this. Women are even capable to convince themselves about the lies they say.
I begin to spin plates. I had sex yesterday with my date and in a week i will travel 60 miles to meet a hot thirtysomething divorced mother. She can use some company
If you want to talk, talk to your friends. If you want a girl to like you, listen to her, ask questions, and act like you are on the edge of your seat.
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CostaDeSol
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ronniel said:
What did she do with those male friends, did she drink, hang out with them alone?
sounds like my ex-gf but i never thought she was a slut.
