Unlike my last 4-yr relationship which ended several years ago, I don't feel I am really into my current 2-yr relationship. By many objective measures, my current girlfriend is better than prior exes. She is more attractive, intelligent, has a good career, very into me, good values, good family, cooks for me, the sex is good, fun/extroverted (I am more introverted), and without the pesky feminazi pseudo-logic bullcrap.
Despite all the positives, I feel if the relationship ended today, I would be perfectly fine. She knows this too. We also both know that other guys would date her happily, and yet, I have little to no jealousy about this fact. This lack of need bothers me somewhat. In the past, I was melancholic when my prior 2 relationships ended, so the current realization has been slightly unsettling.
Have others experienced this issue? I wonder if I'm getting too picky or just more into my own personal life and interests.
Despite all the positives, I feel if the relationship ended today, I would be perfectly fine. She knows this too. We also both know that other guys would date her happily, and yet, I have little to no jealousy about this fact. This lack of need bothers me somewhat. In the past, I was melancholic when my prior 2 relationships ended, so the current realization has been slightly unsettling.
Have others experienced this issue? I wonder if I'm getting too picky or just more into my own personal life and interests.