Broke up 4 days ago... I think

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DangNammit said:
Just got a stupid text from her asking if it was time to move on... amazing. I hope she finds her answer in my silence. Piece of work these 'women' are...
Usually I am a believer in conserving my ammo, but that text cries out for a smartazz reply.

How about," I feel that moving on is a few months overdue.."
 

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jophil28 said:
Usually I am a believer in conserving my ammo, but that text cries out for a smartazz reply.

How about," I feel that moving on is a few months overdue.."
A smartazz text would be funny. How about 'confusing' her with another gal....

"move on? what about the great sex we had last night?" lmao, just imply that you've completely forgotten her already. ;)
 

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Mr.Positive said:
A smartazz text would be funny. How about 'confusing' her with another gal....

"move on? what about the great sex we had last night?" lmao, just imply that you've completely forgotten her already. ;)
Ha ha, very clever - you have a mean streak in you, Mr P .
 

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Thanks guys... yeah I had a few potential zingers, but I want her to know that she's not even worth those. Keepin my mouth shut and moving on. No major loss on my part. Her behavior was so foul that she effectively erased any positive feelings I did have for her fraud a55.
 

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^^^^^ This is STRENGTH....

The smartest choice.....

This is SELF respect....

Over and Out.
 

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Just got a text: "Trying to find out about the status of our relationship. Please call."

I feel like a d1ck not telling her to buzz off - even though, I don't have any desire to address this. I'm waffling... Why should I say 5hit to her after how she treated me... where was her courtesy? Right? This is hard for me to not just tell her its done...
 

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DangNammit said:
Just got a text: "Trying to find out about the status of our relationship. Please call."

I feel like a d1ck not telling her to buzz off - even though, I don't have any desire to address this. I'm waffling... Why should I say 5hit to her after how she treated me... where was her courtesy? Right? This is hard for me to not just tell her its done...
This woman is not going to take a hint- women rarely just fade into the shadows and leave you conveniently single again.

Just call her (not text) and say." This relationship is not what I want and I don't want to continue seeing you. Goodluck, bye " and HANG UP before she drags you into a 4 hour crying fest during which she would say numerous dingbat things that popped into her head, and she would also make several promises that she will not keep. Bt then you will start to weaken and agree to see her Friday night for a fuk marathon during which she will know for sure that her pvssy rules... and so it goes around and around.

Dang, when it's done, it's done.
 
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The funny thing is that she KNOWS the relationship is over, she just wants confirmation. More than confirmation, the wants official PERMISSION to move onto the next guy, which I'm sure she already has set up and waiting in the wings.

If you believe you can keep it short and sweet, like Jophil has stated, then do just that.

If you feel there is absolutely no need for it, then don't.

But do NOT get dragged into an endless discussion about the relationship. The longer you spend on that phone, the more advantages she begins to have over you.

I always say that closure is a fallacy and it's just a ploy disguised as "one last chance". So be weary of what you do next.
 

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Kailex said:
The funny thing is that she KNOWS the relationship is over, she just wants confirmation. More than confirmation, the wants official PERMISSION to move onto the next guy, which I'm sure she already has set up and waiting in the wings.
That's exactly how I was feeling... like she requires my nod to move on - weird.

I'm not so sure about another guy, kinda doubt it, but who knows. Good advice thanks guys... I'll go that route (short call) when I feel like it - maybe this weekend. Thanks
 

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DangNammit said:
That's exactly how I was feeling... like she requires my nod to move on - weird.

I'm not so sure about another guy, kinda doubt it, but who knows. Good advice thanks guys... I'll go that route (short call) when I feel like it - maybe this weekend. Thanks
If you do call her and formally breakup with her, you need to do a ' cast in steel deal' with yourself not to continue the convo after you have said what you want to say. Speak and Click.

Her last text was her way of asking " Are we done ?"
AS Kailex said she probably is prepared for "the end" but is waiting for you to formally say so.

I believe that holding "the frame" in a relationship should extend right down to the wire.
Finish it on YOUR terms not her's .
 

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When I'm done with something (or someone), I mean I'm DONE.

No more talking, no explanations, no excuses or equivocations.

And no feelings of anger or slander towards the person either; I keep moving forward.

Let these women save the drama, I haven't any care for it.
 
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