my friends are among the worst group of friends ever and i happen to be stuck with them, only 1 or 2 of them would even approach a girl, the rest are **** scared of girls, and they are really immature and sad, i really want to go to this club tommorow night but none of them want to go.......what should i do?
Boring Sucky Friends!
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Cheatz
Senior Don Juan
Why not for a change you do something you want and not worry if your friends want to go or not, they're only missing out. Okay maybe it is sad to go by yourself to a club but at least bring a friend along and have fun, once you start doing that your boring immature friends will hear your stories about the weekend and then they'll eventually want to come along when they hear the many success stories you tell them 
PiHiPlaya
Master Don Juan
Or if you think your friends suck, and they're bringin you down...
Ditch Em, Or Get New Friends
Ditch Em, Or Get New Friends
why do you even allow their shyness to bother you?
just approach girls on your own (or use that frined or two) and if for some reason you don't wish to aproach (tired, drunk), just debate with your friends about sth (girls).
just approach girls on your own (or use that frined or two) and if for some reason you don't wish to aproach (tired, drunk), just debate with your friends about sth (girls).
Gold Heart
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Go solo. Then tell them all about it. And don't only meet girls, meet people like you and make friends with them.
oreo_renegade
Master Don Juan
Friends are boring...
...when you are boring.
Today, I went downtown with some people, in my opinion, it was a huge waste of time.
School let out at 3:30PM By about 4PM we would someone to give us a ride downtown.
By about 430-5Pm we actually got downtown. Then until about 5-530 we sat around and did nothing. (well they all smoked, but I dont.)
Then we went some other place and did nothing again. Then I had a slice of pizza(which was very delicious).
Then we went another place, did nothing for a few mins, and then I went yet more places to do nothing and wait for a ride back.
I got home at about 630Pm
For 3hrs I did NOTHING.
by nothing I mean the people sat there and talked about other people, or other social situations...I find that extremely boring.
I have to be the guy who DOES things, like a very charged atmosphere, otherwise I would rather go and do somehting else, then sit and discuss things in the future or in the past.
In my opinion, "going out" consists mainly of 2 things.(on rare occasions other things)
#1: It consists of making plans for the next get-together, and a general discussion of the social status of the members, perhaps intertwined with discussion about the previous meeting. The next meeting will encompass plans for the meeting after that, along with a review o the social status once more, and a recollection of this meeting.
Then the cycle starts all over again.
#2: This consists of actual ACTIVITIES which can, most likely will, be discussed in the first scenerio get-together. Number 2 can very easily turn into #1 type meeting after teh planned activity is over.
#3: "Other"
I know it might be confusing as to what I mean with all this "number 1, number 2" shiit, so let me give an example.
*****
person1:"hey man, what's up?"
person2: "Not much, are you coming to ashleys party on wed.?"
person3: "yeah you should go! last week we had a kickass party, john showed up and yada yada yada"
p1: "thats tight, ill be there, ashley's dating billy right?"
p3: "yeah, have you met billy?"
p2: "no, i havnt met billy, man we should invite him to chill with us some day"
p3: "yeah, billy kicks ass, last week I was at the skate park, and me and billy saw this guy wipe out"
^^short example of a conversation.
lets take it apart.
person1:"hey man, what's up?"
person2: "Not much, are you coming to ashleys party on wed.?"
^^plans for the next "meeting." along with an activity. (party games)
person3: "yeah you should go! last week we had a kickass party, john showed up and yada yada yada"
^^recollection of past meetings
p1: "thats tight, ill be there, ashley's dating billy right?"
p3: "yeah, have you met billy?"
^^social status check of 'billy'
p2: "no, i havnt met billy, man we should invite him to chill with us some day"
p3: "yeah, billy kicks ass, last week I was at the skate park, and me and billy saw this guy wipe out"
^^^ cycle repeats.
****
Some people consider this fun, and their life consists of "busy work" meetings and social activities. (one would stay busy as all the gatherings would be just like the *type* and the more gatherings one has, the more of a "social life" they have)
I dont consider this fun(which doesnt mean I don't engage in it) but my attitude is more like "okay.."
I am a Man Of Action like lorenzo's screen-name. Talking about things i find pointless isnt an action I do.
If the social scenario I gave fits your situation, then I would lik you to consider how much fun is it REALLY to sit there and talk.
My advice is GO OUT THERE and have FUN.
PS_ a lot of people have fun and still fall nto the social type i described, if this is tru then ignore my post, however if you are saying that your friends are dull and boring, take a moment and examine the structure or your meetings.
...when you are boring.
Today, I went downtown with some people, in my opinion, it was a huge waste of time.
School let out at 3:30PM By about 4PM we would someone to give us a ride downtown.
By about 430-5Pm we actually got downtown. Then until about 5-530 we sat around and did nothing. (well they all smoked, but I dont.)
Then we went some other place and did nothing again. Then I had a slice of pizza(which was very delicious).
Then we went another place, did nothing for a few mins, and then I went yet more places to do nothing and wait for a ride back.
I got home at about 630Pm
For 3hrs I did NOTHING.
by nothing I mean the people sat there and talked about other people, or other social situations...I find that extremely boring.
I have to be the guy who DOES things, like a very charged atmosphere, otherwise I would rather go and do somehting else, then sit and discuss things in the future or in the past.
In my opinion, "going out" consists mainly of 2 things.(on rare occasions other things)
#1: It consists of making plans for the next get-together, and a general discussion of the social status of the members, perhaps intertwined with discussion about the previous meeting. The next meeting will encompass plans for the meeting after that, along with a review o the social status once more, and a recollection of this meeting.
Then the cycle starts all over again.
#2: This consists of actual ACTIVITIES which can, most likely will, be discussed in the first scenerio get-together. Number 2 can very easily turn into #1 type meeting after teh planned activity is over.
#3: "Other"
I know it might be confusing as to what I mean with all this "number 1, number 2" shiit, so let me give an example.
*****
person1:"hey man, what's up?"
person2: "Not much, are you coming to ashleys party on wed.?"
person3: "yeah you should go! last week we had a kickass party, john showed up and yada yada yada"
p1: "thats tight, ill be there, ashley's dating billy right?"
p3: "yeah, have you met billy?"
p2: "no, i havnt met billy, man we should invite him to chill with us some day"
p3: "yeah, billy kicks ass, last week I was at the skate park, and me and billy saw this guy wipe out"
^^short example of a conversation.
lets take it apart.
person1:"hey man, what's up?"
person2: "Not much, are you coming to ashleys party on wed.?"
^^plans for the next "meeting." along with an activity. (party games)
person3: "yeah you should go! last week we had a kickass party, john showed up and yada yada yada"
^^recollection of past meetings
p1: "thats tight, ill be there, ashley's dating billy right?"
p3: "yeah, have you met billy?"
^^social status check of 'billy'
p2: "no, i havnt met billy, man we should invite him to chill with us some day"
p3: "yeah, billy kicks ass, last week I was at the skate park, and me and billy saw this guy wipe out"
^^^ cycle repeats.
****
Some people consider this fun, and their life consists of "busy work" meetings and social activities. (one would stay busy as all the gatherings would be just like the *type* and the more gatherings one has, the more of a "social life" they have
)I dont consider this fun(which doesnt mean I don't engage in it) but my attitude is more like "okay.."
I am a Man Of Action like lorenzo's screen-name. Talking about things i find pointless isnt an action I do.
If the social scenario I gave fits your situation, then I would lik you to consider how much fun is it REALLY to sit there and talk.
My advice is GO OUT THERE and have FUN.
PS_ a lot of people have fun and still fall nto the social type i described, if this is tru then ignore my post, however if you are saying that your friends are dull and boring, take a moment and examine the structure or your meetings.