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Boner in High School?

yearsofwisdom

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I was watching ppl grind at a dance and i almost had a boner. if i were to join in and grind im sure i would get a legit one. would a girl mind if i had a boner? we're talking bout high school girls now.


and worst comes to worst how do i stop one?
 

eaglez1177

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If your grinding with a girl, the LAST thing you wanna do is start freaking out over having a boner. It is completely natural and very common to get a boner when grinding with a girl, I mean honestly, what does she expect to happen if shes rubbin her ass on your d*ck?

If you get one, well actually, WHEN you get one, just keep on dancing as normal and move your hips forward a bit and push that thing in there
 

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Try not to get one like, right away, but after a while, it will prob be fine.
 

It doesn't matter how good-looking you are, how romantic you are, how funny you are... or anything else. If she doesn't have something INVESTED in you and the relationship, preferably quite a LOT invested, she'll dump you, without even the slightest hesitation, as soon as someone a little more "interesting" comes along.

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War Against Betaism

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Who cares? They might even like it more; if they feel up on your boner, it's gonna increase their thoughts about sex. Wouldn't you be turned on knowing that a woman is getting wet while you're dancing with her?
 

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Yeah dude, who gives a fvck. I was getting a lap dance last night and I was sporting a huge boner and idgaf. Haha, I actually stood up with the tent in my pants and kinda pushed the girl away and I was like look what you made me do (Playfully showing that I don't care and actually bringing attention to it to make a joke about it) and it made her like even hornier. I sat down and she started rubbing up on my leg even harder and she even grabbed my d!ck! Boners happen.. you're a guy. If you don't make it a big deal than nobody else will.
 

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with my first girlfriend i worried about that too,
she sat on my lap and i tried to get her off cause i knew i would get a boner but she wouldn't get off
so im there thinking holy crap im getting a boner, this is bad....
but she didn't saw anything good or bad about it though im sure she noticed cause it was freakin rock hard

anyways afterwards she sat on my lap more
 

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Am i the only one who saw the irony relating to the post and the OP's name?
Anywho, any high school girl should have some sort of experience with guys and boners & that all guys get them. Think of it as a good thing that your getting a boner, because if you didn't, the girl grinding on you might think your gay :eek:

As a side story: One time in P.E. this one guy was laying on a bench from across the bleachers and me and some friends were just chilling and talking and what not. Now in P.E. you have to wear these basketball shorts; if you don't then you get marked down points. Anyways, these two girls sat on the guys lap while he was lying down. Then as soon as they got up this lump was under this guy's P.E. shorts and we all started laughing. He was still laying down and the girls were playing with his boner laughing and he was still lying there. They were like trying to sit on it and tapped it.
 

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yo me and my friends wear boxer briefs instead of boxers when we go to a place with dances, it keeps your junk your discreet, Ive never gotten one juking (in Chicago area we say that instead of grinding) but all my friends say it works
 

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Well it all depends on the type of girl that u end up grinding with. I wuz at a dance party the other week and i said to this chick "i'm bored lets dance". So i get her to dance but i wuz going to start it off wit a regular dance but she starts grindin on me. I tried my best not to get a boner but i ended up getting a half boner. The funny thing about it wuz that i wuz werin shorts so the girl could feel my half boner. Then she grabs my shorts and pulls me in with all the might and then she starts grinding on me faster and harder. So if u get lucky u might get a girl who likes it if u get a boner but then again u won't know until grind with the girl.
 

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Happened to me sometime back in Dec of 08 at Christmas Ball if I remember correctly. I was scared sh1tless at the time, but I was also completely untouchable, and by that I mean 'in state.' (if you don't know what that is you should find out, it's fvcking amazing)

I just kept dancing, and I don't know if it was my mind or what, but she seemed to be getting closer and rubbing against me more.

Either way it's a win win really, because if she gets scared then you know she has penis-phobia and it's a "next" anyway.
 

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Haha oh dude. You almost got hard WATCHING people grind? That means you will without a doubt get hard when you actually do it.

When I grind I can usually go a full song without going hard (maybe a little swelling, but that's it. Nothing pointy lol).

To answer your question: Yes. HS girls will mind if you dig a massive boner into their back. Try thinking about something else other than the hot chick rubbing on your junk. If you focus on looking cool and trying to dance well then it really does work.
 

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Hahaha yeah that's funny! I was cuddling with a new girl the other day in the park and I got a boner right against her ass. Same problem different situation. Boners are good.

My head: "Oh. Oho. Ho. Hoho. This is fun, I wonder if she'll find out. Yum."

I'm actually happy when it happens, I get in super sexual mode.

Super Sayan style.
 

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Natural Vibe said:
Hahaha yeah that's funny! I was cuddling with a new girl the other day in the park and I got a boner right against her ass. Same problem different situation. Boners are good.

My head: "Oh. Oho. Ho. Hoho. This is fun, I wonder if she'll find out. Yum."

I'm actually happy when it happens, I get in super sexual mode.

Super Sayan style.
Hahaha imagine telling a girl your d*ck has just gone super sayan
 

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eaglez1177 said:
Hahaha imagine telling a girl your d*ck has just gone super sayan
And its going to kamehameha all over her
 
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