FlexpertHamilton
Master Don Juan
Everyone else kind of beat me to it. Listen to her and respond to things she says and just let the convo flow naturally instead of just thinking of the next question you want to ask. Only ask questions that you actually care to hear the answer to. A lot of people make this mistake it seems, asking too many questions, instead of commenting, affirming, or sharing your own anecdotes related to the discussion. Even in job interviews I find it helpful to make some time to comment/affirm things instead of only discussing the talking points around questions. Yawn.
However, on another note....... some women are just genuinely boring and horrible at conversation, especially if they have no hobbies, interests, or unique, non-NPC takes on things. I'm kind of at the point where if I cannot have a good conversation with a woman I'm on a date with, I dont even want to sleep with her. So on some level, the burden isn't entirely on you, it can be lack of chemistry, or the woman can be genuinely boring or lacking in social skills.
However, on another note....... some women are just genuinely boring and horrible at conversation, especially if they have no hobbies, interests, or unique, non-NPC takes on things. I'm kind of at the point where if I cannot have a good conversation with a woman I'm on a date with, I dont even want to sleep with her. So on some level, the burden isn't entirely on you, it can be lack of chemistry, or the woman can be genuinely boring or lacking in social skills.
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