afc_recovering
Don Juan
Introduction
All right... we're in our third week now!!
After completing last week's lesson, you should now be much more comfortable speaking with strangers. This is a powerful skill that will serve you for years to come in many areas of your life. Now, let's take this skill to the next level...
Purpose of this lesson: At this point, we now have learned to maintain eye contact and greet and hold brief conversations with strangers.
Now, for this week, we are going to hold conversations with strangers, but this time the strangers will be women we would consider dating. This is the final step before we go for a number close, and by the time this week is over, we will be even closer to our goals!
The Exercises
While last week we went out and spoke with ten strangers, male or female, young or old, this time our weekly exercise is to go and hold a short conversation (2 – 10 minute each in length) with women that you would normally be interested in dating.
Now, this may seem a little daunting for some people, but when you stop and think about it, there really is no difference between a drop-dead gorgeous babe and middle-aged guy, at least when it comes to holding a brief conversation.
To be successful, just keep everything in perspective... humans are humans. Do this and you won't have any more trouble with this lesson than you did with the one from last week.
Also, in addition to the reading material from this week, you might want to refresh on the reading material from last week since those articles will be just as useful.
After each conversation, write the results in your journal. After completing the assignment, report back to the response thread and share with us one or two of your encounters.
You have until this time next week, to finish this lesson. As well, keep on practicing the skills you learned in the previous two lessons, so that you don't lose them.
And don't forget the 3-second rule discussed in the previous lesson. You'll find that it will be ten times more powerful now, since it will force you to overcome the fear that often develops when you think too much about approaching an attractive girl. Here's a copy-and-paste of the 3-second rule from last week...
"Also, a tip that might help you with this lesson, and the next few lessons, is the 3 second rule (You can find it on ASF). What this means is that when you find someone you might be interested in approaching, don't give yourself more than 3 seconds from the moment you are able, to approach them. Anything longer than 3 seconds highly increases the chance that your nerves will work against you, and that you'll chicken out. Even if you have nothing planned to discuss with them, you'll find that you'll amazingly have something to say if you can only force your feet to propel you to the person."
Okay DJs, let's keep up the momentum. We're getting closer and closer!
Remainders
Credos
AFC_Recovering
wunnaBsmooth
I think Impact said that you had until Thursday night to report so, Krackmoe, Nexxus and Impact can still be in the running and I will edit the list upon your responses. (Respond in the old thread)
Personally, I would love other people to help myself out, and I'm sure Credos and wunnaBsmooth agrees. So post your FR's and try to help us out with ours, especially those who couldn't complete the previous weeks. Keep trying
All right... we're in our third week now!!
After completing last week's lesson, you should now be much more comfortable speaking with strangers. This is a powerful skill that will serve you for years to come in many areas of your life. Now, let's take this skill to the next level...
Purpose of this lesson: At this point, we now have learned to maintain eye contact and greet and hold brief conversations with strangers.
Now, for this week, we are going to hold conversations with strangers, but this time the strangers will be women we would consider dating. This is the final step before we go for a number close, and by the time this week is over, we will be even closer to our goals!
The Exercises
While last week we went out and spoke with ten strangers, male or female, young or old, this time our weekly exercise is to go and hold a short conversation (2 – 10 minute each in length) with women that you would normally be interested in dating.
Now, this may seem a little daunting for some people, but when you stop and think about it, there really is no difference between a drop-dead gorgeous babe and middle-aged guy, at least when it comes to holding a brief conversation.
To be successful, just keep everything in perspective... humans are humans. Do this and you won't have any more trouble with this lesson than you did with the one from last week.
Also, in addition to the reading material from this week, you might want to refresh on the reading material from last week since those articles will be just as useful.
After each conversation, write the results in your journal. After completing the assignment, report back to the response thread and share with us one or two of your encounters.
You have until this time next week, to finish this lesson. As well, keep on practicing the skills you learned in the previous two lessons, so that you don't lose them.
And don't forget the 3-second rule discussed in the previous lesson. You'll find that it will be ten times more powerful now, since it will force you to overcome the fear that often develops when you think too much about approaching an attractive girl. Here's a copy-and-paste of the 3-second rule from last week...
"Also, a tip that might help you with this lesson, and the next few lessons, is the 3 second rule (You can find it on ASF). What this means is that when you find someone you might be interested in approaching, don't give yourself more than 3 seconds from the moment you are able, to approach them. Anything longer than 3 seconds highly increases the chance that your nerves will work against you, and that you'll chicken out. Even if you have nothing planned to discuss with them, you'll find that you'll amazingly have something to say if you can only force your feet to propel you to the person."
Okay DJs, let's keep up the momentum. We're getting closer and closer!
Remainders
Credos
AFC_Recovering
wunnaBsmooth
I think Impact said that you had until Thursday night to report so, Krackmoe, Nexxus and Impact can still be in the running and I will edit the list upon your responses. (Respond in the old thread)
Personally, I would love other people to help myself out, and I'm sure Credos and wunnaBsmooth agrees. So post your FR's and try to help us out with ours, especially those who couldn't complete the previous weeks. Keep trying
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