Bro trying to pull a fast one on me?

[Capt.America]

Theres this HB 9 who could easily pass as a 10,She has the perfect face and body with the crazy long hair,MODEL TYPE who im working on trying to fvck her but lately she seems to be very distant and cold. She was all over me at the beginning of the school year.

I'venoticed that she been around one of my bestfriends a little more than expected.He is like a BROTHER to me. He told me she took his fone and put her number in it without him trying anything.He constantly tells me that he isnt trying to game her or anything,i think hes lying and im kinda feeling suspicious.Mind you he is much better looking than me and is also more alpha then me. The girls always rate him as top 5 best looking dudes in our school.

I thought it was bros over hos. We'd be chillin together and she'd always walk up to him and hug him and chat with him but she would straight pass me.

my gut keeps telling me that something is going on and they could possibly be fvcking. For some reason when i feel like something is happening or is going to happen i usually come out right,for some reason im super intuitive.

you guys think something is going on? or is this just a false alarm and im being a little insecure.

 

[Mike32ct]

It's quite possible something is going on. Odds are probably well over 60 percent.

The best sign is what Mike32ct coined the "DTF Knees."

See if you catch them both seated sometime. If her knees are pointed at him with legs apart, they are currently hooking up or she wants to.

But...

You are opening Pandora's Box here. Once you let jealousy into your brain and start watching what OTHER guys are doing and trying to figure out of THEY are scoring instead of YOU, it's a game destroyer.

I'm speaking from experience. Let this one go. Cut the jealousy stuff out of your mind now or you'll never get your game where want it to be.

I stupidly wasted many nights getting rattled inside because some guy was doing well with a chick and I wasn't. Friend or not, don't let your mind go there.

Score or no score, you don't give a F. Got it ?

 

[Dr.LASR]

Stop being a pu$$y and man up. You tried, you failed, he tried, he succeded. If you're bros, then let him have her, and start fvcking some other chick.

/thread.

 

[yuppaz]

Uhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh - if the guy is supposed to be your friend & (is most likely) fvcking her.... Is he really your friend?

 

[Handsfull]

I think you're being a little bytch. This is called a learning experience...they hurt but they mold you and give you balls. If your boy isn't fvcking this chick than tell him he should be. If you were a true bro you'd give him the go ahead but instead you're letting your ego control you and acting like a little girl instead.

Listen to this man! If it was your girl, or you had just broke up after some time together then that would be fuvckup up. But this? This is just, she likes him more than you. Go fvck her best friend, right now!

 

[backbreaker]

WTF is wrong wtih you guys

even in my most AFC days, and man i ws bad, i never was ths ****ing insecure


i used to ride the bus home with my best friends GF. we'd sit next to each other and shoot the ****. yeah she thought i was cute and i thought she was cute but that was honestly about it, neither of us ever got any crazy ideas about hooking up, one beucase that was amy boy and szecond beucse she was crazy about him. **** i would be giving 1 hour pep talks about how bad ass Q "(my friend) Was. so every day it was like he was spitting game to her without even being there. when i was in 9th grade, i actually.. don't get me started, but got cut from the basketball team and my 2 best friends were on the team, and my GF was a cheerleader... bull **** ass coach, i shoudl have made the team, **** still pisses me off ,t hey needed another big man i was easily better than 5-6 players on the team. anyway, my point is they woudl go and every away game they would all sit by each other they weren't hitting on her, **** anytime we'd get into it they would go to work fixing **** for me when i wasn't there.

i used to pick one of my friends GF's up from work and take her home beucdse she worked close by my house.

i hate to be this blunt but bro you are acting like a spoiled ass *****. there is no other way to pu tit, and to e frank i don't blame her for losing attraction to you.

and my 2 best friends.. we are all good looking some lik eme some like one of them some like the other. yeah they all thought they were good lookjing but they didnt' want to **** them.

and then, you blame your insecurity on yoru friend moving in.

what you have to understand is when you get a GF, all her friends "expand". all her friends are now your friends. all your friends are now her friends.


the second she said "brother" that should have been the signal right there. girls don't **** brothers.

and just beucase you break up with someone doesnt' mean you stop being friends with their friends.

 

[VladPatton]

The bottom line is, as much as it sux ballz, she likes him more than you, which I know, hurts like hell. But, here we learn to practice indifference to take the sting and pain out of such situations. She can also be a lil ho ho and jump from dıck to dıck, so you would of been screwed either way with her.

Be cool, let it go, show her she was just a temporary infatuation and fake it till you believe it. SHOW NO EMOTION and move on. We all went through this.

 

[Capt.America]

damn yall are right. thinking about it from a third person point of view i am action like a lil pvssy. idk why but im just insecure and jealous by nature. i shouldnt be giving a fvck. How did yall get ova your insecureness and jealousy.?

And it just fvckin bothers me cuz they also do this right in front of me. like she knows what shes doing. she knows how close me and him is and she knows that it is gettin to me. but its like she doesn't even care. shes a freaking ho

 

[TheWolfMan]

I agree, let this one go man. I mean your buddy could be telling you the truth about not gaming her, but the fact of the matter is she seems way more interested in him as oppose to you ( grabbed his phone, and put her number in it) . Your buddy did nothing wrong in my opinion. If he has a better chance than you, give him the go ahead. Like someone suggested, start gaming other chicks, I mean who knows she probably has hot single friends right? Perfect opportunity for you right there, especially if her and your friend hit it off. Just be indifferent and play it cool.

 

[dap]

damn yall are right. thinking about it from a third person point of view i am action like a lil pvssy. idk why but im just insecure and jealous by nature. i shouldnt be giving a fvck. How did yall get ova your insecureness and jealousy.?

And it just fvckin bothers me cuz they also do this right in front of me. like she knows what shes doing. she knows how close me and him is and she knows that it is gettin to me. but its like she doesn't even care. shes a freaking ho

I disagree with some on here. I don't think she is fvcking this guy. Hb 9-10s like this act this way all the time. She is flirting with your friend because she knows YOU are watching and she knows it hurts YOU. She wants to show you that she's not like she used to be ("all over you," etc). This is easier for her than to be upfront with how she doesn't want you and have to deal with all the emotional consequences. Plus it strokes her ego to see the effect this is having on you.

You simply have to go NC to show her that she isn't having this effect on you anymore. And just watch, she will stop. She won't ever be into you again, but as soon as she can tell that YOU have moved on, she won't have to show you that SHE has.

 

[SgtSplacker]

Yeah dude total B I T C H material there. I know it's bro's before HO's, but dam I wan't my buddies to get laid, ya dig? Instead of being buthurt about this see if your buddy can put in a good word for you and maybe setup a double date with one of her friends.

Oh and don't forget just cuz a girl is all over you doesn't mean anything. She is trying to setup a little sucker to admire and validate her in front of her friends.

 

[Tenzen]

Interesting. Im in your friend's situation, a girl comes along that I was not trying to game or talk to it. It a just kinda happen and I was going out of my way to ignore the signs of it in the beginning. Took a few times meeting that somethin needs to happen with this HB9. I shot myself in the foot by telling my friend who was trying to game her for awhile, that I wasnt going to game her or see her for a few weeks. But its kinda hard not to pursue when i know that interest level is high. So i went after it, they werent bf and gf so i dont think its all that bad but i do gotta come clean about it. And thats the hardest part, telling a good buddy u lied to them...

 

[SgtSplacker]

Interesting. Im in your friend's situation, a girl comes along that I was not trying to game or talk to it. It a just kinda happen and I was going out of my way to ignore the signs of it in the beginning. Took a few times meeting that somethin needs to happen with this HB9. I shot myself in the foot by telling my friend who was trying to game her for awhile, that I wasnt going to game her or see her for a few weeks. But its kinda hard not to pursue when i know that interest level is high. So i went after it, they werent bf and gf so i dont think its all that bad but i do gotta come clean about it. And thats the hardest part, telling a good buddy u lied to them...

Maybe you didn't really lie, maybe you thought you were being honest at the time? maybe you stated what your honest intentions were at the time? Maybe dudes don't need to worry about what's on their friends D I C K and worry about their own? maybe just maybe...