Just came back from the field.
Today I got 2 rejections, one from a girl who was advertising for an organisation on the streets. She approached me and tried to get me to sign for her something (using a bit techniques they teach them) but I turned it the other way around and I was the one asking all the questions and letting her enter my world. After a short convo, asked for her number, didnt get it, she just walked away.
Then I went to a mall (all day raining, was not in the mood for anything) and eventually approached a young girl who was waiting for her boyfriend (as she said) but didnt manage to make the convo going, and she asked me to leave, I unsuccessfully tried to engage her again, but my state was ****ty and people can sense that. Besides, she was one of that young stupid girls in whom I wouldn be interested anyway, so it was really an effort for me, I just did it for the bootcamp.
In the evening went out with the girl I got the email from a couple of days before (didnt want to give me her #) , I saw her interest right from the beginning. She doesnt speak german, just a broken english, so it was hard to get into deeper stuff with her. Went for a drink she payed for herself (didnt expect that). She had to go home early, I walked her up to her train and we parted with a hug.
Then I went into a club, looked around a bit, and when I was just about to leave (the place was almost empty) I say a cute girl sitting at the bar with her friend, giving me EC, stood there for about 10 secs and then approached her. It turned to be a HB9.5 on looks (didnt notice that she was hot from 10 feet away cause of my sight, else would have probably chickened out). Talked to her a bit, tried to give her friend enough attention so that she doesnt dragg her away. Then I went to dance, short after they came on the dancefloor too. As the place was filling up, we were dancing all three together, and she was like the queen of the place, all the guys watching her undressing her with their eyes. I didnt make any move on her, tried to give both the same amount of attention, let her wonder a bit. Made some take-aways and watched if they were looking for me. All of a sudden HB9.5 got angry and her friend told me they were leaving, I followed cause the place wasnt worth staying and wanted to #close HB9.5 It turned out I didnt give her enough attention and she got jelous on her friend. That was my mistake. As we went out, her friend went away for a bit and I asked HB9.5 if she would like to give me her number, she hesitated and her friend came back. My luck that we had to take the same bus. On the bus before I got out, asked again for her number and gave her my cell-phone, she refused to give it to me because 'I'm after a hard breakup with my ex'. Yeah right.... I asked for email, got it.
Damn this was a mind-battle, at least now I have a clue what to do in such situations.
Though I'm not done with my exercise for this week, I think it was worth taking the time for this HB, at least for practice. Besides, even though shes one of those hot blonde (probably wealthy) girls that are travelling around the world, she was not *****y and I want to start practicing on good-looking girls.
Tomorrow I'll get the last 2 rejections and start the 5th week.
8/10 rejections
6# and 2 emails
