Boo!!

[Die Hard]

Not looking for advice or something, I just felt the need to write about my night.

So I'm at social dancing (Salsa, Bachata etc.) and there's this chick giving me the eyes quite early in the evening. She wasn't that special, barely a 7 but there was something about her... I don't know why, but I got kinda shy when she looked at me, that rarely happens to me anymore! It messed with my mind, I was reluctant to approach. Plus, I'm not that good of a dancer (been dancing under a year now) so I'm not too confident asking girls to dance anyway. She also had this gang of girls and guys with whom she was standing all the time, I couldn't just approach her, I basically had to approach the whole gang.

Bullsh!t exuses, I know Long story short, I was acting like a giant wussy...

So we keep playing the eye contact game for over an hour (of course I was dancing with other chicks in the meantime) and then at the second last song of the evening, everyone from her gang went on the dancefloor and she was standing there alone. So I finally ask her to dance... It was a Bachata, so I put my arm around her and decide to check how far she will allow me to pull her towards me. Apparently, all the way...lol. She pressed herself tightly against me, with her leg against my d!ck (I got an instant boner, which she could obviously feel) and kept rubbing it all through the dance.

I dunno what the fvck was going on but this chick made me shy and nervous as hell. Apparently, it was mutual. I tried to look her in the eyes at several moments during the dance but she didn't dare to keep her eyes locked with mine and quickly looked away with a nervous smile on her face. It was like we were some high school kids, who had never been close to anyone from the opposite sex before... She stept on my toes, lol and was really ashamed of it, but I told her it was okay and pressed my cheek against hers.

Anyway, we finished the dance and then she went to the toilet. I decided to go home as the last song of the evening started playing and my friend wanted tot leave. I go there weekly and know that she does too, so I just left it at that.

When I got home, I decided to find her on Facebook, as her sister is an acquintance of a friend of mine. So I found her profile and...........




She's married and has a kid.


Boo!!

 

[Scaramouche]

Dear Diehard,
Your dancing seems to be progressing nicely....Married Dolly Birds Dancing?....Quite common,and yeah they will often flirt,it brings a little light into that dark cage called marriage...As for Dalliance?...generally doesn't happen,usually because there are so many young Women at dances and far less Guys.

 

[Jitterbug]

I've found that the boldest chicks in dancing are always the married or been in LTR for years. Single ones need to get drunk if they want to reach that level (and they rarely do).

I slept with one a while ago with whom I thought we so had something going on like your case... sparks & sh1t started flying as we danced & touched each other. It was all romance novel magical BS. Turned out that she's married to some poor bastard overseas and was just back in town for a holiday. Nearly broke my heart lol

Had another one of those encounters this year when I was out of state. Thought we totally had something there (she was even blabbing to my chick friend about our "connection"), so I told her to visit my state, which was when I found out that she's living with her BF and he was just away for work. Stupid guy pays for everything, she doesn't have to work other than on her fluffy arts "career".

Have a married chick hitting on me at dancing atm. She plays grab arse like a teenager lol. Her interactions with me solely consist of physically grabbing my body and sexually suggestive talks, even when there's no context for it. I only found out that she's married cos I ran into her husband totally out of the blue at some other event when I brought up my dancing. Poor fella... he's the very jealous type, too. As soon as he heard that I dance that style, he asked "oh, do you know my wife, XYZ?". Yes my friend I do know your wife... rofl

Once I had a dance with a tipsy trophy wife of some rich old arsehole. Very sexy, for she was uninhibited and didn't wear much, and very scary because there's this huge mofo nearby who's the bodyguard sent by hubby to keep an eye on the wife and any young swingin' d1ck who thinks he has a shot. No wonder sex in dangerous situations is such a turn-on lol

I've got just about a million of those stories from dancing. Needless to say, lots of bored married and LTR women take up dancing to troll for d1cks on the side. The excitement from being desired again (since their beta husbands bored the living sh1t out of them) makes them appear much bolder than other women. Bachata in my city in particular is full of them, because it's one of the sexy dances.

 

[Die Hard]

Yeah, I have a few married or divorced cougars chasing me as well. I love how easy they are... One of them had a very fast and energetic salsa dance with another guy tonight, so she came to me right after. She was exhausted, breathing heavily... She grabbed my hand and firmly put it on her chest, asking: "can you feel my heart racing?!" Uhhhh, yeah.... LOL That's the kinda stuff you see in movies and fantasize about happening to you in real life. On a sidenote, that one is just begging to get fvcked by me but I'm sort of afraid... She's divorced and has three kids. Now I have never fvcked a mom before, just how much 'damage' does giving birth to a child (let alone THREE) leave 'down there'? Am I going to be disappointed or disgusted?

Anyway, the girl I was getting it on with tonight was only 24 years old. That's why the marriage/kid thing kinda shocked me, I had never expected it. When I think of married women looking to escape their dreadful daily life by going out dancing, I see older women before me, not a 24 year old...

And yes, Scara, my dancing is progressing nicely. Salsa, that is... Found myself some great teachers, they finished within the top ten at the world championships few years ago. I gave up on Merengue, I don't like it. Bachata isn't really improving, but I don't care, I just use it to dry hump hotties haha. No skill needed for that! I wanna start learning Zouk, however!

 

[scrouds]

by 25, most of the first round early marriage chicks are divorcing out and getting single. The lure of the coock carousel is just too great for them and what they could have. The grass always seems greener over there.

 

[Jitterbug]

Yeah like scrouds said. The one I slept with was 25 y.o.

 

[Die Hard]

by 25, most of the first round early marriage chicks are divorcing out and getting single. The lure of the coock carousel is just too great for them and what they could have. The grass always seems greener over there.

Well then, let's show 'em just how green the grass is over here!

 

[Rollo Tomassi]

Just remember, she's some guy's Quality Woman.

 

[Atom Smasher]

Don't women wear wedding bands anymore?!?

 

[5string]

Don't women wear wedding bands anymore?!?

Can't men refrain from fvcking married women? Sorry, a man must be very desperate to sleep with a taken woman when there are so many available that are single. Anything for a little poon I suppose, anything. :nono:

 

[Colossus]

My old gf was REALLY into tango dancing. I went with her a couple times just to be nice, wasnt really my thing though. I was not at all jealous with her but I could see how it would drive some men insane. Guys would drool over her....like every two minutes one would ask her to dance. She had the exotic Brazilian thing going on so I think that added to it, plus she was a good dancer. I was intrigued at how sensual Tango is. She used to tell me many people--married folks included--just go to hook up.

She was really into me but I could see how a woman with weaker interest would cheat readily. Dancing is like clothed sex.

 

[Jitterbug]

Vertical expression of horizontal desires, legalised by music. That's dancing for you.

Don't women wear wedding bands anymore?!?

Not the ones out & about trolling for new d1cks, duh.

Can't men refrain from fvcking married women? Sorry, a man must be very desperate to sleep with a taken woman when there are so many available that are single. Anything for a little poon I suppose, anything.

How could we possibly know in advance? Unless you suggest we do a full investigation of every chick we want to sleep with.

 

[5string]

Brother Jitter

Like Atom asked, don't they wear wedding bands? Nearly all do. A little initial conversation should reveal their status unless they outright lie to a man, which I'm sure they do.

If ya don't know, ya don't know.

My whole point here is that many men know a woman is married but will sleep with her regardless because they are so desperate for some pvssy, despite the fact there are many single women available. It's the same thing as fvcking a fatty or an ug......it's all about desperation! We as men owe it to ourselves to be choosy! Just my thoughts.

 

[Atom Smasher]

I consider it a srike against a brother. To take another man's woman (no matter how much of a whor she is and no matter how castrated he is) is one of the lowest things a man can do.

 

[Jitterbug]

Well to be frank, I care less about such honours as I do about getting shot in the back by a jealous husband.

 

[Die Hard]

Now I have never fvcked a mom before, just how much 'damage' does giving birth to a child (let alone THREE) leave 'down there'? Am I going to be disappointed or disgusted?

Could some of the more experienced guys respond to this, please?

 

[5string]

I consider it a srike against a brother. To take another man's woman (no matter how much of a whor she is and no matter how castrated he is) is one of the lowest things a man can do.

Absolute truth ^^^^^

 

[Die Hard]

I scoff at that idea...

If she wants to cheat on her man, it's her choice. If she's willing to cheat on her husband, then she will, whether it's with you or some other guy.

All's fair in love and war, and that doesn't just count towards the women you deal with, it also counts towards your competitors (other men). I can appreciate the nobility in you guys but honestly, nobility is for the weak.

Would you guys really get that much satisfaction out of the realization that you 'did the right thing' by not fvcking her? Well, I'm sure I'd feel much more satisfied if I DID fvck her. All this nobility bullsh!t is just a delusion, if you ask me...

I guess it has to do with the fear of being cheated on yourself. After all, if even you yourself can't respect someone else's marriage, then how could you ever expect other people to respect your marriage? So by being noble yourself, you're trying to reinforce the thought that others would be noble.

Something like that... It reminds me of the typical AFC thought that your woman would reward you with all her love if you give her all your love. Most of us have learned the hard way that it doesn't work like that, but the same thing goes for this nobility bullsh!t. What possible good does it bring you to be noble and not fvck a married woman? You'll have a safe conscience... Well, what's a conscience? I spoke about that in another post:

http://sosuave.net/forum/showpost.php?p=1847497&postcount=5

AFC's struggle to act like a jerk towards women, even when you explain them that it will attract the women. "No, I have my principles, I will not act like an @sshole". Well, this nobility bullsh!t just boils down to the same thing... Your nobility will bring you nothing. Nice guys finish last and being noble is just another form of being a nice guy. I'm gonna fvck as many women in my life as possible and enjoy all their wonderful pvssies... If they're married and cheat on their man, than he should've made sure he was more alpha than me. Too bad for him, if she wants my d!ck more than that she wants to stay faithfull to him, then I win, GOOD FOR ME! How could it possibly be bad for me if she wants me more than that she wants to stay faithful to him? Other men are my competitors and I consider it an obligation to myself and my own happiness to beat my competitors, not to focus on their succes and limit my own succes. If you wanna be president of the United States and are competing with some other candidate, are you gonna be happy for him when he's doing good in the polls? Hell no, you're gonna try to fvck him over and make sure YOU become the next president. And if a hot married woman gives me obvious IOI's and seems to be down to fvck, then I'm certainly gonna fvck her. Why would I want her to be faifhul to my competitor and not have sex with me? Why would I try to focus on his happiness and disregard my own happiness?

Makes me think of Tony Montana, lol. He wanted Elvira frm the first time he saw her and she was attracted to him as well. He also wanted to work his way up in the business, instead of staying Frank's errand boy. So he could stay a loser, not getting that girl he wanted so badly and just staying an errand boy (like his friend Manolo, who thought they should be happy with what they had accomplished already and recognize that Frank was their boss and they should respect him). Not Tony, he thought Frank was soft and he could do better than him, be better than him. Time to move over, Frank. So Tony and Frank got into a power struggle, it was time to see who was the top dog. Tony came out on top, basically took over Frank's business and got the girl. Too bad for Frank, there can be only one top dog and he didn't came out on top. So fvck him...

If Tony had been a noble man, he would've respected Frank as his boss and be a good boy for him. All the while he would keep dreaming of Elvira and wank himself off each night thinking of her, she would never be his... Well, I'm pretty sure which Tony would be happier and which one I'd wanna be! I'd wanna be Tony the top dog, who beats Frank and gets the girl. But I guess some of you would rather be the noble Tony, remaining the beta male and not getting the girl...

That some ol' bullsheeeet, if you ask me.

I guess I must sound like a totally unethical motherfvcker who likes to fvck other people over and actually that's not who I am. I'm not actively out there looking to destroy other guys by fvcking their wifes. I'd rather find my own woman, make sure I am happy as well as granting other guys their happiness. But if I happen to find myself in that situation where a married woman is willing to fvck me, I surely won't be bothering myself with this nobility bullsh!t you guys seem to be so full off...

 

[Colossus]

Personally I think messing with married women is a bad gamble, just from a pragmatic standpoint.

However most guys, at least on this site, pay no heed to a woman's marital status as long as she's willing to get down. I'm also of the old school belief that knowingly doing so is pretty dishonorable to yourself. Any slight against her husband is committed by her, because it's her choice to do that to him. It's your choice to fvck a married woman. Given the sheer amount of single available women I think it's an opportunistic scavenger mentality. Plus, if we're going to sit atop our high horse and revile married women who skank around, shouldnt we avoid them entirely?? After all if we're so confident in our 'game', then pulling single women should be no problem....hmm.

Just one man's opinion.

 

[Die Hard]

After all if we're so confident in our 'game', then pulling single women should be no problem....hmm.

Can't speak for other members, but personally, I'm not a super DJ who can pick up single women easily whenever I want. If it were up to me, I'd have several plates spinning at any given moment in time but I haven't reached that level yet... I sometimes run into dry spells and might not have any wortwhile girl in my life for 2 months.

But I agree with you that if I actually had more than enough other options in my daily life, I'd certainly pass married women by.