Broke college student, no lifestyle whatsoever

[Vince115]

So my situation:

I am in college, I live with my high school colleagues in a rented flat, far from downtown and far from any dorms. I am at the university five days a week. I have no car.

I have no problems with so-called “game” or social anxieties. My problem is always logistics (lack of money, lack of lifestyle).

Even if girls in clubs want to leave with me (what happened few times), I never got ONS because of poor logistics. (it's not really entertaining to travel 1 hour by bus at 3am to my apartment).

I have no problem approaching during day time, but once again I don't know what to do next.

Of course I can stretch and go with one girl on a few dates and be with her boyfriend girlfriend but that's not what I want right now. I want lots of girls and lots of sex.

I want lots of girls but I can't afford thousands of dates with them.

I feel like all kids around me are pathetic. I hang out with few dorm kids, few who live in flats with mates, and they all doing nothing. All the people in dorms sitting in front of their computers all day playing stupid games. Typical party looks like this: few people sitting in the room and drinking cheap vodka. When we go clubbing all people dancing and waiting for a miracle to happen, while pretending they are having a great time. It is now what I saw in American movies hehehe.

Anyone was in similar situation? What are my options? What should be my game plan?

I study 5 days a week so it would be almost impossible to find a job.
Have no car so it is hard to pull ONS.

Can't afford lots of dates with girls.

 

[btownbuck2012]

Yea i feel you. The novelty of the 'party scene' in college has WORN the FVCK off of me. I honestly could give two sh!ts about getting drunk anymore.

Instead i've focused on hitting the gym, GETTING GOOD GRADES, and just really finding myself. IMO i think the whole social scene in college is SO overrated. You're only gonna be in school, if you're smart, for 4 years. Why p!ss away your entire future by fvcking up your grades partying 24/7.

Find some hobbies that you truly enjoy. The summer before my Junior year I started doing stand up. I'm now a little under a month into my senior year and i've done stand up 9 times in 3 different cities. I truly enjoy doing it and plan on doing it a-lot once i leave school.

I'm focused on the future hardcore. I'm excited about my future. And, again, I could give 2 sh!ts about the party scene at my school. Try joining some clubs. At my school i'm involved in a flag football league as well as an undergrad association for my school that i'm earning my degree from.

it's refreshing to hang around with a group of people who's main priorities aren't getting smashed on the weekend. YES THOSE PEOPLE DO EXIST! Bottom line: Take care of your sh!t and do what YOU WANNA DO regardless of 'peer pressure'.

 

[Vince115]

I am right now at the stage of finding myself. I went to the gym earlier, I have good body.

I feel no 'peer pressure' whatsoever, I don't give a f**c about drinking with frustrated people, although I have almost no social circle because of that.

I like to party but no in that kind of way.

Problem is I want pvssy, lots of it

I don't want to wait 4-5 years and I certainly don't want to recall the past after these five years thinking that I should get laid more, not only been focused on my education.

 

[btownbuck2012]

Problem is I want pvssy, lots of it
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Well in that case just start talking to girls anywhere and everywhere on campus. flirt and be sexual. get numbers. invite them over. rinse, lather, repeat.

 

[ArcBound]

So my situation:

I am in college, I live with my high school colleagues in a rented flat, far from downtown and far from any dorms. I am at the university five days a week. I have no car.

I have no problems with so-called “game” or social anxieties. My problem is always logistics (lack of money, lack of lifestyle).

Always good, though I don't know what you mean by lack of lifestyle

Even if girls in clubs want to leave with me (what happened few times), I never got ONS because of poor logistics. (it's not really entertaining to travel 1 hour by bus at 3am to my apartment).

Be honest man, say I live far away from here, let's go to your place

I have no problem approaching during day time, but once again I don't know what to do next.

Don't worry about this daytime is not the easiest to close. During day time I would focus on just having a good time and getting a number.

Of course I can stretch and go with one girl on a few dates and be with her boyfriend girlfriend but that's not what I want right now. I want lots of girls and lots of sex.

Obviously you've made your decision right now to date lots of girls, but if you date 1 girl, she actually can pay for a lot of your sh!t and she has sex with you almost every day. (if you have the right girl)
I want lots of girls but I can't afford thousands of dates with them.

I feel like all kids around me are pathetic. I hang out with few dorm kids, few who live in flats with mates, and they all doing nothing. All the people in dorms sitting in front of their computers all day playing stupid games. Typical party looks like this: few people sitting in the room and drinking cheap vodka. When we go clubbing all people dancing and waiting for a miracle to happen, while pretending they are having a great time. It is now what I saw in American movies hehehe.

Anyone was in similar situation? What are my options? What should be my game plan?

Unfortunately it sounds like your dorm people are more socially awkward than you. Nothing you can really change, just be glad you are not at their level.

I study 5 days a week so it would be almost impossible to find a job.
Have no car so it is hard to pull ONS.

Have you applied to FAFSA? State grants? Private scholarships? It's possible they can give you some pocket change if you havent used them already.

Can't afford lots of dates with girls.

If you really want cheap or free dates IMO you have to really do free sh!t like day dates which imo don't necessarily lead anywhere like night dates. Some clubs offer discounts if you come before a certain time, that's the only thing I can really think of.

OR

Since you seem to be the most sociable guy who gets with girls amongst your friends... Why don't you hold a party at one of your friends place? I'm sure he'd be glad instead of drinking cheap vodka with dudes all night.

 

[Vince115]

Problem is I want pvssy, lots of it
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Well in that case just start talking to girls anywhere and everywhere on campus. flirt and be sexual. get numbers. invite them over. rinse, lather, repeat.

I live far away from dorms (and we don’t exactly have such a thing like ‘campus’, just few dorms and that’s it).

I think something is missing between taking numbers and inviting them over.

Maybe one in a thousand would came over right away to see my cool aquarium or breathtaking stamps collection. :rock: