(Posted on "Anything Else" as it's not a "real woman, in the sense of discussion of this board")
I sent a break-up letter to the OF Filipina girl, yesterday night, that I was subscribed continuously to since late January, and where we had this back and forth chit-chat since March 8th to recently.
Basically, I told her that, while I like her, that I don't like her working as a hor and I can't stay in contact and support someone who does that type of thing, and unless she stops that and become a real/good Christian that we should stop talking to each other. I unsubscribed to her (although a payment just went out like a few days ago, this is for the next payment). (The letter was not as harsh as stated on here, but it's the effect of what was said)
This is the first break-up that I don't feel any major ripple effect, apart from a cought and some irritability. However I'll have to see as the days go by how it plays with my mind that I may no longer have this lady's emotional support anymore, as I've unsubscribed and don't plan to log-in to OF for now (ie knowing her she'll probably send a diplomatic type of reply, if any at all). So far, there is like no problem and it's the most chill break-up I ever had. Just have this lingering cough, but I'm not sure if the cough is maintained by that.
I still have her number on my phone and she doesn't know how I look like (I never texted the number before so if I texted out of the blue then she would never know it's me/the same person she has been talking to), if I still wanted to visit her behind everyone's back....not that I would ever do that, but just saying. If I was really sincere about breaking up then I should have also sent a photo so she could recognize me if I ever pulled a stunt like that and not let me in the door. It would be like putting dynamite at the mouth of the cave to seal it shut. I still feel like a doorway is still open since she does not know how I look like and I can still present as a stranger out of the blue. However, I just don't want to send any photo of myself.
I sent a break-up letter to the OF Filipina girl, yesterday night, that I was subscribed continuously to since late January, and where we had this back and forth chit-chat since March 8th to recently.
Basically, I told her that, while I like her, that I don't like her working as a hor and I can't stay in contact and support someone who does that type of thing, and unless she stops that and become a real/good Christian that we should stop talking to each other. I unsubscribed to her (although a payment just went out like a few days ago, this is for the next payment). (The letter was not as harsh as stated on here, but it's the effect of what was said)
This is the first break-up that I don't feel any major ripple effect, apart from a cought and some irritability. However I'll have to see as the days go by how it plays with my mind that I may no longer have this lady's emotional support anymore, as I've unsubscribed and don't plan to log-in to OF for now (ie knowing her she'll probably send a diplomatic type of reply, if any at all). So far, there is like no problem and it's the most chill break-up I ever had. Just have this lingering cough, but I'm not sure if the cough is maintained by that.
I still have her number on my phone and she doesn't know how I look like (I never texted the number before so if I texted out of the blue then she would never know it's me/the same person she has been talking to), if I still wanted to visit her behind everyone's back....not that I would ever do that, but just saying. If I was really sincere about breaking up then I should have also sent a photo so she could recognize me if I ever pulled a stunt like that and not let me in the door. It would be like putting dynamite at the mouth of the cave to seal it shut. I still feel like a doorway is still open since she does not know how I look like and I can still present as a stranger out of the blue. However, I just don't want to send any photo of myself.
