Boyfriend doesn't matter

[Distant Light]

It doesn't matter if a girl has a boyfriend or not. You can still get her. (Whether its right or wrong to go after a girl who is taken is up to you)

Most of the women who I've approached in the past year maybe 90% of them have bfs. Most either don't mention or they don't talk about there bf when me and her are interacting.

It all comes down to who is cooler, and more fun.

EVERY girl that I've approached and interacted with an eventually realize they have a bf have all acted the same. AS IF THEY WERE SINGLE.

I realized this today when this girl who has a bf asked if I want some of her drink, so I ended up taking some with her straw. Just the other day I was feeding her cake. An just the other day we were going around taking food from people. (Don't ask why) Like I'm 200% sure I can lay this girl. She's asked to see my dik numerous times. An only once she's ever talked about her BF directly to me and it was more like she was trying to hide it. Were always throwing sexual stuff back and forth and yep she wants to fuk.

The next girl is similar, but the only thing this chick mentions her BF every single day. I take it as a sh!t test and just be totally unreactive about it. But overall she still acts like she is single, wants to come to my house and do my hair. The funny thing is when some chodes make a sound when they see some cleavage, I sometimes playfully go up and be like "What are you guys making sounds about" and just move her hoody and purposely look at her breast and just say "o". I've done that to many big breasted women.

This new girl I recently started talking to, this girl has never mentioned to me that she has a bf. Only one time this chode asked her "How is her BF" which she didn't even answer even though I've head her speaking about him to this same chode. This girl I may actually close because I like her personality for some reason, always going back and forth with the teasing, even though she acts real shy.

Overall though the whole gaming stuff is emotional. Even if a girl has a bf she can't logically say that she isn't attracted. An plus if the stuff your doing isn't her fault then she'll do it because later on when she backwards rationalize it just happened. You are cool and she has more fun with you than her BF who calls everyday talking about nonsense.

So don't make the "I have a BF" scary you because it really doesn't matter, I've heard of guys going up to girls and gaming them right infront of there bf. Some of them even make out with the girl right infront of there BF.

 

[djSlvt]

It does matter. Because a single girl is screwed up. Girls are not guys, they can get bf anytime, and if they don't have it, they are loosers. These are 3 reasons why girl would be single.

A) She's fat or ugly or has some mental disorder

B) She got dumped for some reason, probably because she's not that good, and her next will probably be a vehicle for her to move from her ex to her new next bf (not you)

C) She's new in town

D) Her bf got killed or is unavailable anymore by some accident


Thus, single women are freaks.


Women know that being single is bad, and it makes them look bad. They need that verification that they are beautiful, and they will do anything to get a bf. Thus, no good woman is single..

Oh sure, you can go boyish on that one single chick you have a hard on for. But you can't tell if she's any good, to do that you'll have to give her a chance, and chances are it will be a waste of time if you have your values straight.


The only good girl is the relationship girl.




P.S. 4 reasons. Last one I came across on these forums, lol.. Now, chicks don't dump boyfriend, unless they have another man in the picture.

 

[Raikojo17]

^^^ no, single chicks are not freaks. actually single chicks can be evry confident and secure because they know they dont need a man in their life all the time and will only go for the right ones.

all the single chicks i have meet have had guys chasing them, but they didnt have a bf. then i came along,lol and that changed.


but still i dont see the hype you guys get out of dissing other guys. cuz you know if the same thing happened to you you would be on here crying about it. so why bother?

 

[djSlvt]

That's because you're an AFC. They tell you a story, and you believe it. But it makes no sense what so ever. Any single woman will fall into one of those categories, and every one of them will tell you this same exact story that you told us.

You want to date a freak, so be it.

Haven't I said before that I don't find you credible? Well, I don't.

 

[blinkwatt]

Look nothing matters,married, 'being taken' or what not,it's your actions that define who you are,not what you say you are. If you nail a chick that's 'taken',forget about what it says about her, what does that say about you?

 

[Raikojo17]

That's because you're an AFC. They tell you a story, and you believe it. But it makes no sense what so ever. Any single woman will fall into one of those categories, and every one of them will tell you this same exact story that you told us.

You want to date a freak, so be it.

Haven't I said before that I don't find you credible? Well, I don't.

dude, you are not the most compitent poster on here either.

i dont care if you believe me or not, im just posting my views and experiences on the subject.

if single girls are freaks, than that makes you one too. i assume that you are a single, woman hating jackass from the way that you post.

ok freak, no girl wants you obviously. you're single, damaged goods. an outcast, a loser. there must be something wrong with you because you're not in a relationship.

freak, go wack off to paris hilton getting raped in prison.:moon:

 

[djSlvt]

LOL, calm down

I'm not intersted in arguing with a KDJ - you don't have enough game to hold my interest.

 

[Raikojo17]

LOL, calm down

I'm not intersted in arguing with a KDJ - you don't have enough game to hold my interest.

lol my bad. guess i didnt neg hard enough. you are one ****y hb

then maybe, just maybe i could steal you from your boyfriend.

 

[blinkwatt]

.....This is exactly why alot of people stopped coming to sosuave for advice.....
You guys flame each other,for what,not accepting another persons advice which could have worked for them? Learn to accept that some ways work for others that may not work for you and vica versa.

 

[comic_relief]

chill the fvck out everyone. Big deal there is an ignore button on this site for a reason. Use it.

This post is useful because it is true. Most girls except for the exceptionally clingy girls will not tell anyone about their boyfriends. They usually don't care that much about them. If they are attracted to you, than they won't say anything.

I had a best friend's best friend on the phone and I ignored the fact that she had a boyfriend. She now wants to "meet me alone" and she has told her friend that she wants to "flash me and let me do more." While the current girl that I am seeing was sitting right next to me.

the advice is good and it works. I disagree with stealing girlfriends from their boyfriends/fiances/husbands, but it wouldn't be hard.

comic_relief

 

[Destiny17]

Stealing girlfriends is child's play.

 

[Last Man Standing]

G/F = Full-time hor!!! It is of no significance to most!!!

 

[DonJoseCantosie]

So, DJSlut, what ur saying, a single girl whom maybe tired of dating/only wants to have casual sex...who has stability....is worth less than a girl that's taken? Sorry...but this is pathetic.

A girl is a girl. Sure, as a whole, taken girls might be easier to interact with since they don't have to worry about finding a man...so they feel more security in their lives and safe....but in no way are they any better than single girls. So what ur saying is that attractive single girls don't hold candles to girls who are in a relationship?

Also factor in that a girl who's single will think about you much much more, since she has u, rather than a girl who's in constant reminder of the relationship she has? not focusing on u as much?

What would anyone prefer:

A girl who doesn't have that much baggage and ur in her mind or vs. a girl who still thinks about her relationship where her focus is not all on you...as sex might not be as good.

Now DJSlut, if we go by ur logic, that means ur a nutcase...since women tend to go for guys who are taken more often than single guys. Not even cuz their single, its just because they lack pure AFCness and aren't desperate. O

Plus why go for a taken girl? There are lots of single girls worth ur time even more. Karma will hit if u try to go for a taken girl who's happy in her relationship. Not worth the effort.

Now if the taken girl is all up on ur nuts, then thats fine...but if she's not..and u just want her ass when she wants to keep her relationship in tact, then thats messed up.

But I have to agree if u don't KNOW she's taken, then thats fine...but if she tells she already is...then i wouldn't try.

 

[El Don]

I was about to post a story about me regarding this topic. There is a girl that is friends with my best friend's G/F and she just came here for a vacation. Anyway she has a B/F and I over heard her talking about how she loves him alot and yadda yadda to my friend's G/F but I pretended not to notice. I would notice she initiated alot of conversation with me and I added a little kino to see what reaction I would get. We were out as a group hangin out at this bar and I only had 2 beers, so I obviously wasn't even buzzed and by the time we had to go I pissed them out and they were out of my system.

We were leaving and since I came by myself I thought I was going by myself to follow my friend, his girl, and this girl back to my friends house. The girl asks if im ok and if im good to drive. I told her it was cool that I only had 2 beers and I was completely good. She insisted on riding with me and dirving my car to my friends house. I stressed to her I was cool, that I only had 2 beers and it wasn't necessary. She STILL kept going on about how she wanted to take me so I just said ok. I saw at this time maybe it would be a good time to flirt and talk since we would be alone on the way to my friends house.

Conversation and everything went pretty good. I ragged on her driving and it seemed like everything was going good. What got me curious if she liked me was she never mentioned her B/F to me. She said she had one way before when were talking as a group but when I talked with her she seemed to avoid it completely. I was talking to my friend and his girl later on and had mentioned that their friend looks good and she was cool (hoping to see if she said anything about me and I never asked them what she thought of me) and he brought up to me she is a big fan of me and she was telling him how I nice or sweet I was (one of those but he wasn't sure). That kind of worried me because I do not like those two words but would that just means she sees me as just a nice guy or if she is anyway attracted to me. Some signs are there but after he told me she said that I wasn't sure if she was feeling me like that, though it sounded like she was. Next time we go out ill see if I can hang out with her just us and see what happens. Am I wasting my time?

 

[Serialized3]

LOL, calm down

I'm not intersted in arguing with a KDJ - you don't have enough game to hold my interest.

Someone who writes a post asking the best ****y/funny line to say to a girl not wearing her seatbelt does not get the privelege of calling anyone else a "KDJ".

That being said, there are plenty of girls who are single by choice because they have high standards or are too busy for a boyfriend.

And this logic of stealing away a girl from another guy is ridiculous if you actually want a relationship with her. You already know she's a cheater, who's to say she won't jump on the next guy with better game/better looks than you?

 

[Serialized3]

Oh yeah, btw, I wrote a post about this a couple years ago.

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=61896

 

[Master Bates]

This "all girls with boyfriends are fair game" crap that gets spewed around here goes too far. Just because a number of girls you've hit on who've been in a relationship for four weeks drop their panties for you behind their boyfriend's back, doesn't mean every girl who's in a relationship of three months or three years will do the same so long as you throw the right game at them. What a delusion some of you people are in.

 

[DonJoseCantosie]

I agree with Serialized, what if she's in a relationship with u....she has just as much of a chance of cheating on u as she she did with her previous ex...if she meets a guy with even more game, looks, money, etc.

For her boyfriend...You could say, "oh....i'm better than this guy! he's an AFC!" But how do you know that? Maybe he has great game...just that u got more game.

 

[Microphone Fiend]

is there such thing as morals? Because EVERYONE has a price, it just so happens that often the price offered is not enough, but when it is...

 

[comic_relief]

I agree with Serialized, what if she's in a relationship with u....she has just as much of a chance of cheating on u as she she did with her previous ex...if she meets a guy with even more game, looks, money, etc.

For her boyfriend...You could say, "oh....i'm better than this guy! he's an AFC!" But how do you know that? Maybe he has great game...just that u got more game.

I agree with you guys. I don't steal girls with current boyfriends, I wouldn't like it when it would happen, but I know that I could do it very easily.

comic_relief