Classic senario and ive taken friendly advice and opinion but id rather someone who didnt know me and a group outcome rather than my drinking partners opinions.
First of all im from the UK, hi. and I'm currently at university in student halls and i really like this girl living opposite me.
This is my first year so its been about a month since i've met her and i still remember the first time i met her - good thing about this she didnt mention she had a b/f and he was in the other room, only till he came out 20mins later, then she did and introduced us.
anyway i liked her from the off - funny, good looking and we seemed to share interests.
We started to party together with others ofcourse meeting all our future friends and wot not and we got on well joking alot and laughing.
i met some other ppl - i thought this was a good idea, give her space and show that im busy didnt want to be that close friend thatll never be with her, generally worked as she would say come party with us - id decline and i think this had a negative effect as she wouldnt chat to me as much.
while this was all going on through-out the weeks her b/f would call everyday (hes at a university about 1/2hrs on the train away) they would get angry with one another, but would end up each other visiting each other every week (been around a month so far)
and throughout this month shes been really nice then would ignore me and talk about her b/f... then bad mouth him to me.. when chilling with me.
in the first week we were close id go back to her room and we'd chat and then i think she thought i may like her or she started getting feelings for me and got distent; like coming over to a group of us in the hall and not blank me but only aknowledge i was there but would pay interest in others if im with a few ppl laughing she'll pick others out and try to make me to get her to come over (hard to explain sorry)
its like shes playing hard to get or something - tho i havent bit yet.
sorry if it doesnt make sense; its hard to explain when im not realy thinking about it compared to when something happens between us where i think it means something
ANYWAY; what to do next? i think she may kno i like her my mates have shouted stuff to her on nights out (another reason i think sometimes she dont talk to me that much as she likes me to and know she has a b/f and she wont cheat)... but can be seen as jokes.
i dont want her to cheat on him for me... but i want to know what to do next. i want to tell her and pretty sure thats what i gotta do wen the moment is right. but i just need some views/help/tips on how to get her more interested before that moment arrives.
so help please?
oh and she also been telling other girls i 'really like them' i was told be one of her mates she told a couple of girls and when i quizzed her about it she avoided it.
thanks
First of all im from the UK, hi. and I'm currently at university in student halls and i really like this girl living opposite me.
This is my first year so its been about a month since i've met her and i still remember the first time i met her - good thing about this she didnt mention she had a b/f and he was in the other room, only till he came out 20mins later, then she did and introduced us.
anyway i liked her from the off - funny, good looking and we seemed to share interests.
We started to party together with others ofcourse meeting all our future friends and wot not and we got on well joking alot and laughing.
i met some other ppl - i thought this was a good idea, give her space and show that im busy didnt want to be that close friend thatll never be with her, generally worked as she would say come party with us - id decline and i think this had a negative effect as she wouldnt chat to me as much.
while this was all going on through-out the weeks her b/f would call everyday (hes at a university about 1/2hrs on the train away) they would get angry with one another, but would end up each other visiting each other every week (been around a month so far)
and throughout this month shes been really nice then would ignore me and talk about her b/f... then bad mouth him to me.. when chilling with me.
in the first week we were close id go back to her room and we'd chat and then i think she thought i may like her or she started getting feelings for me and got distent; like coming over to a group of us in the hall and not blank me but only aknowledge i was there but would pay interest in others if im with a few ppl laughing she'll pick others out and try to make me to get her to come over (hard to explain sorry)
its like shes playing hard to get or something - tho i havent bit yet.
sorry if it doesnt make sense; its hard to explain when im not realy thinking about it compared to when something happens between us where i think it means something
ANYWAY; what to do next? i think she may kno i like her my mates have shouted stuff to her on nights out (another reason i think sometimes she dont talk to me that much as she likes me to and know she has a b/f and she wont cheat)... but can be seen as jokes.
i dont want her to cheat on him for me... but i want to know what to do next. i want to tell her and pretty sure thats what i gotta do wen the moment is right. but i just need some views/help/tips on how to get her more interested before that moment arrives.
so help please?
oh and she also been telling other girls i 'really like them' i was told be one of her mates she told a couple of girls and when i quizzed her about it she avoided it.
thanks
