bootcamp week three objectives completed
ok, my mind is a bit fuzzy so i'm going to have to think hard to try and remember what i did but here goes
friday, had a poker night with the boys and went out afterwards
1. 3 set sitting at the couch (hb 6, 7, 6), i was able to steal the seat of the one sitting in the middle and lock myself into the set, ran some pretty solid game, the cute one in the middle was already engaged, they were from out of town and just visiting for the weekend, later we were also able to venue change, lost them at the new venue, my friends tried to get the two single girls to dance with them, but the girls told me that they thought my friends were sleazy, anyways i kept trying but was not able to regain their attention after that
2. 2 set sitting on a couch (hb 7, 9), a blonde and a brunette, tried to steal their seat so i could lock myself into the set but was unsuccessful, they kept negging my story telling and the blonde said that i sounded like i had been rehearsing the routine, she was right but i had no comback, some guy came along, they greeted him and shut me out of the set
3. 2 set on the dance floor (hb 6,6), chatted for a few minutes but she couldn't hear what i was saying so i tried to show them some cool dance moves, no go, she was not very receptive and kept backing away
4. 2 set sitting down at a couch against the wall (hb 6,6), approached, ran an opener using my man bag, they weren't very receptive, so i walked away
didn't really see any other potentials, the music was dumb and i wasn't having any fun so i left
saturday night, got an invite to see a friend playing with his band, went with rbb, decided that there was a lot of hbs walking around and that it would be good to do some night time street approaches
5. street approach, a blonde and a brunnette (hb 7,7), i asked them what they thought of my man bag, they said it was cool, should have kept going but it was my first approach for the night
6. street approach, blonde and brunnette (hb 6,7), opened and used a time constraint, ran some pretty good game, tried to venue change them but they said that they were supposed to meet someone elsewhere, didn't know what to say to that so we ejected
7. street approach, blonde and brunette (hb 8,9), wow these chicks were hot, i opened and was able to get the brunette to stop and chat to me for a bit, the blonde just kept walking away, stopped and waited for her friend to finish with me, she was actually really nice, dammit i should have number closed or something!
found our way into a club
8. 3 set (hb 5,6,7), rbb went in first and then i followed when he signaled me, he worked on the 6 and i worked on the 5 and 7, they were already taken, so i didn't have much success although rbb seemed to be doing quite good, later he told me the 6 was already taken, got to give him props for handling the other dudes in the set though
9. 4 set sitting down on a couch (hb 5, 6, 7, 8), opened the set and managed to run some good game, they were from out of town, i asked if any of them were single but they were all taken, eventually we tried to venue change them but they said that they might meet up with us later
left the club for the next venue, got there and they wouldn't let us in because we didn't have the right kind of id
10. 2 set (hb 6,7) can't really remember what happened, we got a bit of a conversation going, they said that they were all in the same group, there were about another 6 hbs there but standing towards the stop light, they said something about a birthday or hens night or something, i can't really remember, anyways it didn't go anywhere so we ejected
went on a day 2 today with a chick i met at a club, we met at the beach, her friends were there, i said i couldn't stay long, nothing much happened, we chatted and then i left, she messaged me a few hours later saying that it was nice to see me today, so i think i did ok
messaged a chick i had met last week, we had spoken on the phone on wednesday and she seemed really into, she replied to my text message so i tried calling her, she didn't answer so i left her a message on her voice mail saying that i have something pretty interesting to tell her, still no reply, dammit, i'll message her again in a minute with something ****y funny
ok that's it for week 3, the night time street approaches were a first for me, and actually it was a lot of fun, i'll have to add it to my weekly program
week 3 has been pretty easy for me as i am pretty good at approaching, although i can feel the pressure coming with week 4 around the corner
i probably need to work on my material some more so i have a few openers that i can practice and use
i supposed i still have the same problems in terms of not being able to extract and escalate consistently
right now i feel pretty crap actually, this chick hasn're returned my call and i really thought she was into me, i have to learn to stick to it and not eject anymore, so week 4 is going to be a real challenge