breaking up with my girlfriend.

[Krassus]

Holy **** things change fast.

The kid who said she was complaining to all her girl friends about how it wasn't a big deal, well, turns out he had an axe to grind with my girlfriend. My girlfriend has a totally logical response to it all, too. I just didn't want to believe her.

Then I find out that she put her head on his shoulder. Apparently my friend Tom considers that unfaithful when you're in a drunken stupor. That isn't worth breaking up with somebody over, not after 6 months.

Hah, told ya. By the way, what did you mean when you said that she screwed up her second chance? Isn't THIS the second chance? Also, an email like the one you sent basically tells her that while you're in Cali, you're gonna screw every girl you see and take full advantage of your "break." Might wana rephrase that just a bit

 

[mountain]

This is going to be a good learning experience for you.
You are going to pull all these unecessary head games on this girl... feel like a ****ing champion of the universe.

and then... she is going to reverse this on you in one brilliant swoop. you will then have an afc meltdown. i'm calling it ahead of time.

 

[JLW]

okay.

 

[DarkChaos]

This is going to be a good learning experience for you.
You are going to pull all these unecessary head games on this girl... feel like a ****ing champion of the universe.

and then... she is going to reverse this on you in one brilliant swoop. you will then have an afc meltdown. i'm calling it ahead of time.

Seconded.

 

[wayword]

A lot of hot chicks feed off attention for their looks. It goes with the territory and will probably be a recurring issue.

Unfortunately, people don't really change.

In any case, I agree it's inappropriate in a LTR for a girl to hang out ALONE with other guys, much less getting drunk with them, and even semi-flirting with them. That's just asking for trouble one day - and also disrespectful to you.

Well, good luck. If you're only 17, none of this will make or break you either way...