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protienpowder

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k, so i was at this one party, trying for the first time the dj techniques on this website. Later on in the night, i was watching a beer pong tournament, and I was leaning against the table, when a girl I had introduced myself to earlier leans against me, with her boob squished against my back.
AT the time, i was like 'nah, she probably doesn't notice that', but later I realize that oh course she realizes that, the boob in a very sensitive body part. She was giving me a good signal and I blew it just like the AFC I am.

Anyways, nothing I can do about it now but learn from this.
what is the best way I could've reacted to this?

Also, I had this insident before.. . . .in highschool before a big chemistry test, a small group of us went to the teachers class room to ask him some questions. I was leaning against the table when a hot girl who arrives late leans herself so that one of her boobs squishes against by back. At the time I just thought she was trying to get a good position since it was kinda crowded at the teachers desk. . .. . .and I just stood there trying my best to pretend that she wasn't there.
 

MrCode

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All this means is that there is probably some form of interest from her. This is just kino. What you should not do is mention the fact that you noticed this...kino is the kind of thing you don't verbalize unless you are good at C&F and can make a nice comment out of it.

But I would say just use it as a nice sign and start chatting her up.
 

Le Parisien

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This happens to all of us I guess. And I think until we try something, we never know what it is.

It might be that she really didn't "consciously" notice, or maybe she was just teasing you and toying with your mind, or maybe she was really interested.

Personally, I'd say that in at least 50% percent of the cases I had, I tried to "wait a little" so the true intentions would unfold, and most of them are just teasing/attention wh*ring/ego stroking. So I'm glad that I didn't really act on these "opportunities":rolleyes: .

One important thing to know is that they will NOT do this if they feel physically repulsed by you, but this fact alone doesn't guarantee you success at all.

I just came back from a friend's house warming party this Saturday night. At least two of the girls there did this to me while groups of people were talking to each other. One of them only had her body somewhat touching mine, the other one clearly had her boobs stuck on my back for quite a while.
Since I'm a smart guy:whistle: , I already checkded the whole situation with my friend beforehand, these two girls were taken, and their boyfriends were talking to other people just a few steps away.
I could tell the girls were checking me out, but I'm not the kind of dude to entertain an exciting and flirtacious conversation with the lady only to have the boyfriend take her home at the end of the night and reap the reward...:nono: :whistle:


So what I mean is this: don't get too excited too early and start fantasizing about things. "Tread carefully" if you decide to go for it.
 

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If you are ever in a situation again when you are unsure if a girl is interested... ASSUME she likes you!!! Its really that easy.
 

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But how do you go about it, this happend to me and I just ignored it. The thing is, how do you make something out of it?
 

GloriouslyInsane

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Go behind her one day and put your crotch on her butt,if she doesn't do anything it's definitely your cue.
 

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lol.
 
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