Bootcamp
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shaken_not_stirred
Don Juan
I'm gone all weekend but I can start on Tuesday.
shaken_not_stirred
Don Juan
Sounds good...I'm going to the Dave Matthews RedRocks concerts next weekend (3 nights). It will be oozing w/ HB's. Oughta be a good place to start this out.
Vanilla
Senior Don Juan
I'm in.
shaken_not_stirred
Don Juan
back from my trip and ready to roll. i live in south denver fmh. DU is just a little north of here. i go to a coffee shop near there sometimes. maybe campus would be a good place to sarge? ask your bro where to go there.
i'm ready to start this thing tonight--get off work at 5. i live right by a mall too. 50 eye contacts and "hi's"? is that exercise 1?
i'm ready to start this thing tonight--get off work at 5. i live right by a mall too. 50 eye contacts and "hi's"? is that exercise 1?
shaken_not_stirred
Don Juan
eh, day one was sort of a failure...went to the mall last night. wasn't much at all for hot girls there. at least i know where not to go on a weeknight. made eye contact with a few, said hi to an hb7 standing around with a guy (bf?) got a hi back. got a couple other responses. nothing real exciting. need to scout out some new locations. i don't know where the girls are hiding on this side of town. gonna try bookstores next.
Don't always be the one putting yourself out for her. Don't always be the one putting all the effort and work into the relationship. Let her, and expect her, to treat you as well as you treat her, and to improve the quality of your life.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
day 1 went really well for me. For the first few girls, it felt awkward, but I kept it up and got myself into a state where I didn't give a fu*k and I started smiling and saying hi to everyone (even if they didn't have the confidence to look me in the eye). I even struck up a few convos but didn't close because they were ugs. After an hour of this, the state wore off and I was sick of smiling and I wanted to be serious again. I guess I need to keep doing the exercises and expand the amount of time that I can stay in state. It takes a lot of energy out of me! Hit up the college campus dude, you can say hi to one after another after another. peace
Vanilla
Senior Don Juan
I'll start with today I guess.
I'd say Day 1 was pretty awesome, sat next to a HB9, did some fluff talk about NO since her cousin is out helping people down there. Towards the end of class, it sort of went like this, I know I screwed up, but who cares.
Me: "Hey mind giving me your number?"
HB: "Why?"
Me: "Why not?"
HB: "Sorry I don't give numbers blah blah People call all the time, especially when they're drunk blah blah"
Me: "Then turn off your phone"
HB: some lame excuse, I wasn't paying attention.
Next class, said hi to a HB8 that I sort of know from last week. Got the tests handed back. I got a 3/10 she got a 10.5/10. Hated her for being smarter than me, she laughed and did a quick kino touch on my shoulder as she got to her seat. I decided to keep her as a friend, I've got better ones to deal with.
Next class, sat next to another HB9 I'm familiar with (We introduced each other a few days ago, got her number already). Talked briefly about classes. Luckily we have the same class but at a different time. She wanted to "study" with me before the exam. I told her I was busy all week (which is actually true), so I'll give her a call. Now I'm not sure which is best, my place or hers. I still live with my parents unfortunately, but I'm afraid I'd get lost trying to find her place.
Hopefully I'll get a portfolio going of the girls I meet. I need to invest in a cell phone with camera. Mine's horribly outdated.
Had a quick convorsation and a few hi's, but I never count, it's almost second nature to me now.
I'd say Day 1 was pretty awesome, sat next to a HB9, did some fluff talk about NO since her cousin is out helping people down there. Towards the end of class, it sort of went like this, I know I screwed up, but who cares.
Me: "Hey mind giving me your number?"
HB: "Why?"
Me: "Why not?"
HB: "Sorry I don't give numbers blah blah People call all the time, especially when they're drunk blah blah"
Me: "Then turn off your phone"
HB: some lame excuse, I wasn't paying attention.
Next class, said hi to a HB8 that I sort of know from last week. Got the tests handed back. I got a 3/10 she got a 10.5/10. Hated her for being smarter than me, she laughed and did a quick kino touch on my shoulder as she got to her seat. I decided to keep her as a friend, I've got better ones to deal with.
Next class, sat next to another HB9 I'm familiar with (We introduced each other a few days ago, got her number already). Talked briefly about classes. Luckily we have the same class but at a different time. She wanted to "study" with me before the exam. I told her I was busy all week (which is actually true), so I'll give her a call. Now I'm not sure which is best, my place or hers. I still live with my parents unfortunately, but I'm afraid I'd get lost trying to find her place.
Hopefully I'll get a portfolio going of the girls I meet. I need to invest in a cell phone with camera. Mine's horribly outdated.
Had a quick convorsation and a few hi's, but I never count, it's almost second nature to me now.
Vanilla
Senior Don Juan
Day 2
Talked to this HB8 that seems REALLY into me, tons of kino during class, I couldn't get the balls to do it during class
She seems always happy to see me and laughing. Got her number, I was almost shocked on how easy it was and I made sure the one that rejected me yesterday was watching at the time.
Did more on college work today than going out on the field since I feel I'm behind a bit plus it was pretty cold outside, wasn't feeling up for it. Also, I have a coffee break tonight with a HB9, my turn to use lots of kino.
Total: 3 numbers, 1 date, 1 rejection
Talked to this HB8 that seems REALLY into me, tons of kino during class, I couldn't get the balls to do it during class
She seems always happy to see me and laughing. Got her number, I was almost shocked on how easy it was and I made sure the one that rejected me yesterday was watching at the time. Did more on college work today than going out on the field since I feel I'm behind a bit plus it was pretty cold outside, wasn't feeling up for it. Also, I have a coffee break tonight with a HB9, my turn to use lots of kino.
Total: 3 numbers, 1 date, 1 rejection
shaken_not_stirred
Don Juan
Nice work Vanilla. I miss my college days. Was lazy yesterday, didn't go out after work. I will try tonight. Then going to Dave Matthews concerts Fri, Sat, and Sun nights. Fri and Sun I'm going with a female friend...cute...but not hot. Not into her as anything more than a friend but she wishes it were otherwise. There will be tons of HB's at the Dave concert...so I'd like to capitolize. I went to a wedding with her last weekend and was hitting on this girl at the table with us... didn't seem to bother her that much...
do you guys ever try to sarge when out with girls that you're friends with? does that piss them off? i know a dj shouldn't give a schit, but i do still value my friendships... maybe i can sarge while standing in line for drinks at the concert.
do you guys ever try to sarge when out with girls that you're friends with? does that piss them off? i know a dj shouldn't give a schit, but i do still value my friendships... maybe i can sarge while standing in line for drinks at the concert.
what up pimps. this eye contact and smiling exercise has made me realize that many women that come off as "too hot for everybody" are actually insecure little girls. They hide behind their giant sunglasses and designer clothing and seem intimidating to the men who don't try to figure them out. Anyway, I had wonderful s#x last night.
shaken: if you sarge chicks while your friend is there, it will show her that you have balls. she will probably become attracted to you. Def go for it right in front of her.
shaken: if you sarge chicks while your friend is there, it will show her that you have balls. she will probably become attracted to you. Def go for it right in front of her.
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
shaken_not_stirred
Don Juan
well, one night left of the DMB concert. so many hot girls there. i talked to a few at the concert...i don't know if that counts though cause 90 percent are either drunk or high or both. was hittin on the two girls sittin next to me right in front of my friend. one even asked for my number. i think it made my friend jealous. she was tellin me how much those girls wanted me.
then i ended up drinking too much and made out with my friend in the parking lot before driving home. this **** is gonna get messy. i don't really wanna date this girl. i'm not gonna apologize or really make much of a deal out of it cause ya know what, i'm tryin takin on the "i don't give a ****" attitude that girls seem to love. i suppose i'll have to address it at some point since she's a friend.
whoever says you can't date once you are friends is an idiot. as long as you are the one that puts her in LJBF camp, then the option is always available to you. maybe its just when its the other way around that you are screwed...or not as the case may be.
ok, i need some pushing here. i need to get my ass out and sarge this week. anyone else got a report. mine sucks.
then i ended up drinking too much and made out with my friend in the parking lot before driving home. this **** is gonna get messy. i don't really wanna date this girl. i'm not gonna apologize or really make much of a deal out of it cause ya know what, i'm tryin takin on the "i don't give a ****" attitude that girls seem to love. i suppose i'll have to address it at some point since she's a friend.
whoever says you can't date once you are friends is an idiot. as long as you are the one that puts her in LJBF camp, then the option is always available to you. maybe its just when its the other way around that you are screwed...or not as the case may be.
ok, i need some pushing here. i need to get my ass out and sarge this week. anyone else got a report. mine sucks.