Booya Biatch

[wh01987]

Ok what would you guys think.. Am I being obsessive or just dumb becuase I havnt seen my girlfriend in 6 days and shes busy cuz her "moms dieing" or whatever and so... I was thinkin if i dont see her by next friday im gonna dump her.. Is this stupid or would you guys do the same. I think i might just not know how to handle a GF. Or am paranoid that shes lieing.

Oh and we have been going out for like 7 or 8 days and shes like I love you and all this kind of stuff.. my friend who thinks hes a pimp said its probly not gonna last long if shes saying that already. anyway thanks

 

[Best friends? NAY]

LOL her moms dieng or something? If that is true I think she is saying she loves you because she wants someone to lean on in this hard time for her.

 

[Vincent]

Holy crap, i think you missed the part about being a Don Juan and went strait to Jerk. I know its hard when you don't see your girlfriend for about as long as you've been going out dude, but geez, if her mom really is dieing then she is going to be incredibly emotionally unstable, and breaking up with her now won't help. Wait until she seems to be over greiving (If she does die), You don't have to be her tampon, but at least don't stab her gut.

 

[Porky]

Don't be an *******. In my opinion one of the worst things you could do as a person would be to dump her if her mom is dying.

That's beyond fu.cked up.

 

[wh01987]

I want to keep going out its just I wouldnt mind seeing her.. ahh but yes I would have to agree I am being a jerk and dumping her while shes going through this would probably be assholish.. but I just dont know what to do I havta see her!

So should I just keep talking with her calling her etc. And maybe by the time I see her again or this is done with I might get some "action" .. joking but still should I just keep doing that? its weird she asked me if ive thought about sex with her before i said yeah... that was awkward

 

[Vincent]

Originally posted by wh01987
its weird she asked me if ive thought about sex with her before i said yeah... that was awkward

What? I don't get what your saying there.

If her mother is really dying, don't break up with her, but don't call her all the time. Let her cry on her friends, and you be there to be strong for her. Try to tell her you want to visit her, be strong, show your a man. If you can come out of this good, you may score some major points . Don't be her boy friend, be her boyfriend.

 

[wh01987]

what i meant is
her "have you ever thought about sex before?"
me "with you?"
her "yeah"
me "yeah!" haha that was awkward for me.. we seem pretty close now and i found out she doesnt care if i get a hardon when we r cuddling

I know I need everyone to hold my hand and walk me through life.. so vincent you mean just call her everyonce in a while and ask her how things are doing and if shes ok and kinda be like i want to see you? I did mention seeing her a few days ago and she said she has to take care of her mom and "we will see eachother soon i promise" and then she gave me another i love you which shes starting to say ALOT ... .....

 

[Ded_Skin_Mask13]

man, how can you be thinking about sex in these times for her. Dude, anyone would try to help her out during these times. There is nothing AFCish about helping her get through these f*cked up times! Caring is part of what humans are about!

If she is being serious than I know what she's goin through because my father f*cking died a couple of years ago and NO ONE besides my family and a couple of friends cared for my emotional stability or just reassured me that life was still going to go on. Don't be such an inconsiderate c*nt, be a man, and go visit her mother if you can. But do this if you truly mean it.

but if you don't want to be an emotional tampon, do give her, her space! She'll love you for it, but don't completely not give a sh*t or think she is lying. If a woman or person in that matter lies to me about one of her parents dying just to get out of something with me, and I were to find out, I'd kick her f*cking ass.

 

[wh01987]

ok thanks.. Im not just thinking about sex. Also I have tried to be with her but she keeps sayin she hast to take care of her mom or she is busy. I feel like im the **** on her shoe cuz she has time for everyone but me. For example i just got off the phone with her and i was like so whats up this weekend shes all probly goin to the movies and i said oh cool then she said what about u and i said probly hangout with yuo if u cant then hangout with my friend and she said oh cool... What the hell!???