Dgwizdal
Master Don Juan
Not keeping pics up for long... Only up in good faith you will read
A - http://tinypic.com/view.php?pic=1zxwt9v&s=8#.VEfMZPnF-So
J (Blonde far right) - http://tinypic.com/view.php?pic=2im0qw4&s=8#.VEfPvfnF-So
I have been seeing (A) for about 14 months (f*cking for 4 years as on-off side plate) but we have been friends for about 15 years. She has always been a side plate of mine which has been a secret to our group of friends until i broke up with my past girlfriend and she saw it as an opportunity to make us a thing in public.
I have reluctantly gone along with it but am very aware what i was getting myself into and it has finally bit me in the @ss. She is definately BPD - completely irresponsible, unaccountable, a slut, no ambition, disrespectful, alcoholic, attention wh0re to the fullest, always the victim, goes from complete over the top emotional woman-child lunatic to the most feminine, loving, attention giving, affectionate HB 7.5 in the blink of an eye on a weekly basis. I could go on. She has been addicted to me and my game like BPD crack for the last year or so and wants to spend every waking second with my aloof, no committing, wonderfully orchestrated game.
Lately she has been pushing for reassurance and complete commitment. I have told her multiple times that if that is what she wants she has to change - i have laid a perfect blueprint to which she pays no attention to and continues being a f*ckin moron. I consciously know that I cannot commit myself to this girl. Although obviously hot - she is not high quality for the reasons and more stated.
About a month ago I gave her the boot for some completely disrespectful things she said and then fvcked her best friend (J) without (A) knowing about it after a day of boating on Lake Michigan. J also happends to be my 6 year oneitis that brought me to the redpill when we split 3 years ago.
About a week after I'm banging A again and realize i need to cut this b*tch off for good and do exactly that on Sunday. She's devastated and throwing a raging BPD fit like always to which gets no response from me. Come Monday somehow she finds out I banged J and J admits to it leaving me f*cked. In A's mind, we were never broken up nor on rocky terms because of her BS because shes the victim like always and doesn't get her actions have consequences or that we are over.
Here's where I am at: I have not yet responded to A's daily texts calling me out on banging J or attempted to make any kind apology, excuse, explanation, nada.
A has decided to blast me on facebook calling me a cheater and that it's over (when im the one who gave her the boot!) and all of this sh*t with all of our friends running to her side playing the victim card perfectly when little do they know who she really is behind closed doors. Word is getting around and all of the sudden I'm the a$$hole when she one of the worst people i know. How do i play damage control here? Do I not give a f*ck? Do i expose her batsh*t craziness and the terrible things she has done and said?
How do I handle the inevitable conversation with her as well? I have to address it eventually.
A - http://tinypic.com/view.php?pic=1zxwt9v&s=8#.VEfMZPnF-So
J (Blonde far right) - http://tinypic.com/view.php?pic=2im0qw4&s=8#.VEfPvfnF-So
I have been seeing (A) for about 14 months (f*cking for 4 years as on-off side plate) but we have been friends for about 15 years. She has always been a side plate of mine which has been a secret to our group of friends until i broke up with my past girlfriend and she saw it as an opportunity to make us a thing in public.
I have reluctantly gone along with it but am very aware what i was getting myself into and it has finally bit me in the @ss. She is definately BPD - completely irresponsible, unaccountable, a slut, no ambition, disrespectful, alcoholic, attention wh0re to the fullest, always the victim, goes from complete over the top emotional woman-child lunatic to the most feminine, loving, attention giving, affectionate HB 7.5 in the blink of an eye on a weekly basis. I could go on. She has been addicted to me and my game like BPD crack for the last year or so and wants to spend every waking second with my aloof, no committing, wonderfully orchestrated game.
Lately she has been pushing for reassurance and complete commitment. I have told her multiple times that if that is what she wants she has to change - i have laid a perfect blueprint to which she pays no attention to and continues being a f*ckin moron. I consciously know that I cannot commit myself to this girl. Although obviously hot - she is not high quality for the reasons and more stated.
About a month ago I gave her the boot for some completely disrespectful things she said and then fvcked her best friend (J) without (A) knowing about it after a day of boating on Lake Michigan. J also happends to be my 6 year oneitis that brought me to the redpill when we split 3 years ago.
About a week after I'm banging A again and realize i need to cut this b*tch off for good and do exactly that on Sunday. She's devastated and throwing a raging BPD fit like always to which gets no response from me. Come Monday somehow she finds out I banged J and J admits to it leaving me f*cked. In A's mind, we were never broken up nor on rocky terms because of her BS because shes the victim like always and doesn't get her actions have consequences or that we are over.
Here's where I am at: I have not yet responded to A's daily texts calling me out on banging J or attempted to make any kind apology, excuse, explanation, nada.
A has decided to blast me on facebook calling me a cheater and that it's over (when im the one who gave her the boot!) and all of this sh*t with all of our friends running to her side playing the victim card perfectly when little do they know who she really is behind closed doors. Word is getting around and all of the sudden I'm the a$$hole when she one of the worst people i know. How do i play damage control here? Do I not give a f*ck? Do i expose her batsh*t craziness and the terrible things she has done and said?
How do I handle the inevitable conversation with her as well? I have to address it eventually.
