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Don Juan
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Its been a while since I last visited the site. Last year, I began to flex some DJ muscles and it was begginning to work. But I decided to jump into a relationship with this girl because I felt something different towards her, she was special to me for some reason.
We went out for 5 months, and I'll admit it was far from the perfect relationship. We had a lot of fights, but we always seemed to make up with eachother every single time. There was some kind of connection. She told me she loved me and I told her that back, personally I think I meant it more than she did.
Then the summer rolls along, and we agree on taking a break because we were going to different places. At the beginning of the summer, she would text me messages saying she missed and loved me etc. As soon as i did the same, she started to distance herself, but i didnt. And on top of that, I got into a fight with her best friend...bad mistake.
Long story short, the trips end and we get home. The one time we met, we talked awhile. And she told me that she wanted to stay on break for a while because she thought the relationship was getting too serious.
I read that two ways, the first that she didnt want to go out with me anymore and didnt want to hurt my feelings. The second being that she was afraid of committment. Her best friend definately played a role in that too. I told her that I wasnt going to be her friend if we broke up, and she said was okay with that.
Now here I am, miserable. I really do love that girl. And I looked back and read this post, and realized what an AFC Ive become over this relationship.
I thought of two options. The first is to talk to her again and try to get back together with her, and see if the space ive given her is what she needed.
Or, the DJ way
Go out and get more girls, and forget about her. And when she finds out she will come back to me.
Ive already begun to do this, but other girls just arent the same. The connection isnt there, and I want it back.
The second one is definately the better choice of the two, likewise its more difficult because I really do i have emotional feelings for this girl.
Does anyone have any advice or tips on how to improve my situation?
We went out for 5 months, and I'll admit it was far from the perfect relationship. We had a lot of fights, but we always seemed to make up with eachother every single time. There was some kind of connection. She told me she loved me and I told her that back, personally I think I meant it more than she did.
Then the summer rolls along, and we agree on taking a break because we were going to different places. At the beginning of the summer, she would text me messages saying she missed and loved me etc. As soon as i did the same, she started to distance herself, but i didnt. And on top of that, I got into a fight with her best friend...bad mistake.
Long story short, the trips end and we get home. The one time we met, we talked awhile. And she told me that she wanted to stay on break for a while because she thought the relationship was getting too serious.
I read that two ways, the first that she didnt want to go out with me anymore and didnt want to hurt my feelings. The second being that she was afraid of committment. Her best friend definately played a role in that too. I told her that I wasnt going to be her friend if we broke up, and she said was okay with that.
Now here I am, miserable. I really do love that girl. And I looked back and read this post, and realized what an AFC Ive become over this relationship.
I thought of two options. The first is to talk to her again and try to get back together with her, and see if the space ive given her is what she needed.
Or, the DJ way
Go out and get more girls, and forget about her. And when she finds out she will come back to me.
Ive already begun to do this, but other girls just arent the same. The connection isnt there, and I want it back.
The second one is definately the better choice of the two, likewise its more difficult because I really do i have emotional feelings for this girl.
Does anyone have any advice or tips on how to improve my situation?