rick6599,
Nothing can destroy her boyfriend except herself. In fact, the only time she will *ever* consider cheating on her boyfriend with you is when the relationship is already over and somebody (or both) is holding on because they need something else to grab onto before they let go. It's not you, or your amazing 'destroying abilities' (
) ..that is just your ego talking. Just relax, be who you are, and if she likes you..and her relationship isn't what she needs it to be, she will bail and make it known to you that she likes you.
MVPlaya gave some really good advice. Women are not idiots, liked you'd hope they'd be. They know what you're doing and why you are talking to them to begin with. If you're dissing the boyfriend at all, it's going to come across as insecure.
"A girl of quality, one worthy of your attentions wouldn't dream of cheating on her bloke in the first place. She wouldn't cheat on you or on her current. Should you bag such a lady you'd have to live with the constant threat that she did it to him she could very well do it to you. Not a good basis for a relationship."
Eileen, awesome advice. I agree 100% and guys can't seem to get this through their heads. If a girl cheats WITH one of these "DJ"s, and the DJ and her wind up together, you bet your ass that DJ is going to be here posting about how she cheated before, what's going to stop her from doing it again. It comes down to morals, really...and what the individual expects out of the relationship. I have had ONS's before with girls and I didn't know, nor care whether they were in a relationship because it was none of my business. But that was because of my expectations. If I wanted something serious, long-term, out of it and I knew she had a boyfriend I'd immediately disqualify her if she cheated.
"holy sh!t, who is this b!tch, this is twice now ive read the utter sh!t youve been clogging up the place with, and generally bringing the quality of this place back down to your run of the mill dating advice site." - tits
Don't act like a moron. Just because she doesn't agree with what you believe doesn't revoke her right to post here. She's a girl, AND she is not brainwashed by our (sacred ) bible...I think we should have MORE people like this so that they can give us different perspectives on each situation, rather than the 'tunnel vision' advice we get everyday. Why turn down free advice? I would think you're secure, and mature enough to be able to see the good in her advice, rather than snap into defensive mode because what she says might invalidate everything you were warped into believing.
"look eileen mate, before you post anymore and put your cliched, cookie cutter, just be yourself type advice in just go read the DJ Bible (top right hand corner) i promise it will be a real eye opener and trust me the more of it you read the more things will become clearer to you ."
If only you saw the irony in that paragraph. NOTHING is more cliche than the crap that we regurgitate here day after day after day. We don't look for other opinions, in fact, we ATTACK people who contribute their different opinion because we are so threatened and SCARED that what they have to say might make sense and somehow strip you of the hope and power that these tactics, methods, and bible have given you.
The DJ Bible provides an illusion, at best. Just a way to CLOUD yourself of what is 'really' happening in order to strap yourself with some perceived CONTROL over the situation. It was created by "Master DJ's" who have bought into this illusion. I am guilty of this myself. In fact, I wish they would remove my 2-3 posts in the bible. At the time I didn't know much about women, and what was going on. But I thought I did, because I was getting laid. People read about my success and therefore I was given credibility. Soon guys would follow anything I had to say. They never stopped to think "Is that REALLY why Blitz is getting laid? Does he have ANY idea why? "
Pry your ego from the situation, tits. Open your mind.
