Bought her a gift…she’s acting weird

[dude99]

I recently heard the phrase love bombing on Twitter. Guess a lot of women are becoming "woke", and creating new darn phrases for perfectly normal things.

Usually love bombing is what cluster b's do to get their victim on the hook

 

[EyeBRollin]

The advice in this thread is mostly wrong and cringeworthy.

There is nothing wrong with a Valentine’s Day gift for a girlfriend you are exclusive with. In fact, not buying her a gift would be a big mistake.

This problem is deeper. I sense that you like her more than vice versa (typical at 23 years old bc she has SMV advantage). If I can sense it, she definitely can sense it.

Cut your frequency of calls to every 2-3 days and dates to once per week. Knock off all texting.

Finally, men do not verbally express your feelings to a woman. You can show it in other ways.

 

[RickTheToad]

CONTEXT
Hey guys..so I’ve been talking to this girl for about 3 months and we been official for 1 month.

The past 4 weeks she’s been real loving and consistently texting, night calls etc etc. But now after valentine times day, she’s been weird. I bought her a gift ($200) only because she promised me to get me XYZ, instead she only got X. Truthfully, I’m upset about that.

I told her I love her and all this dumb ****, which I didn’t mean but kinda did mean. It felt right.

I even cut all most my other side chicks for her.
We’re both 23 Y.O.

MY ISSUE + QUESTIONs
She’s been acting weird and not giving that previous love. She let me hit whenever I want but acts different. The energy is OFFFFF. I feel she lost respect for me. I want to hit but I don’t want to be attached to this girl and want to keep our relationship.


How should I play this? Any advice..

Dude. A female has to earn her gifts from her dude. The 1st expensive gift I got my GF was 2 years in. Before that, I've gotten her other small sub-100 gifts, restaurants, shows, etc; but nothing crazily expensive. Why would you think it's cool to spend 200 bucks on a gift for a female you just met? It can come off as needy and desperate. You need to put this b!tch on the back burner and find some other one's to fvck with. Do not chase her anymore. Let the tiles fall where they may.. This one may be done. The only way you can get her back is for her to re-enter your frame by contacting you first and asking you to hang out. She has to earn a place back in your rotation.

Don't fvck up again.

 

[RickTheToad]

The advice in this thread is mostly wrong and cringeworthy.

There is nothing wrong with a Valentine’s Day gift for a girlfriend you are exclusive with. In fact, not buying her a gift would be a big mistake.

This problem is deeper. I sense that you like her more than vice versa (typical at 23 years old bc she has SMV advantage). If I can sense it, she definitely can sense it.

Cut your frequency of calls to every 2-3 days and dates to once per week. Knock off all texting.

Finally, men do not verbally express your feelings to a woman. You can show it in other ways.

200 gift for a female he's known for less than a month comes off as needy, desperate. A few months in, maybe, barely a month, no chance and even you know this.

 

[EyeBRollin]

200 gift for a female he's known for less than a month comes off as needy, desperate. A few months in, maybe, barely a month, no chance and even you know this.

In your desperation to clown me it is clear you didn’t read the OP.

CONTEXT
Hey guys..so I’ve been talking to this girl for about 3 months and we been official for 1 month.

 

[Glassguy]

200 gift for a female he's known for less than a month comes off as needy, desperate. A few months in, maybe, barely a month, no chance and even you know this.

He said he has dated her for 3 months.

 

[derby1]

I recently heard the phrase love bombing on Twitter. Guess a lot of women are becoming "woke", and creating new darn phrases for perfectly normal things.

they have. they psycho analyse everything.

you being unavailable at work for 2 hours, is classed as suspicious AF.

trust me theyre neurotic.

 

[RickTheToad]

In your desperation to clown me it is clear you didn’t read the OP.

He said he has dated her for 3 months.

Yep, I misread the OP. I'll own it. I am not trying to clown @EyeBRollin, you can do that all yourself. However, let's just keep it on topic of the OP's thread.