Bowling = Awesome first date idea ever. For me, It just works wonders rather than the awkward dinner date or at a coffee shop just to "talk". I feel like I'm really myself with a chick when I trash talk and just have a great time without any awkwardness. And seeing a girls ass when she walks up to the lane aint too bad either. Yeah, It can be a bit pricey but it's perfect to break the ice and get a lot of kino in. And all that happened last night with me and this chick I met on POF. We made out heavily in the bowling alley. I know I can easily smash this chick but need to find a place so we can get to business. This is most likely my new gameplan as first dates are concerned. I just need to work on my lay-game close though. You guys agree with this?
Bowling on the first date
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backbreaker
Master Don Juan
i grew up in a bowling alley, my grandmother was a cook for one and we would go there after school everyday utnil our mom's got off work so i would bowl all the time.
i took my wife bowling on our second date. we still go quite often once or twice a month. lol i beat the ever living **** out of her that night she was talking **** like she was a really good bowler or what not i had to put her in her proper place. she's gotten pretty good over the years though she gives me a good run even wins from time to time now. anyway, the point is we had a blast. by like the third game we had killed some beers and we are flirting with each other and talking **** and the entire date could not have cost 30 bucks.\
most bowling alley have a pool table as well so you can get 2 for 1. they usually always have that little air hockey game as well. bownling alleys are really underrated. when you were or at least when i was in high school and that's all you could afford to do that's what you did and girls ate it up. now you grow up and guys act like they are too good to take a girl bowling and they ahve to go out to eat and **** and girls aren't having as much fun. you can't not have fun at the bowling alley. if a girl is such a prude where she can't have a good time at the bowling alley between the pool table the bowling and the air hockey i can honestly say i want nothing to do with her
i took my wife bowling on our second date. we still go quite often once or twice a month. lol i beat the ever living **** out of her that night she was talking **** like she was a really good bowler or what not i had to put her in her proper place. she's gotten pretty good over the years though she gives me a good run even wins from time to time now. anyway, the point is we had a blast. by like the third game we had killed some beers and we are flirting with each other and talking **** and the entire date could not have cost 30 bucks.\
most bowling alley have a pool table as well so you can get 2 for 1. they usually always have that little air hockey game as well. bownling alleys are really underrated. when you were or at least when i was in high school and that's all you could afford to do that's what you did and girls ate it up. now you grow up and guys act like they are too good to take a girl bowling and they ahve to go out to eat and **** and girls aren't having as much fun. you can't not have fun at the bowling alley. if a girl is such a prude where she can't have a good time at the bowling alley between the pool table the bowling and the air hockey i can honestly say i want nothing to do with her
Hey guys absolute newbie here. Just had a great first date doing those things (dinner etc.) that you guys say isn't that good. It was also first date in my whole life.
But now we are going bowling and laser tag this weekend, so hopefully things will go well. Any inputs on the "kino" aspect?
BadNews
Senior Don Juan
Congrats buddy! The problem with doing dinner for a first date is it puts a ton of pressure on both people, and can be expensive. You don't know each other yet, so if there is some sort of distraction (nothing that disallows conversation) it can help to avoid awkward silences/situations. Also if you don't click with the girl, it's better to have saved the $$ you would have spent on a "romantic" dinner date.kay2003 said:
"Active" dates are amazing. I usually try to avoid dinner/movies/the usual crap for at least the first 5 dates. Getting out and doing something active helps keep things fun, casual, and light. Once you start to get to know each other better then you can go for the dinner date and get into some more intimate conversation.
Women like to have fun, and like to be around fun people. Try to have as much FUN as you can for the first few dates and you'll have her eating out of your hand in no time.
Haha thanks dude. You sound exactly like one of my friends who said that about the dinner date, although he emphasised the "pressure" moreso than the $$. His first date ever with his LTR gf of 2 years was them just walking through the city and visiting some of them more out there herbal tea places and trying random samples. Basically, he is a free spirit, and although he can cause a bit of trouble with authorities (luckily transit fees and being smartass, not criminal), his gf loves him and they have a great time together.BadNews said:
My goal here, as well as greatly improving my skills with women, would also be to be able to tell a story like that in first person.